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Five Minutes for Marriage

January 2012
A happy marriage is the world's best bargain.
 O.A. Battista
In This Issue:
Bulletin Insert
January Class List
Featured Video Clip
Local Events and News
Research Findings
Cohabitation
Distress and Divorce / Restoration
Healthy Marriage
Blended Families
Youth Ministry / Parenting
Premarital Preparation
Resources For Pastors
Resources to Pass Along
Parting Words

 
The BULLETIN INSERT
for January  encourages couples make one or two joint New Year's resolutions and also offers local opportunities to nurture their relationship.
The January CLASS LIST
offers many opportunities for couples desiring to encourage their relationship. Will you be offering classes/seminars that should be included here? We would be pleased to add them.

 
Tom Dressel, Executive Director
of EMM, and his wife Liz
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FIVE MINUTES FOR MARRIAGE GETS A NEW LOOK

We believe this new format for Five Minutes will assist you to get to the information you need to nurture the marriages within your sphere of influence.

Please be patient as we work to improve. Let Tom Dressel know about the bugs you find, the features you like, those you would like to see added, and those things that could be dropped. Our sole reason in being is to help you help couples find Jesus through their marriages.

 

CANCELLED

I STILL DO 2012 

and PASTOR BREAKFAST  

Along with many of you, the  sponsors of the I Still Do and Pastor Breakfast events are feeling the effect of a contracting economy. These events are cancelled for 2012 with plans moving forward for 2013. We would appreciate your prayers for marriage ministries

 

ART OF MARRIAGE

The Art of Marriage brings together some of the most influential pastors and experts on marriage and family all in one setting. It is a fresh approach to a video event, weaving together engaging stories, real-life testimonies, man-on-the-street interviews and humorous vignettes. Your couples will experience God's design for marriage, details.

Art of Marriage would make a great Marriage Week (Feb 7-14) seminar. Every Marriage Matters has a copy of this 6 hour DVD series available for church loan, contact 
Tom Dressel.
JANUARY'S FEATURED VIDEO 
This month at EveryMarriageMatters.org we take a humorous look at expectations through a computer program called iMarriage.
LOCAL EVENTS and NEWS
Project Marry Well Training seeks to help you build a biblically sound, evidence-based strategy for preparing teens and singles for successful marriages.Equip your youth ministry team and  parents. Northwest Family Services is seeking training locations, the following are presently scheduled: 
  Friday, Jan 20 at Northwest Family Services
  Saturday, Feb 25 at Living Hope Church, Oregon City

Art of Marriage Seminar This powerful DVD based seminar will be hosted by Abundant Life Church, Happy Valley, on January 27 and 28. 
RESEARCH FINDINGS
A Dividend Wall Street Cannot Deliver The wealth of nations depends in no small part on the health of the family. From New Zealand publication Mercatornet.com 
Are Married Men Better Workers Than Single Ones? From Jim Daly's comment on the Focus on the Family blog

Can't Buy Love: Materialism Kills Marriages From ABC News.

Fewer marriages, fewer jobs, what's contributing to poverty? From the Atlanta Journal-Constitution

Holding Off On Having KidsThe bleak economic picture we're seeing today, with high unemployment and low pay is discouraging many families from having kids. From the Wall Street Journal

Number of long-lasting marriages in U.S. has risen Three in four couples who married after 1990 celebrated a 10-year anniversary. From the Washington Post.

Teen Parents in Foster Care: Risk Factors and Outcomes for Teens and Their Children From a Child Trends Report.

Want to build wealth? Get married It is arguably the single most important personal financial decision you will ever make. But few people see it that way. From the (Canadian) National Post.

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COHABITATION
Married couples at a record low More people are deciding to live together now and wed later. From the Washington Post.

The Ring Makes All the Difference Describes why marriage is better than cohabitation - for everyone. From Focus on the Family.

DISTRESS AND DIVORCE / RESTORATION
18 Shocking Statistics About Children and Divorce from Larry Bilotta's Marriage Success Secrets.
Getting Rid of the Green-Eyed Monster in Your Marriage From Dr Gary and Barbara Rosberg.
The Descendants movie "It's by far the best movie I've ever seen dealing with extramarital affairs. In fact, this movie is unique in that it doesn't depict the affair itself at all. The affair has already ended when the movie begins, so it focuses strictly on the aftermath." - Peggy  Vaughan, author of Beyond Affairs (dearpeggy.com)
Second Chances: A Proposal to Reduce Unnecessary Divorces From the Institute for American Values. 
HEALTHY MARRIAGE

Allies Every Husband Needs Men do crazy things when other men are around. But they also achieve the impossible. An excerpt from a great new book from Brian Goin.

Reasons to Stay Married discusses several aspects of commitment. From author Joe Beam.

Sex is the Key to a Happy Retirement Pensioners with an active sex life are significantly more likely to enjoy a happy retirement. This Telegraph article reports from the United Kingdom.
Five Steps To Startup-Proof A Relationship Encouragement to entrepreneurs from Forbes Magazine.
Thanks For a Whole Lot of Nothings My gratitude for everyday actions improved our opinions of each other. From Marriage Partnership. 
The Generous Marriage Research from the National Marriage Project reported in the New York Times blog.

The Truth About Deception How manipulation sabotages marriage Sherry Van Zante.

The Parental Happiness Curve Why are parents with four-plus children happier, on average, than those with just a couple? Reported by Mercator.net.