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Romancing Arizona at the MIM
On Valentine's Day, my husband surprised me by taking me to the Musical Instrument Museum (MIM). Romancing Arizona was the theme of the evening and it was a treat from start to finish. Towards the end of the evening, as we sat and enjoyed watching couples dancing to the wonderful band that was playing, a thought crossed my mind that I knew I'd want to include in this newsletter: I was struck by all of the sizes and shapes of love! The dance floor was a study in happiness and affection.
Those couples in motion seemed to embody the qualities of what happy long-term couples do. In unions that thrive, couples are positive towards one another, are affectionate, and have sex.
Over the course of the month, I have been drawn to several articles depicting happy, well-known couples. The same trend I observed at the MIM was also reflected in famous couples as well! I'd like to share a few quick quotes that grabbed my attention.
(British prime minister) Margaret Thatcher: ("I was a better politician because of Denis.") "If you've got security and certainty behind you, if you come home to total loyalty and affection, then your basic worries in life are gone."
(Decathlete) Dan O'Brien: "...I'm a good husband, a good uncle. I once thought those were things that just happen. Now, I understand that you make them happen."
(Debilitated wrestling coach) Mike Powell: "You can be a macho man and love your wife. You can be a macho man and be sensitive." Mike tells wrestlers that he loves them and then, when they blush, he says there's no shame in expression. (Sports Illustrated, Feb. 13, 2012) "You don't have to say it back," he says. "Just know it's OK to say it."
(Astronaut) John Glenn and his wife Annie: Asked in a People February 20, 2012 article: What's the secret of staying together for so long?, they answered:
JG: "On April 6 it will be 69 years! We've never known a time when we didn't know each other. Our parents were good friends and visited back and forth. They used to kid us after we were married that they had us together in the playpen. And they did.
AG: "You know, growing up together as we did, all I can say is that we just enjoyed each other. And even now we like to be together. Every now and then we'll have an argument - everybody has arguments. But never in 69 years have we had a fight."
(Businessman and author) Harvey Mackay: "As I like to say, little things don't mean a lot - they mean everything."
So while our relationships may look different, whether you are an astronaut or a school teacher, loving healthy relationships have the same foundation of everyday love and affection. May those of us in committed, happy relationships pay attention to the shared wisdom noted above and continue to show our significant other our love as if every day was Valentine's Day!
Small Things Often
What You Do and Say Every Day Matters
Respect always; Repair Often
Remember to keep the happy in your ever-afters!
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