tag:billcoffin.org,2013:/posts Coffin Corner 2024-04-25T16:41:14Z Bill Coffin tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2105978 2024-04-25T16:41:14Z 2024-04-25T16:41:14Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. How Men Can Help Resolve Tensions Between Work and Family






2. Fostering Healthy Communication Between Parents and Children: Benefits and Tips

Healthy Relationships California




3. Circling the Poles with Skill: The Use of Relationship Enhancement as an Antidote to Polarization

Presenter: Mary Ortwein, MS, LMFT

Saturday, May 18, 2024: 10 am – 1:15 pm (Eastern time zone)




4. Updates on State Policies and Programs to Support Alternative Routes to Education and Employment

Apr 2024 | Jessica Pearson, Ph.D., and Rachel Wildfeuer, Ph.D.


OR

Fathers’ views on family and work after COVID-19 lockdowns

By Elisabeth Duursma and Jane Herbert

https://childandfamilyblog.com/fathers-views-on-family-and-work-after-covid-19-lockdowns/




5.  The Marriage Perspectives in "Pride and Prejudice" and Their Implications 

Xueyu Luo




6. The Power of 100 Years of Research in Informing Policy and Practice for Black Families: Lessons Learned for the Future

May 8, 2024, 02:00 PM 






OPRE/ACF




8. The decisive decade? Mapping key trends among adolescents and young adults in the US

Monday, April 29, 2024, 2:15 PM - 3:30 PM EDT




9. Marriagelessness and the Loss of National Greatness

Catherine Pakaluk






10. 

March Madness and Your Marriage


LESLI DOARES





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Bill


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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2105060 2024-04-21T04:57:03Z 2024-04-21T04:57:04Z Fwd: RE-Filial Conference webinar presentation May 18, 2024


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Subject: RE-Filial Conference webinar presentation May 18, 2024
To: Bill Coffin <billcoffin68@gmail.com>


RE-Filial Conference webinar presentation May 18, 2024
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Please forward this announcement to colleagues and any list serves you may be on

SPECIAL WEBINAR ON
RELATIONSHIP ENHANCEMENT® METHODS

MAY 18, 2024

3-Hour Live Interactive Webinar Via ZOOM

SPONSORED BY
NATIONAL INSTITUTE OF RELATIONSHIP ENHANCEMENT® (NIRE)


In lieu of NIRE's usual Relationship Enhancement / Filial Conference offered each Spring, NIRE is offering this stand alone webinar on a timely topic related to our culture and society at large.

Additional Special Webinars may be offered in the Fall



Circling the Poles with Skill: The Use of Relationship Enhancement as an Antidote to Polarization

Presenter: Mary Ortwein, MS, LMFT

Saturday, May 18, 2024: 10 am – 1:15 pm (Eastern time zone), with one 15-minute break

Live Interactive Webinar via Zoom. 3 CE Credits

To register, please go to: https://nire.org/workshop-registration/

Description:

Polarization has become a buzzword and presence in the highly politicized culture of today.  We, as practitioners of the Educational Model of Therapy and Relationship Enhancement® methods, have skills to diminish the effects of polarization in individuals, families, and the larger culture. We regularly implement those skills in our therapy sessions when we teach and coach couples to use those skills. But do we use Relationship Enhancement® Skills when we discuss personal "hot topic" issues in the public square? How can the unilateral use of the skills in families or in community debates diminish the effects of polarization enough to foster real dialogue that helps people truly consider controversial issues?

This workshop will describe how and why Relationship Enhancement® practitioners can diminish the power of polarized thinking in themselves, their clients, and public discussions.  Participants will begin with a polarity self-assessment quiz. This will be followed by a lecture review of core characteristics of polarity as outlined by Ezra Klein, Bill Doherty, and other students of the polarization phenomenon. 
The second half of the workshop will be interactive. After a demonstration of the use of Deep Empathy, Expression, and Coaching/Facilitation Skills in a polarized situation, participants will practice the use of Relationship Enhancement® Skills to move people toward genuine dialogue on hot topic issues.

Learning Objectives:

At the end of this 3-hour CE workshop participants will be able to:

1.     Identify characteristics of polarized thinking and behavior
2.     Identify elements of polarized thinking within themselves
3.     Use materials provided to describe how to teach the unilateral use of
        Relationship Enhancement® Skills to clients.

Mary Ortwein, MS, LMFT, has more than 30 years of experience personally using, teaching, and writing about the Relationship Enhancement® model with couples and families. She also has more than 30 years of experience working in community with hot topic issues, including abortion, post-divorce parenting, domestic violence, and immigration. After attending a workshop in 2023 about Polarity, Mary has participated in several efforts to diminish the power of polarity in the public square, especially within the Catholic Church.  She recently attended a national Paulist meeting to generate resources for countering polarity and is a member of Braver Angels, an organization created to foster respectful discourse in politics.

Continuing Education: Upon completion, participants receive 3 CE credits for completing this webinar.

IDEALS/NIRE is approved by the Association for Play Therapy to offer continuing education programs specific to play therapy.  APT Approved Provider 95-009.
IDEALS/NIRE is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists.  IDEALS maintains responsibility for the program and its content.
IDEALS/NIRE has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 5560. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. IDEALS/NIRE is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs.
IDEALS/NIRE is approved by the Maryland State Board of Social Work Examiners to offer Category I continuing education programs for social workers.
IDEALS/NIRE maintains responsibility for the program and adhering to the appropriate guidelines required by the respective organizations.

Registration:

Please go to: https://nire.org/workshop-registration/

The standard fee for this webinar is $70.

The fee for currently enrolled graduate students is $20.00 for this webinar.

For further information, please visit www.nire.org

Or call NIRE at 301-680-8977.

Regards to One and All,

Rob Scuka, PhD
Executive Director
NIRE

Ian Masson, MA, LPC
Associate Director
NIRE

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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2104316 2024-04-17T17:00:36Z 2024-04-17T17:00:37Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. Breadwinners, Single Parents, Dual Earners Who’s Overtaxed?





2. 

The decisive decade? Mapping key trends among adolescents and young adults in the US


Monday, April 29, 2024, 2:15 - 3:30 p.m. EDT
Online only: https://www.brookings.edu/events/the-decisive-decade-mapping-key-trends-among-adolescents-and-young-adults-in-the-us/




3. California offers free mental health services for kids and families with new apps. 

ANGELA RODRIGUEZ

 https://www.sanluisobispo.com/news/california/article287519905.html#storylink=cpy




4. Are Americans rediscovering marriage?

LOUIS T. MARCH





5. Boy trouble: why dads are key to closing the gender education gap

fjohnson





6. Having An Unsupportive Partner Can Be Horrible For Your Health

by John Anderer





7.  The role of relationship beliefs in predicting levels and changes of relationship satisfaction

 Fabian Gander1, Maximiliane Uhlich1 , Alex Christoph Traut1 , Marcelle Ariane Saameli1 , Janina Larissa Bühler2 , Rebekka Weidmann3 and Alexander Grob1




8. Family Resilience and Children’s Subjective Well-Being: A Two-Wave Study

by Andreja Brajša-Žganec *,Marija Džida andMaja Kućar




9. FFSP’s New Virtual Clinical Counseling, Another Avenue to Help Sailors, Navy Families

Tim McGough, Fleet and Family Support Programs




10. Get Married: An Interview with Brad Wilcox

Brad Wilcox and Patrick T. Brown




11. Renew Your Love: Spring Cleaning Tips for Your Marriage

Carol Adams





12. Married Americans Thriving at Higher Rates Than Unmarried Adults

BY JONATHAN ROTHWELL




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Bill


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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2102966 2024-04-11T21:45:16Z 2024-04-11T21:45:16Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five

Student's Information

Hailey Reel and Hailey J. McCool




2. Internship and Volunteer Opportunities with NARME




3.  The Development of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Intervention (ACTI) Module on Mental Health among Students with a History of Parental Divorce 

Charles Ganaprakasam, Murali Shanmugam, Kalaivani Ganasegaran





4.  Date nights save relationships

Harry Benson, Marriage Foundation




5. Can’t Buy Me Love: How Romance Wrecked Traditional Marriage

Collectors Weekly, Hunter Oatman-Stanford





CC Weisfeld, EA Dowgwillo, ML Butovskaya, E Olcay…




7. The surprising ways your siblings and your health may be linked

by Michael Merschel, American Heart Association





8. Key takeaways on overcoming polarization to help working families

Ishva Mehta




9. WHAT THE RIGHT GETS WRONG ABOUT DATING AND MARRIAGE

CAROLINE KURT






10. Colleges are baby deserts. That needs to change

Leah Libresco Sargeant



11. Single-minded: South Korea's non-marriage movement




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Bill


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Bill Coffin
tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2101181 2024-04-04T01:34:47Z 2024-04-04T01:34:48Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. "But you know I'm just like you, right?" Exploring Adolescent Dating and Disability

When: Wednesday, April 10, 2024 @ 1:00 pm Pacific/4:00 pm Eastern




2. Degrees of Difference: Male College Enrollment and Completion

Richard Reeves, Will Secker


OR

How men can be invaluable at the dance

RICHARD V REEVES




3. When the Number of Bedrooms in a Home Keeps Parents From Getting Their Kids Back

Stephannie Stokes, WABE, with data analysis by Agnel Philip, ProPublica




4. Romance matters: The role of dating in adolescents’ friendship beginnings and endings

Haoyang Zhang and Diane Felmlee




5. Social Media and Adolescent Health

(2024) NAS


OR

The negative impact of social media and smartphones on children’s mental health

A fireside chat with NYU's Jonathan Haidt

Tuesday, April 9, 2024, 1:30 - 2:30 p.m. EDT


Online only: https://www.brookings.edu/events/the-negative-impact-of-social-media-and-smartphones-on-childrens-mental-health/






6.  RACE FOR RESULTS:  BUILDING A PATHWAY TO OPPORTUNITY FOR ALL CHILDREN




7. New America’s Mental Health Loneliness Survey: Military Perspectives Finds Significant Portion of Military Couples “Often” Feel Lonely
 



8. Growing Uncertainty in Marriage Expectations among U.S. Youth

Joanna R. Pepin and Philip N. Cohenhttps://orcid.org/0000-0003-2839-3144




9.  Predictors of change in relationship satisfaction among Black postpartum mothers

 Danielle M. Weber1 | Chalandra M. Bryant2 | Hannah C. Williamson3 | Kadija Mussa2 | Justin A. Lavner1




10. Parental discord over dads’ role linked to child development shortfalls

By Mike Cummings




11. Building a stronger foundation for American families: Options for Child Tax Credit reform

JOSHUA MCCABE, LEAH SARGEANT




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Bill Coffin
tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2097774 2024-03-20T14:40:45Z 2024-03-20T14:40:46Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. Marriages in the U.S. in 2022 Returned to Pre-Pandemic Levels

 Brian Tsai




2. Tips for Discussing Money Before Marriage




3. Renewing Bonds: Family reconnects at 4th ASOG Marriage Retreat



4. The case for premarital education, even if your partner is your soulmate

Mariya Manzhos


OR

Many still want to get married. But the path to getting there can feel impassable.




5. Pornhub Quits Texas Over Age Verification Law

Posted by Emily Washburn





7. Research shows young people want marriages that last. Here’s how, according to their long-married elders.






8. "Daddy comforts me"-Young Swedish children's perspectives on their family relations before and after their parents' participation in a parenting programme










10. South Korean marriage rate rises for first time in decade


OR





11. French town offers free marriage counselling to save money on housing




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Bill

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Bill Coffin
tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2096396 2024-03-14T02:51:34Z 2024-03-14T02:51:35Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. Family Unfriendly: A Book Event with Timothy P. Carney (replay)




2. Too Much Screen Time or Too Much Guilt? How Child Screen Time and Parental Screen Guilt Affect Parental Stress and Relationship Satisfaction

LN Wolfers, RL Nabi, N Walter - Media Psychology, 2024




3. Understanding African American help‐seeking for romantic relationships: Advocacy, barriers, and considerations

A Hubbard, S Harris, M Dick, DJ McGee - Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 2024




4. “How did you stay together so long?” Relationship longevity, a cross-generational qualitative study

by Christian Heim PhD, MD and Caroline Heim PhD




5. [Free Webinar] How to Involve Dads in Family Resource & Support Centers Workshop

Date & Time: March 26, 2024 | 1 pm-3 pm EST





6. Couples living together on the rise as marriage cools in Seattle
 
Gene Balk




7. Marriage: How to Maximize Happiness in Life and Love (virtual)

Monday, April 8 · 2 - 3 pm EDT




8. Black Marriage Week Conference

 Saturday, March 23, 2024, 9 am to 9 pm




9. The Birth Dearth: Why the Decline in Marriage and Total Fertility Is a Genuine Crisis




10. Preventing Substance Use Disorders Among Military Youth Learning Community



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Bill


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Bill Coffin
tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2095042 2024-03-07T18:57:47Z 2024-03-07T18:57:47Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. New psychology research sheds light on the link between romance and friendships during adolescence

by Eric W. Dolan




2. How Healthy Relationships Can Change Businesses And The World For The Better

Stefanos Sifandos, Forbes Councils Membe





3. The Power of Relationship Education from a Policy Perspective

When: Wednesday, March 13 @ 1:00 pm Pacific/4:00 pm Eastern





4. “Why do they feel sad?” Shared book reading reveals how children learn about others’ emotions

By Peter J. Reschke




5. The invisible pandemic: unplanned childlessness

LOUIS T. MARCH




6. Diverse Early-Life Family Trajectories and Young Children’s Mental Health in the UK

Michaela Šťastná https://orcid.org/0000-0002-8944-2109 mk329@st-andrews.ac.ukJúlia Mikolai, […], and Katherine Lisa Keenan




7. Traumatic brain injury and relationship distress during military deployment and reunion

Leanne K. Knobloch, Bryan Abendschein


OR




8. Parents, Young Adult Children and the Transition to Adulthood

 RACHEL MINKIN, KIM PARKER, JULIANA MENASCE HOROWITZ AND CAROLINA ARAGÃO




9. Family Unfriendly: A Book Event with Timothy P. Carney





10. Demography and Hungarian Family Policy, Part II

Simon P. Kennedy


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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2093501 2024-02-29T05:59:41Z 2024-02-29T05:59:41Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1.  Restoring and Strengthening the American Family

  Delano Squires, M.A.




2. Equity Action Plan




3. Top admiral responds to Sailor quality of life concerns



OR

Australia's Naval Future: Strengthening Ties Between the Fleet and Families

Geeta Pillai



OR

Fleet & Family Support Center Conducts Reintegration Training for Deployed Sailors Aboard USS Sterett


Petty Officer 1st Class Charles J Scudella III




4. Starting with Strengths, Dreams, and Goals

Pooja Curtin and Kaliah Thomas (OFA)




5. Family Unfriendly: A Book Event with Timothy P. Carney

3/12, 5:00 PM to 6:15 PM ET, With Timothy P. Carney | Yuval Levin




6. The enormous cost of raising kids is forcing Aussies to have fewer children – or none at all






7. BYU-Idaho students teach Dating and Marriage Workshops starting this week





8. America Needs a “Black Wives Matter” Movement To Rebuild the Black Family





9. Discussion on Marriage, Economic Opportunity, and Family Flourishing with Melissa Kearney




10. The Bigger the Bling, the Shorter the Marriage?





11.  Intimate Partner Violence Risk Factors: A Vulnerability-Adaptation Stress Model Approach 

Robyn Joy Brunton and Rachel Dryer



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Bill


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Bill Coffin
tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2091913 2024-02-22T16:23:05Z 2024-02-22T16:23:05Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. Relationship satisfaction and family routines of young parents before and during the first year of the COVID-19 pandemic: A latent growth curve analysis

Victoria Weise  ,Felicitas Güttner ,et.al.





2. The UK needs to recognise the costs and benefits of ‘own household fathers’





3. Reported marital harmony -- or conflict -- accounts for nearly ten percent of the variation in mental health self-assessments in a broad study of Australian adults





4. The Power of Relationship Education from a Policy Perspective

 Wednesday, March 13, 2024 @ 1:00 pm Pacific/4:00 pm Eastern





5. How much is a baby worth? A $75,000 bonus, this South Korean firm says.

By Min Joo Kim


OR

Teens no longer believe marriage to be essential, survey says

https://koreajoongangdaily.joins.com/news/2024-02-19/national/socialAffairs/Teens-no-longer-believe-marriage-to-be-essential-survey-says/1982422

OR

Japan heads for 'marriage ice age' with lowest number in 90 years

MASAKI ISHIHARA, Nikkei staff writer





6. Latino parents support policies addressing social media’s impact on children’s mental health






7. Marriage is not as effective an anti-poverty strategy as you’ve been led to believe

  1. Professor of Law, Fordham University

  2. Professor of Law, University of Minnesota

  3. Professor of Law, University of Virginia




OR


How having conversations with children builds their language — and strengthens family connections

Kimberly Hillier





8. Ginny Roth: When it comes to marriage and babies, we can’t just mind our own business





9. Military Marriage Divorce Rate: Understanding Why It’s So High

Nicole Sheehey




10. 5 Things Wives Want Their Husbands to Know About Sex

The Stronger Marriage Podcast with Trey & Lea





11. 3 Ways to Nurture Your Love and Sustain Your Marriage During the Chaos of Parenthood

Abigail P.







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Bill



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Bill Coffin
tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2088982 2024-02-14T21:43:14Z 2024-02-14T21:43:15Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. What else birth control does







3. A 100-Year Review of Research on Black Families

Chrishana M. Lloyd
Mavis Sanders
Sara Shaw
Abigail Wulah
Hannah Wodrich
Kristen Harper
Zabryna Balén






4. Education, Gender, and Family Formation
Hanna VirtanenMikko SillimanTiina Kuuppelomäki and Kristiina Huttunen

No 116, ETLA Working Papers from The Research Institute of the Finnish Economy





5. 30% of engaged couples delaying wedding over financial burden, survey finds


OR

Finding purpose in life leads to more dates





6. Children are in crisis, but no-one mentions family breakdown

Lucy Marsh is the PR and Communications Officer at FET




7. Proportion of people married or in civil partnerships falls below 50%

Aine Fox





8. We must pay more attention to young men

Richard Reeves




9. Hidden Expectations Can Become Irreconcilable Differences





10. The 5 Pitfalls of Enabling Adult Children

Jeffrey Bernstein Ph.D. for PT




11. The Housing Crunch Is Causing Americans To Delay Marriage and Children





12. Love letters that led to a Maine couple’s marriage give glimpse of life during World War II

Megan Gray





13. 16th National Marriage Week Focuses on Constant Renewal This Year




14. First Things First: How to navigate different political views in marriage

Lauren Hall / First Things First




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Bill





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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2086620 2024-02-08T22:00:55Z 2024-02-08T22:00:56Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five

w/ W. Bradford Wilcox | February 12 at 5:30 PM | 

American Enterprise Institute 

https://www.aei.org/events/get-married-why-americans-must-defy-the-elites-forge-strong-families-and-save-civilization/



2. Looking for love? Try finding purpose as well

Source: Washington University in St. Louis





3. Marriage Support Increased to 15 Thousand TL in Istanbul Metropolitan Municipality




4. The Quality of Parent-Child Relationships in U.S. Families

BY JONATHAN ROTHWELL





5. 6 Minutes to Improve Your Relationship





6. Young People’s Perspective and Thoughts on Relationships Today:
A Conversation with Marline E. Pearson

When: Wednesday, February 14, 2024 @ 1:00 pm Pacific/4:00 pm Eastern




7. Black Family Thriving Initiative

Urban Institute




8. Facing the Challenge of Marriage

John Cuddeback




9. Strong parental support lowers the depression risk of young adults, study finds

MICHAEL TANENBAUM
PhillyVoice Staff




10. UCF Marriage and Family Research Institute Hosts Research Showcase for 20th Anniversary

NATALIE FEDOR






11. Why Is the Pundit Class Suddenly So Marriage-Obsessed?

JOANNA WEISS





12. State Paid Parental Leave Policy: A Tool to Reduce Inequality Within and Between Families

David W. Rothwell, M.S.W., Ph.D.




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Bill

















































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Bill Coffin
tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2083762 2024-02-01T23:58:28Z 2024-02-01T23:58:29Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. Research Snapshot: Motivations and Challenges for Grandparent–Grandchild Outdoor Play in Early Childhood

Duflos, M., Lane, J., & Brussoni, M.






2. Blame Women For High Divorce Rates That Hurt Women More Than Men

BY: BEVERLY WILLETT




3. Self-Care Tips for Family Services Professionals and Home Visitors

Head Start® and Early Head Start®



OR

Director Office of Regional Operations

https://www.usajobs.gov/job/772229100

OR

ACTIVITIES FOR DADS & KIDS




4. Proportion of married people in England and Wales falls below 50% for first time





5. Childless Future? Birth Rate Plunging as Millennials Decide Against Being Parents




6. 

Couples: Caring for oneself can lead to happier relationships -- on both sides


Martin-Luther-Universität Halle-Wittenberg

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2024/01/240123122142.htm


7. Empowering Every Child: Unveiling the Success Sequence Model for Success in Both School and Life
1:00 pm - 2:00 pm, February 28, 2024
https://www.heritage.org/education/event/empowering-every-child-unveiling-the-success-sequence-model-success-both-school-and

OR

January 31, 2024Safeguarding Kids Online: How to Clean Up Big Tech’s Mess

https://www.heritage.org/technology/event/safeguarding-kids-online-how-clean-big-techs-mess


8. Upcoming marriage celebration made accessible for those throughout Utah

AUBREY HOLDAWAY
https://usustatesman.com/upcoming-marriage-celebration-made-accessible-for-those-throughout-utah/


9. Love That Lasts: Equal partnership key to couple's 59-year marriage
BY MICHELLE LONDON michelle.london@thmedia.com


10. Available next week

Heaven in Your Home Letters & Guide: Inspiration & Tools for Building a Trinity House 

Flexibound 

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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2080126 2024-01-24T20:27:22Z 2024-01-24T20:27:22Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five 500




1. Why a growing number of American men say they are in a ‘friendship recession’

https://www.pbs.org/newshour/show/why-a-growing-number-of-american-men-say-they-are-in-a-friendship-recession




2. The Growing Ignorance of the Benefits of Marriage—and Why It’s Dangerous

Rachel Sheffield




3. The Couple Who Fell in Love in a Nazi Death Camp

Keren Blankfeld




4. Does your ‘love language’ really matter? Scientists are skeptical.

By Richard Sima,WAPO


OR

Using the Love Languages Successfully

in Your Marriage

Amberly Lambertsen

January 25 @ 6-7 pm MST


https://extension.usu.edu/strongermarriage/webinar-series




5. Love vs. Politics: How News Coverage Triggers Fights in Divided Couples

by John Anderer


6. Why families will look radically different by 2100

Ross Pomeroy




7. The 2024 National Marriage Week theme is "Love Beyond Words"









9. Mortality rates among rural US residents vary based on race, ethnicity, region

Aaron Wagner, PSU




10. Building a Successful Intercultural Marriage and Family





11. Sunday Edition: Brad Wilcox




12. Marriage Market and Labor Market Sorting

Paula Calvo, Arizona State University, Ilse Lindenlaub, Yale University, and Ana Reynoso, University of Michigan





13. Data Gem: Use Our International Database to Visualize and Compare International Demographic Trends



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Bill



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Bill Coffin
tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2077347 2024-01-18T22:57:28Z 2024-01-18T22:57:29Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. For U.S. Navy couple in crisis, AI-powered relationship coach was the answer to prayer





2. National Marriage Week Tool Kit



3.  Why are fewer women (but not men) divorcing? 

Harry Benson, Marriage Foundation




4. ‘Gender inequities are important’: why couples fall out of love



OR



5. Pornography Review asks for views to shape industry rules



OR



6. Transformative Family Scholarship: Theory, Practice, and Research at the Intersection of Families, Anti‐Racism, and Social Justice


OR


— Matthew R. Sanders, Cassandra K. Dittman, Clifford J. Mallett, Steven Rynne 




7. The Exploration of Income, Poverty and Educational Census Data for Black and White Populations

Thursday, January 25, 2024, Time: 2:00 - 3:00 p.m. ET





8. Ten to Men: Welcome – your guide to becoming a study participant




9. Watch: Japan’s husband-throwing event aims to strengthen marriage bonds




10. South Korea's gender imbalance bad news for men − outnumbering women, many face bleak marriage prospects

Dudley L Poston Jr




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Bill


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Bill Coffin
tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2073789 2024-01-11T23:44:13Z 2024-01-11T23:44:14Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. DESTROYING MARRIAGE IN ORDER TO SAVE IT

by Daniel Frost and Robert P. George




2. Pre-Application Webinar for Multi-Sectoral Preventive Interventions Research Network Funding Opportunities

February 9, 2024, 2:00 - 3:30 p.m. ET





3. 2024 NARME Summit

Call for Presenters




4. Do we really live in an “age of inequality”?

By Dylan Matthews




5. The Decline of Marriage: A Glimpse into an Unsettling Trend

VIRGIL WALKER


OR

‘To Have and to Hold’: Marrying Young and Making It Last

Jeff Minick

https://intellectualtakeout.org/2024/01/marrying-young/




6. Routines and child development: A systematic review

Saliha B. Selman, Janean E. Dilworth-Bart




7. Monday, February 12, 2024 | 5:30 PM to 6:30 PM ET

Get Married: Why Americans Must Defy the Elites, Forge Strong Families, and Save Civilization

With W. Bradford Wilcox




8. Black wealth is increasing, but so is the racial wealth gap

Andre M. Perry, Hannah Stephens, and Manann Donoghoe




9. Study ranks GA in top five states with most failing marriages




10. Marquette Bookshelf: ‘Just Marriage’

Written by Dr. Andrew Kim, associate professor of theology




11. USU Extension Co-Sponsors 2024 Utah Marriage Celebration

By Julene Reese





12. New research highlights impact of fathers’ conflict resolution on kids’ socioemotional growth

by Eric W. Dolan




13.DHW publishes 2022 Marriage and Divorce Report




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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2070833 2024-01-04T22:52:51Z 2024-01-04T22:52:52Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. State of Youth Relationship Education Today

Wednesday, January 10, 2024 @ 1:00 pm Pacific/4:00 pm Eastern




2.  Using the Family First Act to Grow and Nurture Support Systems for Families of Young Children

  Rebecca Vivrette, Amy McKlindon, Elizabeth Jordan, Maggie Haas, Ja’Chelle Ball, Gina Mueterthies, Jaclyn Szrom, and Torey Silloway   




3. The Top 10 Insights from the “Science of a Meaningful Life” in 2023

BY KIRA M. NEWMAN, JEREMY ADAM SMITH, JILL SUTTIE, MARYAM ABDULLAH, EMILIANA R. SIMON-THOMAS




4. Congress must act to enable parents to promote online safety on all social media platforms

Raul Lopez, Guest columnist





5. A Healthy Sex Life Could Save Your Memory Later In Life

 Martin Sliwinski, professor of human development and family studies at Penn State






6. THE ATLANTIC WARNS OF SMARTPHONES IN SCHOOLS. BUT IS ANYONE LISTENING?




7. How marriage and family impact America’s civic health

 Brandon Dabling sits down with Nic Dunn




8. Statement from AAMFT’s CEO Chris Michaels Regarding Medicare’s Coverage of Marriage and Family Therapists: A Transformational Change for Clients and Therapists




9. Love and Marriage in the Age of Jane Austen

by Rory Muir




10. Using experiments to study families and intimate relationships

Long Doan, Natasha Quadlin, Katharine Khanna







12. 

Episode 53 - Friends, Partners, and Lovers in Marriage (feat. Kevin Thompson)

More than Roommates


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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2062688 2023-12-14T17:23:58Z 2023-12-14T17:23:59Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. Supporting Diverse Family Structures Through Social Safety Net Programs

 Lisa Kim, Deja Logan, and Mindy Scott




2. Kids and Teens Need Resilience

Mary K. Alvord, Ph.D.

https://www.pewtrusts.org/en/trend/archive/fall-2023/kids-and-teens-need-resilience




3. Going nowhere! Many millennials, Gen Z adults planning to live with parents for another 10 years!





4. Figuring It Out: Serving Young Fathers in Responsible Fatherhood Programs

OPRE/ACF/HHS




5. Stronger Families, Safer Streets

By W. Bradford Wilcox | Rafael A. Mangual | Seth Cannon | Joseph E. Price

https://www.aei.org/research-products/report/stronger-families-safer-streets/

OR

The Benefits of Active Parenting in K–12 Education: A Conversation with Eva Moskowitz

With Robert Pondiscio

https://www.aei.org/events/the-benefits-of-active-parenting-in-k-12-education-a-conversation-with-eva-moskowitz/




6. Secure Attachment to Both Parents − Not Just Mothers − Boosts Children’s Healthy Development




7. Parentification: The impact of children taking on parental roles in their family

Marianne Stein





8. Census Bureau Releases Small Area Income and Poverty Estimates for States, Counties and School Districts




9. How to survive holiday travel stress, according to marriage counselors

Advice by Natalie B. Compton





10. just FYI

This year, women said ‘enough’ to modern marriage




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Bill



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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2059519 2023-12-07T17:05:01Z 2023-12-07T17:05:01Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. America’s Families and Living Arrangements: 2023


OR




2. The Power of Relationship Education: Evidence of Economic Benefits & Policy Recommendations

 Jocelyn S. Wikle, Anya Christensen, & Alan J. Hawkins, Brigham Young University, School of Family Life  





3. What Influences the Success Sequence and Economic Self-Sufficiency? Findings from a Mixed Methods Study




4. A fifth of people watch porn during working day

Alexander Butler




5. Teen-ternity leave: what about the fathers?

  • fjohnson17




6. Inflation, mental health, jobs. Why are U.S. parents so stressed?



OR

Do Americans still love marriage?

The 2023 American Family Survey finds belief marriage is essential is declining. Experts talk about what children need to thrive.

By Lois M. Collins


OR

Americans facing the ‘storm clouds of politicization’





7. The Ninth Annual American Family Survey: Perceptions and Realities of Issues Families Face Today (promo was in last week)

With Daniel A. Cox | W. Bradford Wilcox


OR

Of Meta and Minors, Filters and Filings: An Uncertain Path Forward

By Clay Calvert




8. What’s the Matter with Girls?






9. Seven facts about the economic security of older adults

Wendell Primus and Julia Paris
 



10. The Babylon Bee's Person Of The Year Is This Housewife You've Never Heard Of Who Loves Her Kids And Does Her Best




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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2057061 2023-11-30T19:01:54Z 2023-11-30T19:01:54Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. Researcher Spotlight: Margaret Campbell on Families, Disability, and Wellbeing

Emily Kenny is a Knowledge Broker at the Vanier Institute of the Family.




2. You can’t even pay people to have more kids





3. An Annotated Bibliography on Research That Explores Black Families’ Participation in Healthy Marriage and Relationship Education, Economic Stability, and Positive Mental Health

Tia Dickerson*, Elvis Gyan*, Mindy E. Scott, Ria Shelton, and Lisa Kim (*equal contributors)




4. Prevalence of Sexual Violence and Intimate Partner Violence Among US Military Veterans: Findings from Surveys with Two National Samples


Lonneke van den Berg, Ellen Verbakel




6. Perspective: How Utah and the nation can better support the choice to marry

By Alan Hawkins, Contributor


OR

 U. Va. sociologist, Deseret News contributor tells BYU students marriage and families are the ultimate source of happiness

By Emma Pitts





7. Divorce rates back to 1970 levels

Harry Benson, Research Director, Marriage Foundation


OR

The psychology of marriage: what makes couples stick together?

HARRY BENSON





8. Gentle parenting can be really hard on parents, new research suggests

Annie Pezalla




9. The Ninth Annual American Family Survey: Perceptions and Realities of Issues Families Face Today

Tuesday, December 5, 2023 | 10:00 AM to 11:30 AM ET




10. Two-parent structure, marriage is best but is not achievable for all — especially women

By  Mona Charen





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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2048760 2023-11-16T00:07:20Z 2023-11-16T00:07:20Z Re: Candidates for IFS Friday Five
14. Promoting Stable Marriages and Healthy Families: A Guide for States


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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2048499 2023-11-15T00:57:42Z 2023-11-15T00:57:42Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. 

Program Coordinator I


CityLogan Campus





2. The Benefits of Active Parenting in K–12 Education: A Conversation with Eva Moskowitz




3. PUTTING YOUR PHONE IN ITS PLACE

LAUREN HALL, President & CEO First Things First





4. Why Aussies can't afford to have children





5. What Kind of Family is Yours?

BY DAVID ROSEN




6. When renovating exposes cracks — in your marriage

By Marisa Kashino




7. Should government promote marriage?

Sutherland Institute




8. How Men Succeed In Marriage with Nick Freitas | The Lila Rose Podcast E70




9. Why Home Ownership Creates Stronger Marriages

 Wharton’s Corinne Low




10. Why Millenials Don’t Want To Get Married? | Declining Marriage Rates A New Normal? | 




11. Adult sibling relationships: The impact of cohabitation, marriage, separation, and childbearing

Zafer Buyukkececi, Beyda Çineli




12. OUR MARRIAGE SURVEY IS READY!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire




13. 3 Ways to Fix Marriage Boredom

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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2046630 2023-11-09T22:43:10Z 2023-11-09T22:43:11Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. 

Child Well-Being through the Lens of Fathers .... 7th Annual Symposium (November 15-16, 2023 in Philadelphia)





2. 
Military-Connected Children in the Education System

Date: November 15, 2023
Time: 2:00–3:30 p.m. ET













5. 

Boxer gets EPIC






6. Behavior Management for Kids: 25 Parenting Tips and Tricks

Brian Comly




7. OKLAHOMA EDUCATORS SHOULD TEACH THE SUCCESS SEQUENCE

Brandon Dutcher





8. Marriage rates are declining, impacting economy, said expert

MARIAH MAYNES





9. Oklahoma declares November 'Family Month': 'Foundational institution of society'

By Ryan Foley




10. Poverty and Place: Exploring the Legacy of Persistent Poverty in America

Thursday, November 16, 2023
12:00 p.m. - 1:30 p.m. EST




11. ‘Mounds of data’ favor marriage and two-parent households, an economist argues in SLC



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Bill

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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2043480 2023-11-02T16:23:46Z 2023-11-02T16:23:46Z Candidates for Friday Five
1. Exploring Family Structure Diversity Among Children in Families With Low Incomes



2. Marital transitions during earlier adulthood and subsequent health and well-being in mid- to late-life among female nurses: An outcome-wide analysis

Ying Chen a b

Maya B. Mathur c

Brendan W. Case a

Tyler J. VanderWeele a b





ADAPT




4. Adult Relationship Quality Data Tool

The Marriage Strengthening Research and Dissemination Center (MAST Center)







Janet Holtzblatt, Swati Joshi, Nora Cahill, William G. Gale
 



6. Opinion: A silver anniversary celebration for the Utah Marriage Commission

By Alan Hawkins, Contributor




7. INTEGRATED PRIMARY PREVENTION

Commander, Navy Installations Command


OR

Thriving, Not Just Surviving: Military Family Readiness

MCEC Podcast

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hriving-not-just-surviving-military-family-readiness/id1386801038?i=1000633208728




8. Study finds more than half of teenagers have no rules for using tech at home

 Roser Reyner



9. Flourishing in Career and Family Life

Public Discourse, Nov 6, 2023 08:00 PM




10. Melissa Kearney on the Two-Parent Privilege

By Nat Malkus


OR

Melissa Kearney: The Importance of the Two-Parent Home

Ep. 307 — Political Economy with James Pethokoukis




11. A Happy Marriage Affects Genetic Mental Health Risk





12. Ep. 123—The Intricacies of Marriage

Yale University Press podcast, we talk with Devorah Baum about her new book, 

On Marriage.

 





Thanks
Bill


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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2040588 2023-10-26T17:28:35Z 2023-10-26T17:28:36Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. On Edge: Understanding and Preventing Young Adults’ Mental Health Challenges

Authored by Richard Weissbourd, Milena Batanova, Joseph McIntyre, and Eric Torres with Shanae Irving, Sawsan Eskander, and Kiran Bhai.





2. Fragile Neighborhoods: A Book Event with Seth Kaplan (replay)

With Yuval Levin,AEI




3. "Shocking": More mothers are working than ever before

Emily Peck, author of Axios Markets




4. Welfare and Family Self-Sufficiency Learning Agenda

OPRE/ACF




5. 'They yell and I yell back': Preschoolers' descriptions of conflict-laden interactions at home

by Uppsala University




6. Fertility Rate in Canada Fell to (Another) Record Low in 2022

Nathan Battams





7. There is power in telling your children ‘I don’t know’

Perspective by Maryam Abdullah




8. Emotional Regulation: Everything You Need to Know to Improve Your Relationships

Candice Ramsey, MA, LAMFT, CPC




9. Reducing Intergenerational Poverty

National Academy of Sciences





10. GOOD DIGITAL PARENTING




11. Marriage Is Not a Tool






12. Utah celebrates 25 years of supporting healthy marriages

By Kaigan Mears Bigler, KSL.com




13. A Psychologist Explains The 6 Stages Of Marriage

Mark Travers, Contributor



Thanks. Have a great weekend!
Bill


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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2037902 2023-10-19T03:19:43Z 2023-10-19T03:19:44Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. How to Manage Holidays When a Family Member Has BPD





2.  Grounds for Divorce: The Dynamics of Marriage Satisfaction as a Predictor of Divorce

 Mieczysław Plopa1 ,Wojciech Plopa1 , and Anna Skuzińska2




3. Urban Advantage for Careers, Rural Edge for Marriage: A Study on South Korean Young Adults




4. How to Change Your Marriage Mindset





5. Helping Vulnerable Moms and Families: How Do We Get to Bipartisan Support?

Lauretta Brown




6 Marriage Rate in the U.S.: Geographic Variation, 2022

Author: Jaden Loo




7. How to Talk With Kids About the War in Gaza and Israel  


BY MARYAM ABDULLAH


OR

Helping Kids Work Through the Fear and Consequences of Global Violence




8. Greek PM Declares 'National Danger' Over Birth Decline




9. English bishop claims marriage ‘disappearing in Britain’

Charles Collins




10. For relationship maintenance, accurate perception of partner's behavior could be key





Thanks
Bill

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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2035842 2023-10-12T19:05:46Z 2023-10-12T19:05:46Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. More than 1 in 7 men have no close friends. The way we socialize boys is to blame





2. Adolescent delinquency: The role of early childhood exposure to intimate partner violence

Shannon Cheung, Chien-Chung Huang




3. Persevering in a Marriage That Tries Your Patience





4. How Do Elementary Students Show Kindness to Others?

BY SUMMER S. BRAUN, MICHAEL T. WARREN, KIMBERLY A. SCHONERT-REICHL




5. Summary: Reducing Parental Conflict programme 2018 to 2022 diary research with parents accessing interventions

Anna Silk and Sophie Talbot (Department for Work and Pensions)







6. 7 in 10 adults have strong relationship with their parents — and childhood chores are a big reason why!

Sophia Naughton





7. Local Programs Keep Incarcerated Parents Connected to Kids

Sarah Sample




8. Family resiliency in the aftermath of COVID-19 pandemic: A latent profile analysis

Allen W. Barton, Noah B. Larsen, Qiujie Gong, Scott M. Stanley





9. Mitch Albom: Breaking news: Marriage, two-parent homes good for children!




10. Marital First Responder Workshop

October 14, 2023, 9am to 4 pm Central Time, Online via Zoom and In Person




and if you need a getaway... First hotel in space is set to open in 2025

Katherine Sidnell



Happy Birthday Alysse!
Bill

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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2033056 2023-10-05T22:06:43Z 2023-10-05T22:06:44Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. Baby Bonds Would Reduce Racial Wealth Inequities. Here’s What Policymakers Need to Know.

Madeline Brown, Marokey Sawo, Ofronama Biu




2. Couples delay getting married in order to buy new home




3. Fathers have ‘unique effect’ on children’s educational outcomes, study finds

Sally Weale, Education correspondent






4. The Effects of Harsh Parenting: A negative self-perpetuating loop

By Lydia Speyer





5. Intentional marriage plus family ministries yield good results

Therese Horvat





6. 10 Ways to Start Your Child's Day with Caring and Empathy





7. Three Years Later: The Impact of Relationship Smarts Plus on Youth in Georgia

Wed, Oct 11, 2023, 4:00 PM - 5:00 PM EDT





8. Cutting-edge AI boosts healthy relationships, social and emotional learning for youth and adults





9. Youth groups, classes may be key in maintaining faith as kids age

 Leigh Beeson





10. Feeling Undervalued? Relationship Interventions May Aid

  • Marianne Stein



11. 100 Percent of Couples Have Conflict. This Could Help.





12. Economics Newsletter: The Marriage Decline

Commentary By Allison Schrager

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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2027580 2023-09-21T01:58:25Z 2023-09-21T01:58:26Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five # 485 (10th year anniversary)
1. The psychology of commitment and marriage
Harry Benson




2. The Modern American Family
BY CAROLINA ARAGÃO, KIM PARKER, SHANNON GREENWOOD, CHRIS BARONAVSKI AND JOHN CARLO MANDAPAT




3. Measuring the Nation’s Social and Economic Well-Being




4. Policies and Programs to Reduce Intergenerational Poverty 
(I wonder if they'll mention marriage)




5. Intimate Partner Violence Among Military Spouses: A Qualitative Study of Power and Control in Context (Preview)

Smith, Allison L.   University of Kansas





6. Marital First Responder Workshop

October 14, 2023, 9am to 4 pm Central Time, Online via Zoom and In Person




7. Prenatal Version of the Coparenting Relationship Scale Among Finnish Couples Expecting Their Firstborn





8. Opinion  Liberals don’t like talking up marriage. Here’s how they can start.

By Alyssa Rosenberg




9. Marriage is about more than math




10. Fewer and less expensive weddings hurting China's massive marriage industry




11. The Knot Worldwide Launches Inaugural Future of Marriage Report, Revealing More Than 70% of Gen Zers are Looking Forward to Their Wedding Day




Thanks!
Bill
We are headed to Prague and then on a weeklong cruise on the Danube...back Oct 2



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tag:billcoffin.org,2013:Post/2024991 2023-09-14T17:15:03Z 2023-09-14T17:15:04Z Candidates for IFS Friday Five
1. The two-parent privilege: A conversation on the case for marriage

Featuring author Melissa Kearney and Jim Tankersley

Thursday, September 21, 2023

11:00 AM - 12:15 PM EDT





2. 5 Million More Children Experienced Poverty in 2022 Than in 2021, Following Expiration of COVID-era Economic Relief




3. What’s the Best Strategy for Supporting an Upset Partner?

BY JILL SUTTIE





4. 

Study confirms it: Opposites don't actually attract


University of Colorado at Boulder





5. Conservatives in Denmark propose action against divorces





6. Measuring Poverty: The New Census Estimates and the Future of Poverty Measurement

With Kevin Corinth | Angela Rachidi | Matt Weidinger | Scott Winship | Richard Burkhauser | Bruce D. Meyer




7. 5 Ways the Sibling Dynamic Reappears in Adult Relationships






8. Across U.S. religious groups, more see decline of marriage as negative than positive

BY GREGORY A. SMITH





9. Marriage could mean losing life-saving benefits for people with disabilities. So they’re protesting.

Sara Luterman, Caregiving reporter





10. The Impact of Marriage

ELAINE SCHWARTZ

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