Attitudes of a Good Partner

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Although a relationship can't be a one-way street, our first priority is to be a good partner. If each person is taking that responsibility, the relationship flourishes. This week we focus on the attitudes that a good partner possesses.



 


Many relationships suffer from one or both partners going on "autopilot". You think you know the other person, so you stop paying attention. You forget that there is a universe inside them, and that they need your loving attention everyday. A good partner does this deliberately.

 


Extended to a relationship: the quality of a couple's connection is 10% what's happening, 90% the attitude toward each other.

 


"The Couple Checkup is a great way to generate meaningful conversation about each person's perspective and vision for your future life together. The more honest each is in truthfully answering the questions, the more insight you will gain from the results. I would recommend it to couples in the early stages of marriage prep as it highlights areas that you may need to come together on and seek outside advice and guidance."

Anne & Nate
(now happily married)


 

St. Francis said it. Stephen Covey documented it as one of the key habits of highly successful people. And good partners do it habitually.

 

Couple Checkup
Take this online assessment tool to identify the unique strengths and growth areas of your relationship!
  • Developed by Ph.D.s and clinically proven
  • Answer a series of customized questions
  • Receive a 20-page report instantly
  • Comes with discussion guide
  • Move past "good advice" and take an in depth look at your own relationship
  • Begin to identify your relationship strengths and issues that need attention
  • Be proactive.  Don't wait for problems to become serious before dealing with them
  • Spur on productive and insightful conversation that leads to action and change

Discover - Taking an online relationship inventory and generating your Couple Checkup Report will peak your curiosity.  As you explore your results, you and your partner will discover your strengths and issues.  You'll see where you agree and disagree as you gain insight into one another's perceptions of your relationship.  You need to know where you're starting from so you can chart a course for where you want to go.

Share - A key to any great relationship is communication.  But how do you bring up the difficult topics?  How do you create a safe environment for open discussion?  The topics covered in the Couple Checkup help generate productive conversations you wouldn't otherwise have; conversations that apply specifically to your relationship.

Grow - Each couple going through the Couple Checkup process has access to a free Discussion Guide.  This workbook is filled with easy to use exercises designed to introduce new skills and facilitate discussions that will help you move from insight to action.

To see a sample report, visit our Couple Checkup web page.



 

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