HM Links & Clips (10/18/10) #127

10) http://familyscholars.org/2010/10/18/nyt-rediscovers-culture/

 

 

 

9) Relationship Education
The goal was to seek the broadest possible dispersal of research and marriage education skills courses which could improve interpersonal relationship ...

 

And What does a healthy marriage consist of Yahoo Answers
Do people in a healthy marriage ever fight If so how much and to what ... Healthy couples fight and argue everyone does Itd be worse if one person just gave in ...

 

 

 

8) I Am ME Marilyn Stevens Central Illinois « Fatherhood Channel ...
Marriage Education is increasingly touching the lives of greater numbers of couples families and children across the country This week we begin our regular ...
fatherhoodchannel.com/.../i-am-me-marilyn-stevens-central-ill...

 

And The View on Mammograms for Loving Husbands
The Fatherhood Channel
Marriage education is helping men learn to support their wives through difficult challenges, even when they can't fix it. by Seth Eisenberg Roughly 37 ...

 

 

 

7) How can boomers keep the spark alive?
Sacramento Bee
The author of "Five Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great" says one of her goals, in addition to making mature couples feel comfortable ...

 

And

 

Love Makes You Increasingly Ignorant of Your Partner | Wired Science | Wired.com

 

 

 

6) Case Study: Coalition Building
Marriage Education Service Hour. (MESH). CHMC uses the MESH funding model with larger- scale partners and for those with projects involving ...
www.healthymarriageinfo.org/docs/CoalitionBuilding.pdf

 

And Seminar teaches Hmong leaders about healthy marriages ...
ROTHSCHILD -- About 200 people -- mostly Hmong clan leaders from across Wisconsin -- are attending a groundbreaking seminar about healthy marriage this ...

 

 

 

 

5) More couples are saying 'I do' to living together
Salt Lake Tribune
Demographers believe the increase is couples delaying marriage because of the cost, avoiding marriage altogether or moving in without a long-term plan ...

 

And http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/life-101/201010/why-you-should-worry-about-the-widening-marriage-gap

 

And http://www.simplemarriage.net/5-ways-to-encourage-healthy-habits-in-your-spouse.html

 

 

 

4) Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc. President Barack Obama White House ...
President George Bush made provisions for150 million annual funding towards Healthy Marriage, Responsible Fatherhood programs. ...

 

And Minnesota Fatherhood Leadership Circles
In 2010, MFFN initiated the Fatherhood Leadership Circles with projects ... Fatherhood Leadership Circles will convene during four (4) day-long meetings per ...

 

 

 

3) How to Feel That Magic 'Click' Again
Remember the excitement when you two first hit it off?
3 Tips to Get That Spark Back

 

And Go Retro: 12 Tips for a Happy Marriage

Tried-and-true strategies you can borrow from your parents' marriage to enhance your own.

 

 

 

 

2) http://www.vifamily.ca/ and http://www.sacmarriage.org/Home%20Page

 

 

 

 

1) 'Vow' preps for Marriage Festival - Longview News-Journal: Local News
Vow is a marriage education program designed to provide young adult singles, and couples with information and resources to aid them in sustaining a marriage ...

 

And California Healthy Marriages Coalition | Facebook
Welcome to a Facebook Page about California Healthy Marriages Coalition. Join Facebook to start connecting with California Healthy Marriages Coalition.

 

 

Bill Coffin

Special Assistant for Marriage Education

ACF/HHS

370 L’Enfant Promenade, SW Washington, DC  20447

(202)260-1550(o);

Bill.Coffin@acf.hhs.gov

…We, Government Leaders, invite colleagues and citizens from every political party to engage in renewed

efforts to pursue laws and public policies that promote the well-being of marriages and families…(Excerpt from http://www.hamptonu.edu/ncaamp/proclamation/)

 

A Guide to Low-Cost Curricula and Resources: Marriage and Relationship, Fatherhood and Parenting,
and Financial Education available at http://www.acf.hhs.gov/healthymarriage/pdf/curricula_resources_guide_121509.pdf

 

 http://www.acf.hhs.gov/healthymarriage 

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/healthymarriage/doc/ACF_Curriculum_Assessment_Guide.doc

http://learning.hhs.gov/elearning/cop.asp

 

Why Marriage Matters, 26 Conclusions from the Social Sciences

#1 Marriage increases the likelihood that fathers and mothers have good relationships with their children.

#26 A child who is not living with his or her own two married parents is at greater risk for child abuse.

http://center.americanvalues.org/?p=7

 

For previous editions of HM Links & Clips see http://billcoffin.org

 

 

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 October 2010
Issue No. 9
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Happyness Is . . .

Chris Gardner, the inspiration behind the real life story of The Pursuit Of Happyness, was in town recently speaking on the issues of homelessness, fatherhood and success. His remarks to the group were truly inspiring. He encouraged men to be more involved as fathers and to help end the cycle of neglectful fathering. Some of what Gardner said can be seen on this video, and I would recommend visiting his site for more information. His life story is amazing and gives a new perspective on what it truly means to be a father.



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"Bring Your Playbook and Let's Talk"
by Todd Agne
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In the world of athletics, the phrase "Bring your playbook and let's talk" is code for "You've been cut". As a matter of fact, anytime you hear the phrase "Let's talk" (whether it's uttered by your boss, wife, or your kid's teacher), it usually foreshadows that something of significance is about to happen or needs to be discussed. So it's no wonder that Let's Talk Month in October is not always so inspiring or met with warm embraces.

With that said, let me stress how important it is and what it really means.

Ironically, Let's Talk Month is more about encouraging open dialogue with your kids over time versus a one-time lecture. It's about talking with your kids about sex and healthy relationships and listening to what they have to say about that topic and other things. They have ideas, concerns, and questions that if nurtured correctly, will eventually come out in conversation and hopefully lead to healthy decisions. 

If you're the father of a toddler, the best time to start talking is before they can. Dads can be great story tellers and if you're willing to invest 5-10 minutes a night on how you grew up, what you wish for them in the future, where you went on vacation and the things you did way back when, you'll have built a relationship that lends itself to honest communication when it's their time to talk. I often tell new parents that conversations about nothing at all will eventually lead to conversations about everything important.

Read more about how to start talking . . .


The Locker Room is a place where Dads can come for practical advice and fatherly support. Dad to Dad, Grandfather to Grandkids or father to child.

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 Fall is here and there are a couple of "climate change traditions" within driving distance from downtown Chattanooga.

These recommendations come from personal experience and have my family's stamp of approval.  The first is a visit to Guthrie Pumpkin Farm in nearby Riceville, Tennessee. They offer tractor rides into the fields, the picking of pumpkins and other family-friendly experiences such as animal petting and fall treats to sample. The second tradition is to take a trip to the Mayfield Dairy Farm in Athens. They offer tours of the farm and you and the kids can run through the Corn Maze. These are simple, fun ways to connect with your family during this colorful season and it won't break the bank either.

Guthrie Farm and Corn Maze