Candidates for IFS Friday Five

1. Which Close Relationships Matter Most for Health? It Depends on Gender

Rosie Shrout






2. What 50,000 purchased brides tell us about the pitfalls of online dating






3. What Relationship Educators Can Offer a Polarized America

William J. Doherty, Ph.D.






4. 2027 NARME Summit Presenter Application

This application is for those applying to be a presenter at the 2027 NARME Summit in Atlanta, Georgia







5. A Fresh Look at Black Family Structures in the United States







6. 
What Is Unique About Adolescent Decision-Making — And How We Can Support It

By around age 16, young people make decisions as well as adults when given time to think. So why the risky choices? A new UCLA brief finds that stress, peers, and uncertainty make the difference, and that teens told the real odds were actually more cautious than adults.


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7. If you want more babies, make remote work easier

 Gleb Tsipursky, opinion contributor





8. Mattering in Early Childhood: Building a Strong Foundation for Life





9. The Social Guidance Film as a Scientific Framing of Morality

Christen Bryson




10. A longitudinal examination of parental PTSD symptoms, interparental conflict, and child adjustment in military families following parental deployment 

Muskan Datta , Sharon Christ & Shelley M. MacDermid Wadsworth





11. HDFS 4463 - Marriage and Relationship Education






12. Six apartments, one family: The multigenerational buying trend emerging at The Orchards





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Bill










Candidates for IFS Friday Five

1. The Relationship Recession






2. BPS increasingly concerned for those who use unregulated AI chatbots for mental health therapy, new data reveals




3. Why are some young adults reaching adulthood without ever having been in a romantic relationship?

Leah E. LeFebvre, first author of the study;  Written by Madalyn Losee




4. Increasingly, more men than women remain never married across Europe and North America







5. More Than Just a Happy Ending? The Role of Orgasm Consistency for Sexual Satisfaction, Relationship Satisfaction, and Emotional Intimacy in Mixed-Gender Romantic Relationships

 F. S. V. Wehrli , G. M. Hald , C. S. Øverup & G. Bodenmann






6. The Science of Date Nights, Sex, and Lasting Connection

Greg Moody, Ph.D., M.C






T Trillingsgaard, HN Fentz, FG Hansen - Couple and Family Psychology: Research …, 2026







8. Coming of age in an uncertain era
November 20,2026,10:00 am EST - 11:30 am EST






9. Free Online Relationship Course and Live PAIRS Classes

Carson Abrir





10. Aging Nations, Shrinking Workforces: The Economic Impact of Falling Fertility

Tanya Samyak, Staff Writer




11. Harvard graduate speaks at Oxford University on need to encourage marriage, intact families, and the best parental style in order to help students thrive




Candidates for IFS Friday Five

1. 

Adult Education Facilitation Best Practices: How to be the Messenger that Matters


Miranda L. Egger & Lawrence Ramos

OR

Significant Benefits-to-Cost Ratio for Relationship Education





2. Highlights from Local Evaluations at Responsible Fatherhood Programs from 2020 to 2025






3.The U.S. Census Bureau is scheduled to release the 2025 American Community Survey (ACS) 1-year estimates and 1-year Supplemental Estimates on Oct. 29.




4. Are married mums really happier?




5. 

Who thrives, who struggles? Intersectional patterns of social-emotional health in adolescence


Alberto Amadori, 
Stephen T. Russell


OR

State of the Science: Cognitive-Behavioral Approaches to Couple Therapy and Secondary Interventions


Maya Metser-Waldman a, Brian D. Doss a





6. Self-Esteem as a Shared Resource Beyond Romantic Relationships: An Extension Into Friendships and Parental Relationships

Lisa B. Hoplock , Jessica J. Cameron , and Kelley J. Robinson






7. Abstaining from sex: An examination of adult outcomes of female purity pledgers using AddHealth data

 Chancey Herbolsheimer





8, The Second Big Bang Starts at the Kitchen Table

Seth Eisenberg






9. Opinion: Hookup culture isn’t working. Young people are hungry for something better

Tim Rarick





10. Why $100k at 25 is more powerful than an inheritance at 55







Candidates for IFS Friday Five

1. Does Marriage Just Get Harder?

John & Sofia Cuddeback





2. Our kids are more than their problems—let’s act like it 

Kris Anderson Moore | TEDxFoggyBottom







3. Pooling risk to pay for long-term services and supports





4. What Scientists Miss When They Dismiss Popular Ideas About Relationships






5. Lean In or Lighten Up? In Defense of Good-Enough Marriages

By Alan J. Hawkins



OR



 Can We Use AI to Assist with RE Curriculum Development? 10 Practical Considerations





6. ACF Announces Call for Recommendations on Domestic Violence Prevention and Support Programs and Services to Help Strengthen Families





7. How Do You Raise Kids to Be Emotionally Mature?

Juli Fraga, Lindsay C. Gibson




8. Parental-couple well-being and relationship stability four years following childbirth: a mixed-methods study



9. Temporary Assistance for Two-Parent Families in Texas: Reorienting TANF Toward Integral Human Development and Flourishing

Noah Torres, Hannah Bruck





10. Why can’t some men see a way forward?

Bruno Manno





11. Reflections of the Nation’s Former Marriage Czar




12. Fertility Needs Friendship

Lyman Stone





FYI
They call us ‘contamination’ – and want us dismantled!




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Candidates for IFS Friday Five

1. Marriage Every Day®




2. U.S. Census Bureau Hosts 2025 American Community Survey 1-year Estimates Prerelease Webinar





3. Generation Uncoupled

By Daniel A. Cox






4. There’s a simple way to become a better listener. Most of us don’t do it.



OR

The one thing strong couples do when they fight

Anna Borges







5. Genes And Family, Not Just Phones, May Drive The Teen Screen-Depression Link

Research led by Tong Gong and Yi Lu (Karolinska Institutet)





6. Access for All through the Alabama Healthy Marriage and Relationship Education Initiative

Francesca Adler-Baeder





7. Why Commitment Still Matters in the Age of AI Companions

D. Scott Sibley Ph.D., LMFT, CFLE  and 





8. Operationalizing deployment history: Three approaches to examining associations with military couples’ marital satisfaction

Julia Janeczko,Catherine Walker O’Neal & Mallory Lucier-Greer





9. Special Report from the CDC: A literature review and update of the evidence in the intimate partner violence prevention resource for action☆

Denise V. D’Angelo, Lane Welsh, Matthew J. Breiding, Jenny Dills, Candace Girod, Grace S. Liu, Marissa Goodson, Norah W. Friar, Haley Stolp




11. Is the Rise in Cohabitation Fueling a Marriage Slowdown?






12. Amoris Laetitia meeting, October 9: prelates discuss young people and the discovery of the vocation to marriage







Candidates for IFS Friday Five

1. The Couple Relationship Skills Inventory: Is There Added Benefit of Partner's Report?






2. Loneliness Linked To Nearly 6 Fewer Years Free Of Depression, Anxiety

Research led by Lu Qi (Tulane University)





3. CONNECTING, COLLABORATING, AND CONTRIBUTING: SUPPORTING THE DEVELOPMENT OF RELATIONAL SKILLS FOR THE TRANSITION TO ADULTHOOD

Natalie Saragosa-Harris, PhD and Meghan Lynch Forder, MA







4. Supportive Adult Connections, Teen Pregnancy, and Youth Mental Health

Beckwith, S. Mihalec-Adkins, B., Huang, L. A., Smith, S., & Tallant, J.





5. How high‑quality friendship supports teen well‑being

Ryan J. Persram







6. Sliding vs Deciding: Why Moving in Should Come After Marriage

Untold





7. You Can't Teach a Flooded Brain: The Neuroscience of Why Mind Matters Comes First

Oct 14, 2026 04:00 PM in Eastern Time (US and Canada)







8. Behind the Research: A Straus Scholar's Summer at the Institute for Family Studies

Matthew Minsk (YC '26)





9. The Missing Measure: Family Structure and Child Outcomes

Tuesday, October 13, 2026 | 3:30 PM to 4:30 PM ET




10. The rise of dual income households and female breadwinners

By Abby Alecock





11. SmartLoving: The Dating Recession

Francine & Byron Pirola






12. Universities to provide courses on family life






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Bill

Candidates for IFS Friday Five




2. 

How to Get More Boys in the Game?

Too many boys and men are struggling at school, at work, and in their families and communities. Sport can help prepare youth to thrive in life. Upon seeing declines in boys’ participation rates, we partnered with the American Institute of Boys and Men to understand boys’ experiences today and offer ideas on how to deliver on the promise of sports for their development.

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How to Get More Boys in the Game?

Too many boys and men are struggling at school, at work, and in their families and communities. Sport can help prepare youth to thrive in life. Upon seeing declines in boys’ participation rates, we partnered with the American Institute of Boys and Men to understand boys’ experiences today and offer ideas on how to deliver on the promise of sports for their development.






3. Latino Families See Family Unity as the Cornerstone of FlourishingLatino Families See Family Unity as the Cornerstone of Flourishing






4. The Stability Advantage – Marriage, Family Breakdown and Poverty in the UK

Dr Harry Benson for CSJ








MS Kearney, P Levine, A Barson - NBER Working Paper, 2026






6. How to make – and keep – friends as a grownup, according to science







7. First Things First: When marriage becomes management

 Lauren Hall







8. Why Are More Young Adults Living with Their Parents?







9. “God does not make mistakes.” Lou Holtz’s first letter to Notre Dame parents still reads like a coaching manifesto

By Scott Roussel






10. Here’s Fulton Sheen’s advice for a happy marriage







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Bill
Biking sections of GAP trail north of Meyersdale, PA

Candidates fot IFS Friday Five #627 (start of Year 14)

1. What AI is doing to young brains

 Zara Abrams






2. 

Dating Education Action Network (DEAN)

  

 Launch Event


We invite practitioners, researchers, faith leaders, advocates, and teachers to become part of this movement. DEAN will hold its official online kick-off meeting on October 7, 2026. Registration





3. I’m a psychologist who studies couples: Emotionally intelligent partners ask 1 question every morning—that most neglect





J Peetz, MT Saxey - Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 2026






5. America has 30 million single young men. Even Utah is feeling it






6. Condom Brand Tulipán Unveils Perfume for a Generation That Isn’t Having Sex






7. Is the Black family vanishing?





8. ‘We’re not married for a reason’: why couples are rejecting Labour’s reforms

Alex Marsh is a Money writer





9. The Marriage Deficit Is an Economic Catastrophe

A Commentary By Stephen Moore


Kate Eshleman, PsyD, a psychologist with Cleveland Clinic Children’s





Thanks
Bill


Candidates for IFS Friday Five

1. "How to Be a Peacemaker in an Age of Contempt: A Book Event with Governor Spencer Cox" on 

Thursday, September 17, 2026, 12:00–1:00 p.m. ET.







2. The fatherhood trait that keeps children from shipwrecking

Annie Holmquist






3. U.S. Real Median Household Income Reached Record High in 2025

Zach Scherer





4. Relationship Surveys May All Be Measuring The Same Feeling

Research led by James J. Kim (Lakehead University)





5. Lives, Choices and Futures

the United Nations Population Fund asked 108,926 young adults across 73 countries what their ideal future looked like. Seven in ten said marriage

United Nations Population Fund, 2026. Lives, Choices and Futures: What Young People Want and What Shapes their Decisions about Relationships and Parenthood – Findings from the Demographic Futures Survey 2026. New York: UNFPA.




6. [September 22, 2026] The Father-Friendly Action Planning Workshop

NFI








Y Wang - Sociology Compass, 2026
Yanwen Wang, Division of Social Science, New York University Abu Dhabi, Abu Dhabi, UAE






8. Do Communication Patterns Predict Marital Satisfaction?

Clemmons, Sharon
.   Capella University ProQuest Dissertations & Theses,  2026. 







9. What If More People Knew There Were Skills to Repair Relationships?

Rachel Marmor





10. Catholic couples invited to take part in national marriage survey





11. Teens need more places to meet IRL — their future success may depend on it


Or one of the "related stories" in green bar at the top of that piece





12. Mental health advice from graduate professors

Avery Warden