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A Zen Teacher saw five of his students return from the market, riding their bicycles. When they had dismounted, the teacher asked the students, “Why are you riding your bicycles?”

The first student replied, “The bicycle is carrying this sack of potatoes. I am glad that I do not have to carry them on my back!” The teacher praised the student, saying, “You are a smart boy. When you grow old, you will not walk hunched over, as I do.”

The second student replied, “I love to watch the trees and fields pass by as I roll down the path.” The teacher commended the student, “Your eyes are open and you see the world.”

The third student replied, “When I ride my bicycle, I am content to chant, nam myoho renge kyo.” The teacher gave praise to the third student, “Your mind will roll with the ease of a newly trued wheel.”

The fourth student answered, “Riding my bicycle, I live in harmony with all beings.” The teacher was pleased and said, “You are riding on the golden path of non-harming.”

The fifth student replied, “I ride my bicycle to ride my bicycle.” The teacher went and sat at the feet of the fifth student, and said, “I am your disciple.”

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Do Not Disturb posted: "Lime Green. That's the color I chose to mend a small hole in the pocket of Justin's shorts. There's no particular reason that I used green instead of white, the color of the pocket, but I did. As I did so, I was reminded of the secretive nature of marr"
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Marriage Challenge: The Hidden Seam

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Lime Green.

That's the color I chose to mend a small hole in the pocket of Justin's shorts. There's no particular reason that I used green instead of white, the color of the pocket, but I did. As I did so, I was reminded of the secretive nature of marriage. The things that happen in a marriage that are unknown to any other. The hidden seams that make a marriage strong.

With my words, I can tear down or build up.

With my actions, I can bless or ignore.

With my attitude, I can invite or reject.

Marriage is a journey of hidden things. The hidden things we can do for our spouse without their ever even knowing it. The hidden things we do with and for one another that others are not permitted to know. The information that is shared, the inside jokes, the passion, the things that are hidden.

Today's marriage challenge is this: Spend a few moments to think about the "hidden seams" in your marriage. The areas where you can bless your spouse without their ever knowing. The intimate moments you share together to which the rest of the world is not privy. Invest in the hidden seams of your marriage and you will be stronger when you are together as well as when you are apart.

 

"Marriage has the power to set the course of your life as a whole. If your marriage is strong, even if all the circumstances in your life around you are filled with trouble and weakness, it won't matter. You will be able to move out into the world in strength.” Timothy Keller, The Meaning of Marriage

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12 Most Important Metrics for your Child's (and your) Education


We worry a lot about "education" in this country. On a political level we bicker and argue about why one state's math scores are higher than another's. And at home, we put our kids through a heck of a lot (and we sacrifice a lot) to make sure they pass their tests, know how to read and write, and can regurgitate their multiplication tables. We even stress about whether they are able to do so at the right age, or whether they are 6 months ahead or behind the other kids.

And all of that is important - but it's nowhere near as important as a lot of other things in life that end up getting a lot less attention.

When my kids are grown, it won't really matter if they got an A or a B in 7th grade history. It won't really matter how far they can hit a baseball. It won't really even matter much if they've made a lot of money or been "successful" according to the world. What will matter much more is this:

  1. Are they humble - not that they think less of themselves, but that they think of themselves less.
  2. Do they know how to be loved - are they humble and secure enough to be vulnerable.
  3. Are they at peace - which means knowing who they are.
  4. Are they filled with joy  - because they live with a hope that transcends this short life.
  5. Do they know they are small - that the world is not about them.
  6. Do they know they are giants - that, to somebody, they mean the whole world.
  7. Are they adventurous - willing to embrace a faith that will take them beyond the prison of their own limits.
  8. Are they imaginative - able to see that the best parts of life cannot be measured or touched.
  9. Do they embrace the moment - knowing that the present moment is the only moment they'll ever have.
  10. Are they virtuous - aspiring to the best parts of their nature.
  11. Do they know how to give generously - because to give of yourself is the only way to find yourself.
  12. Do they know how to love  - because this is what they were made to do (and because I've shown them by loving them every day unconditionally and by introducing them to a God who loves them perfectly).

This is what I'd like my kids to learn. This is what "success" looks like. This is what I'd like them to "want to be when they grow up." Everything else with the classes and the homework and the tests and the career path is all bonus.

You can earn a college degree without learning a single one of these things - and these are far more important life lessons. But, ultimately, if my kids don't learn them, it's nobody's fault but mine.


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I offer you these tidbits of wisdom as prayer prompts to remind you (and your constituents) of the sacredness of marriage vows and the value of every child. The commitment to love a spouse forever, and the generous gift of life parents offer a child are indeed spiritual under-takings and cannot be done alone. May the God of Love be with you and your work.


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Below are your Marriage Moments and Parenting Pointers for September. 

 

NOTE:  The last week of August marks the 50th Anniversary of the March on Washington and Martin Luther King's I Have A Dream speech. My September Family Enrichment activity, Erasing Racism, reminds us of the need to respect people of all races. Click here to read the Catholic Bishop's statement on this anniversary.
MARRIAGE MOMENTS*

 

536. Sept.2: (Labor Day) "All work and no play make Jack a dull boy" - and a spouse boring. On this Labor Day, use a labor saving device (washer, microwave, car, blender, etc.) to save some time and do something playful with your honey. Pray for (and thank) those who worked to make your life easier.

 

537. Sept. 9: "Who can know God's counsel..." (Wisdom 9:13) The wisdom of God is sometimes only recognized in hindsight. Although your beloved is not God, he/she has probably said some pretty wise things over the years. What's a bit of wisdom you've learned from your spouse?

 

538. Sept. 16: Are you a perfectionist? It's natural to want to do a good job but don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good. If your spouse advises you to "Lighten up" it might be good counsel. Marriage and parenting are tough jobs.

 

539. Sept. 23: Does your spouse accuse you of being irresponsible? Sometimes you might just have different personality styles, but sometimes it may carry a tad of truth. Even if it hurts, don't ignore the criticism but try to see what truth might be behind the charge. Take one step toward self-improvement.

 

540. Sept. 30: Marriage Challenge: Careers are often at their height when couples are also in their active parenting stage. It's hard to balance both. Try your best but when all is done don't beat yourselves up for any parenting regrets. You can't change the past. Work on making the future better.

 
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536. Sept. 6: Jesus worked many miracles. You may not be a miracle worker but each human life is like a miracle. Ask each person in your family, what miracle they would work, if they had the power. Pray for miracles.

 

537. Sept. 13: Getting kids to help clean: One parent said, "Sometimes I tape money to the bottom of some wastebaskets. When the children empty one, they get the coin. It's like a treasure hunt. Or I might tape wrapped candy to the window cleaner or furniture spray. The children dust and do mirrors now with excitement.

 

538. Sept. 20: Next Monday, Sept. 23, is "Eat Dinner Together Day." Maybe you always do this anyway. If so, why not invite another family with children to join you. If not, make a point to do eat together more frequently - no phones, TV, or electronics allowed.

 

539. Sept. 27: "There was a rich man who dressed in purple garments...and lying at his door was a poor man named Lazarus." (Luke 16:19) Are children consumed with wearing the latest, expensive fads? Tell them the story of Lazarus. As a family figure out one way to share your clothes, toys, or tools with those in need this week.

  

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Looking for a way to improve your communication with each other? Make it a priority to share three things with your spouse each day. This list is a good beginning.

A List of Three Things
Talk about these three things during dinner, or while you are out walking, or before you go to bed, or some time during your day when you know you two will be together every day. The Three Things
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Tip of the Week -- Nagging
you nag, the more your mate avoids you or withdraws both emotionally and physically from you, so the more you nag. Why Nagging Doesn't Work
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Douglas Downey: "One of the ideas ... is the possibility that growing up with siblings and having lots of sibling interaction develops the kind of social skills that are potentially useful for maintaining a stable marriage later on in adulthood," Source: "Having Siblings Could Curb Your Divorce Odds." KREM.com. 8/13/2013.
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Featured Article:  Household Duties

In studies of marital satisfaction, the topic of sharing household duties is a primary source of dissatisfaction for couples, especially in the early years of marriage and when both spouses work outside the home. Here are some practical suggestions that might help.

    

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Catholic 101: Married Saints

 

This month features St. Jane Frances de Chantal, who is probably best known for her great spiritual friendship with St. Francis de Sales, with whom she founded the Visitation sisters. Before that, however, St. Jane was a happily married wife and mother who successfully managed a large estate.   

 

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Blogs:  "Happily Even After" and "Learning to Say 'I Do'" 

This month our bloggers find much to celebrate with their families. Sara and Justin's baby, Gus, turns one year old. Josh and Stacey attend a Noem family reunion in South Dakota.


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Marriage in the News:A Papal Salute to Grandparents

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Pope Francis has had many encouraging words for young people, but he's also spoken on the important role of grandparents. At World Youth Day he described the relationship between the old and the young as "a treasure to be preserved and strengthened."

    

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Traumatic brain injury (TBI) occurs when a sudden trauma or head injury disrupts the function of the brain. TBI is commonly known as the signature wound of the Afghanistan and Iraq conflicts. TBI symptoms can appear immediately after or weeks to months following the injury. The mechanism of injury and severity of the injury guide screening, assessment and the plan of care. This webinar includes a discussion of typical comorbid occurring conditions that present with mild TBI/concussion and the most current approaches to symptom management of “the big four” (i.e., sleep, cognition, headache and mood). The goal of this webinar is to enhance health care providers’ knowledge of TBI and treatment for service members and veterans.

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Hi there,

#5 is a worrisome "pulse of the nation"

http://themarriageguytweet.blogspot.be/

Have a great week!

Emily