Candidates for Friday Five

Thursday, September 27, 2018 | 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm

Child welfare and poverty in America: How welfare policies have created an intergenerational cycle of poverty and dysfunction

http://www.aei.org/events/child-welfare-and-poverty-in-america/

2. What Makes a Good Life? 3 Lessons on Life, Love, and Decision Making from the Harvard Grant Study

https://www.6seconds.org/2018/09/18/what-makes-a-good-life-3-lessons-on-life-love-and-decision-making-from-the-harvard-grant-study/

3. #Research4Reform Content Collection

http://news.wiley.com/Research4Reform?

4. Communicating with older people can be difficult

Sam Asano

http://www.vvdailypress.com/news/20180916/communicating-with-older-people-can-be-difficult

5. The No. 1 Thing That’s Killing Your Happiness

David Schramm, Ph.D., CFLE

https://fox13now.com/2018/09/18/the-no-1-thing-thats-killing-your-happiness/

6. These Couples Are Putting Off Marriage Because Of Student Loan Debt

LUDMILA LEIVA

https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/debt-couples-marriage-money

7. Married men earn far more than any other American group

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/married-men-earn-far-more-than-any-other-american-group/

8. Marriage, what is it good for?

https://www.festivalofideas.cam.ac.uk/news/marriage-what-it-good

9. Researchers Explain How Arguing Can Improve Your Marriage

https://www.powerofpositivity.com/how-arguing-can-improve-your-marriage/

10. Trauma-Informed Approaches for Programs Serving Fathers in Re-Entry: A Review of the Literature and Environmental Scan

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/resource/trauma-informed-approaches-for-programs-serving-fathers-in-re-entry-a-review-of-the-literature-and-environmental-scan

thanks.

Bill

Candidates for Friday Five

1.

Restoring Respect is the First Step to a Better Society

Richard V Reeves

https://aeon.co/essays/restoring-respect-is-the-first-step-towards-a-better-society?

2. How to make friends as an adult

Beth Teitell

https://www.bostonglobe.com/lifestyle/2018/09/10/how-make-friends-adult/zBPGhmUsGq9uWGKHYzqe3K/story.html?

3. Providing Healthy Marriage Education to Clients with Lower Literacy Skills

Charlotte Shoup Olsen, Ph.D., Professor and Extension Specialist, School of Family Studies and Human Sciences, Kansas State University

https://www.healthymarriageandfamilies.org/sites/default/files/Resource%20Files/Providing%20HMRE%20to%20Lower%20Literacy.pdf?

OR

My Family Album: Healthy Relationship Activity Book for Children

Cenizal, Robyn (2017). My Family Album. Fairfax, VA: National Resource Center for Healthy Marriage and Families.

https://www.healthymarriageandfamilies.org/sites/default/files/Resource%20Files/Relc5H-2017-MyFamilyAlbum_forWeb_508c_0.pdf?utm_source=September+2018+Enews&utm_campaign=September+2018+e-news&utm_medium=email

4. Resources for Weathering Hurricanes and Other Disasters

https://www.ncfr.org/news/resources-weathering-hurricanes-and-other-disasters

OR

Why do people stay put during hurricanes? Here’s what psychology says.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2018/09/12/why-do-people-stay-put-during-hurricanes-heres-what-psychology-says/?utm_term=.d45625a2770a

5. A bagless approach in early intervention? What is that?

Crystal Williams

https://militaryfamilieslearningnetwork.org/2018/09/12/a-bagless-approach-in-early-intervention-what-is-that/

6.

Why We Need Hopeful News

JILL SUTTIE

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/why_we_need_news_that_is_hopeful_not_discouraging?

7. Understanding change in violence-related attitudes for adolescents in relationship education

Rachel Savasuk-Luxtona, ∗, Francesca Adler-Baeder, Megan L. Haselschwerdtb

https://handouts-live.s3.amazonaws.com/5ab24bb7dfbb40e4be34730a9c5a4602?sessionId=5987701024749171991&participantId=700069

8.

ALICE: A NEW LENS FOR FINANCIAL HARDSHIP

https://www.unitedwayalice.org/in-the-us

9. HA!

A marriage matching function with flexible spillover and substitution patterns

Ismael Mourifié

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s00199-018-1148-2

10. Wedding Photography Stats | Your Survival Guide To The Changing Marriage Market

Danielle & Shaun King

https://www.slrlounge.com/wedding-photography-stats-survival-guide/

11.

FSU research highlights the love-hate relationship between testosterone and marriage

BY: DAVE HELLER

https://news.fsu.edu/news/2018/09/11/fsu-research-highlights-the-love-hate-relationship-between-testosterone-and-marriage/

12. What do Millennials think of Marriage?

Vimeo

thanks

Be safe

Bill

Candidates for Friday Five

1. Communication-Skills-Based Job Prep Program Boosts Confidence In Nailing The Interview

https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/communication-skills-based-job-prep-program-boosts-confidence-in-nailing-the-interview-300705742.html

2. Opening Lines of Communication: Asking Financial Questions before Marriage

Carol Church & David Lee Sexton, Jr.

https://militaryfamilieslearningnetwork.org/2018/08/13/opening-lines-of-communication-asking-financial-questions-before-marriage/

3. Close ties with fathers help daughters overcome loneliness

The Ohio State University

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2018/08/180828121422.htm

OR

Good Fathers Are Vital For Optimal Child Development – Report

https://www.familyfirst.org.nz/2018/08/good-fathers-are-vital-for-optimal-child-development-report/

OR

Playing with dad could make a big difference in school

Pallavi Singhal

https://www.smh.com.au/education/playing-with-dad-could-make-a-big-difference-in-school-20180831-p500zx.html

4. Alabama’s Parenting Assistance Line (PAL) helps parents and caregivers across Birmingham

Patience Itson

https://bhamnow.com/2018/09/04/alabamas-parenting-assistance-line-pal-helps-parents-and-caregivers-across-birmingham/

5. Is Conflict With Your Spouse Undermining Your Health?

Michael O. Schroeder, Staff Writer

https://health.usnews.com/wellness/family/articles/2018-09-04/is-conflict-with-your-spouse-undermining-your-health

6. Marriage protects against malnutrition in old age

https://www.fau.eu/2018/09/04/news/research/marriage-protects-against-malnutrition-in-old-age/

7. In Sickness and in Health: Marriage and Chronic Illness

Marisa Zeppieri

https://lupusnewstoday.com/2018/09/04/lupus-sickness-health-marriage-chronic-illness-tips/

8. Falling marriage rates of young adults

Chang Se-moon

https://www.koreatimes.co.kr/www/opinion/2018/09/652_254797.html

9. How Not to Be a Helicopter Parent

By Mark Bertin

Parents can help their children most by getting back to the basics and not trying to solve everything.

Read More https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_support_your_kid_at_school_without_being_a_helicopter_parent?

OR

How to Raise a Kid with a Conscience in the Digital Age

By Caroline Knorr

Nudge kids to be their best selves by encouraging them to consume positive, inspiring media and online content.

Read More https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_raise_a_kid_with_a_conscience_in_the_digital_age

10. Highlights and Resources from The Power of Family Mealtimes: Strategies to Promote Health and Wellbeing

ROBIN ALLEN

https://militaryfamilieslearningnetwork.org/2018/09/05/highlights-and-resources-from-the-power-of-family-mealtimes/

OR

The Distance Between Two Hearts: Veteran Parenting Training

Bari Sobelson, MS, LMFT

https://militaryfamilieslearningnetwork.org/2018/09/03/the-distance-between-two-hearts-veteran-parenting-training/

11. Cartoons: The Funny Thing About Marriage…

By: Post Editors

http://www.saturdayeveningpost.com/2018/08/30/humor/funny-marriage.html

Thanks.

Bill

Candidates for Friday Five

1. The Four Keys to Happiness at Work

EMILIANA R. SIMON-THOMAS

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/the_four_keys_to_happiness_at_work

2. E M E R G I N G A D U L T S ’ R E L A T I O N S H I P S WITH THEIR PARENTS

Jacob Goldsmith, Ph.D.

https://www.family-institute.org/sites/default/files/pdfs/csi-emerging-adults-relationships-with-parents.pdf

3. On-again, off-again relationships might be toxic for mental health

University of Missouri

https://munews.missouri.edu/research/2018/0823-on-again-off-again-relationships-might-be-toxic-for-mental-health/

4. HHS Blog Post: Healthy Marriage and Relationship Education: Strengthening Family Bonds and Increasing Economic Independence

https://peerta.acf.hhs.gov/content/hhs-blog-post-healthy-marriage-and-relationship-education-strengthening-family-bonds-and

O R

Healthy Marriage and Relationship Education: Strengthening Family Bonds and Increasing Economic Independence

https://www.hhs.gov/blog/2018/08/23/healthy-marriage-and-relationship-education.html

5. Episode 1, How to Disagree: A Beginner's Guide to Having Better Arguments - BBC Radio 4

Timandra Harkness

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b0bf56gk

6.Marriage: More than a Century of Change, 1900-2016

https://www.bgsu.edu/ncfmr/resources/data/family-profiles/allred-marriage-century-change-fp-18-17.html

7. 2 officials want condoms distributed in all Montgomery Co. high schools

https://wtop.com/montgomery-county/2018/08/2-officials-want-condoms-distributed-in-all-montgomery-co-high-schools/

8 .

Top Ten Parenting Blogs in 2018

Maria Rabinovich

http://community.today.com/parentingteam/post/top-ten-parenting-blogs-in-2018

9. Exceptional intelligence and easygoingness may hurt your prospects: Threshold effects for rated mate characteristics

Gilles E. Gignac

Clare L. Starbuck

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/bjop.12342

10.

When We Don’t Apologize

Elizabeth A. Segal, Ph.D.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/social-empathy/201808/when-we-don-t-apologize

1 1.

Study: Children of Divorce Less Likely to Earn Degree

By

Greg Toppo

https://www.insidehighered.com/quicktakes/2018/08/29/study-children-divorce-less-likely-earn-degree

O R

https://www.news.iastate.edu/news/2018/08/28/divorcegrad

1 2. UNH Researchers Find Chaos at Home Can Adversely Affect Adolescents

http://www.newswise.com/articles/unh-researchers-find-chaos-at-home-can-adversely-affect-adolescents

Thanks Alysse

Bill

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Candidates for Friday Five

1. FDA allows marketing of first direct-to-consumer app for contraceptive use to prevent pregnancy

https://www.fda.gov/NewsEvents/Newsroom/PressAnnouncements/UCM616511.htm?

OR

A new birth control app has been approved by the FDA

Heather Marcoux

https://www.mother.ly/news/natural-cycles-birth-control-app-approved-by-fda?

2. Communicating With Congress: Writing Letters

Jennifer Crosswhite

https://www.ncfr.org/ncfr-report/summer-2018/communicating-congress-writing-letters

OR

U.S. Census Bureau Seeks Input on its Data Products

https://www.ncfr.org/news/us-census-bureau-seeks-input-its-data-products

3

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How (and Why) Government Should Invest in Marriage

by Alan J. Hawkins and Hal Boyd
within Education, Marriage
Aug 20, 2018 08:02 pm http://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2018/08/22304/

4. Getting married? DC area boasts some of nation’s most expensive marriage costs

Alejandro Alvarez

https://wtop.com/life-style/2018/08/getting-married-dc-area-boasts-some-nations-most-expensive-marriage-costs/

5. Education Week: Freaking out about marriage

Camille Baker

https://universe.byu.edu/2018/08/21/education-week-deciding-whom-to-marry/

6. Long-lasting marriage does not translate to happy marriage

Azuka Onwuka

https://punchng.com/long-lasting-marriage-does-not-translate-to-happy-marriage/

7. 10 tips for dealing with arguments in relationships

LINDA LEWIS GRIFFITH

https://www.sanluisobispo.com/living/family/linda-lewis-griffith/article216008195.html

8. For Better or Worse: The Marriage-Health Connection

Aaron Cheesman

http://www.sacmag.com/Sacramento-Magazine/August-2018/For-Better-or-Worse-The-Marriage-Health-Connection/

9. There is More Power in a Marriage Vow Than You Realize - PART 1

Brad Miller

https://tandemmarriage.com/post/?permalink=there-is-more-power-in-a-marriage-vow-than-you-realize---part-1

10. The 2018 AEI-Brookings Project on Paid Family Leave

Friday, September 7, 2018 | 1:30 pm - 4:45 pm

http://www.aei.org/events/the-2018-aei-brookings-project-on-paid-family-leave/

11. How Teens and Parents Navigate Screen Time and Device Distractions

JINGJING JIANG

http://www.pewinternet.org/2018/08/22/how-teens-and-parents-navigate-screen-time-and-device-distractions/

Thanks Alysse

Bill

Candidates for Friday Five

1. Immigration and Families Resources

https://www.ncfr.org/resources/resource-collections/immigration-resources

2. Families of Character Conference 2018-Intent to Thrive-Raising Kind Kids

https://familiesofcharacter.ticketleap.com/focintenttothrive2018conference/details

OR

Parenting, Child Wellbeing and Development

http://event.difi.org.qa/overview/

3. Episode 20: What If You Had Never Met?

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/podcasts/item/partner_for_granted?

4. Civil Society Strategy: building a future that works for everyone

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/civil-society-strategy-building-a-future-that-works-for-everyone

5. This is the best state to have a child in this year

Jane Burnett

https://www.theladders.com/career-advice/this-is-the-best-state-to-have-a-child-in-this-year

(i would have to say that the best state is the married state ~ BC)

6, Self-control develops gradually in adolescent brain

Miranda Buckheit

https://news.psu.edu/story/531255/2018/08/14/self-control-develops-gradually-adolescent-brain

7.

THE PARENTING SWEET SPOT WITH COLLEGE-BOUND KIDS

Jacob Goldsmith

https://www.family-institute.org/behavioral-health-resources/parenting-sweet-spot-college-bound-kids

8. State TANF Policies - A Graphical Overview of State TANF Policies as of July 2016

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/resource/state-tanf-policies-a-graphical-overview-of-state-tanf-policies-as-of-july-2016?

9. Back to School with Hope & Fear

Joshua Freedman

https://www.6seconds.org/2018/08/14/back-to-school-optimism-hope/

10. How to Plan a Wedding That Predicts a Happy Marriage

Wendy L. Patrick, Ph.D.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/201808/how-plan-wedding-predicts-happy-marriage

11. Commentary: Utah should help people understand the benefits of marriage

Stephen Duncan

https://www.sltrib.com/opinion/commentary/2018/08/11/commentary-utah-should/

12. More and more babies born outside of marriage in the EU

http://www.euronews.com/2018/08/10/more-and-more-babies-born-outside-of-marriage-in-the-eu

Thanks Alysse.

Bill

Candidates for Friday Five

1. RECS Closing Remarks and Plenary

Parents and Children Together: Findings from an Experimental Evaluation of Six Healthy Marriage and Responsible Fatherhood Programs

http://recsconference.net/2018videos.htm

2. Video: Explains Marriage and Relationship Education
This video explains what Marriage and Relationship Education is, what a program can look like, the topics covered and how to find a course or a facilitator.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=xyuUl-JnIhM

3. How Sleep Affects Your Relationships, According to Science

CASSIE SHORTSLEEVE

http://time.com/5348694/how-sleep-affects-relationships/

4. The Joys of Grandparenting

By Diana Divecha

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_navigate_the_joys_and_challenges_of_grandparenting

5. The Co-Parenting Relationship scale is a validated measure created by the FRPN that is available for free in both English and Spanish. This scale was developed specifically for low-income, nonresident fathers and looks at a variety of co-parenting domains, including alliance, gatekeeping and undermining. http://www.frpn.org/sites/default/files/The%20FRPN%20Coparenting%20Relationship%20Scale%20.pdf

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/29143335

6. You can find more tips like these in our tip sheets for service providers, or informational handouts for families, also available in Spanish.

https://www.healthymarriageandfamilies.org/level-1-basic-engagement

7.