Candidates for Friday Five 189

1. This One Simple Tool Could Save Your Relationship

Chris Wilson





2. Toumbourou, J., Hartman, D., Field, K., Jeffery, R., Brady, J., Heaton, A., Ghayour-Minaie, M., & Heerde, J. (2017). 

Strengthening prevention and early intervention services for families into the future. 
Deakin University and Family and Relationships Services Australia (FRSA)


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3. The importance of the first five years: Katharine Stevens’ testimony on Capitol Hill






4. Prepare couples for ups and downs of married life

David Kan






5. Paid grandparental leave: The future for family-friendly workplaces?



OR


 U.S. ranks highly in new index showing how societies are adapting to aging







6. FUSE:  Relationship & Marriage Education







7. PATIENTS ARE PEOPLE FIRST

 ROXANNE PATEL SHEPELAVY






8. Liberals often blame mass incarceration on the war on drugs. That’s not quite right.

German Lopez






9. Marriage notice books – a new source for family historians

Anna Manthorpe





 
 




11. American-Japanese couple juggles marriage with service to their respective nations












12. Framing messages to engage fathers in the first 1000 days

Richard Fletcher, Jennifer StGeorge and Chris May
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Fwd: CoupleTalk - Universal Version of RE Program now available

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Subject: CoupleTalk - Universal Version of RE Program now available
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Hi Everyone,

NIRE is excited to announce a new addition to the RE family of programs. Couple Talk - Universal Version, created by Don and Alex Flecky, is a video-based communication skills program for all couples. Subtitled as "A Video Version of Dr. Bernard Guerney's Relationship Enhancement® Program," CoupleTalk Universal does not include faith content and is suitable for use in community and federally-funded programs. It provides skills training in communication and conflict resolution using the research-proven RE skills, with their emphasis on empathy. 

CoupleTalk does not require a trained facilitator - video sessions can be accessed on DVDs or by online streaming. The program can be used in classes, as a supplement in counseling, or by a couple at home. It includes a number of distance learning elements to deepen understanding and enhance behavior change. The 10 video sessions are used with accompanying workbooks, and the entire 15 hour program, including four workbooks, can be purchased by a couple for as little as $150. The online community also includes shorter session options for situations where a 90 minute session is too long. 

CoupleTalk Universal will be debuting this month at NARME (National Association of Relationship and Marriage Education) in Denver. For more info and to order, go to www.coupletalk.com

Rob Scuka, PhD
Executive Director
NIRE



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Candidates for Friday Five

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Americans are most likely to follow their parents into these 20 professions
Dan Kopf







2
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Read the Summer 2016 of CFLE Network, featuring articles on the topic of Family Fun.







3
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Research suggests that being compassionate can improve health, well-being, and relationships. Find out more about this key to well-being, and how you can cultivate it in your own life!
 


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By Jaime Kurtz
 
Just in time for peak summer travel season, tips on using the science of happiness to make your holiday better.
 








4
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Now is the government’s chance to promote marriage and tackle our social problems
SIR PAUL COLERIDGE





5
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How to Talk to Your Political Other

Skills for talking across the divide







6
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If we want to solve our nation's problems, we need to strengthen families





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Number of divorces continues to rise, while fewer tie the knot




8
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Cubby house building in Belair National Park bucks children's 'structured lives'








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 Why Young Adults May Embrace Jane Austen’s ‘Happily Ever After’ In Marriage


By Elizabeth Kantor


OR

Making Peace With Jane Austen’s Marriage Plots

SOPHIE GILBERT
 






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Kids in High-Stress Environments May Develop Unique Skills

University Communications and University of Utah





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Candidates for Friday Five

1. 

Three Innovative Approaches to Serving Low-Income Fathers: The Building Bridges and Bonds Study








2
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Give me a sign: What Signals Commitment?


Dr. Scott Stanley






3
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Is slowness the essence of knowledge?

Eloise Stark looks at whether ‘slow and steady wins the race’.









4
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Effects of early parenting interventions on parents and infants
Joanne Commerford







5
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What Is Altruism?




6. 
National Resource Center for Healthy Marriage and Families Virtual Training Center






7. How to Manage: Let Employees Put Family First. It's Good for Business.




8. ​Hundreds of Orgs Sign On to Call for Expansion of Federal Home Visiting Program












9
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July 20, 2017

The 2017 Index of Culture and Opportunity: The Social and Economic Trends that Shape America






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ESTABLISHING THE FACTS ABOUT FAMILY BREAKDOWN – TRANSFORMING THE DEBATE ABOUT MARRIAGE

Harry Benson | Director of Research











1
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We’re not ready for the ‘silver tsunami’ of older adults living with cance
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Keith M. Bellizzi








1
​2. 
Who Gets More Out of Marriage, Women or Men?
By 
Ben Steverman









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​hanks Alysse​









Fwd: Louise Guerney's revised edition of Parenting: A Skills Training Manual is available

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Subject: Louise Guerney's revised edition of Parenting: A Skills Training Manual is available

Hi Everyone,
 
The revised 6th edition of Louise Guerney's much acclaimed Parenting: A Skills Training Manual is available for bulk purchase at a discounted rate.
 
Boxes of 20 can be ordered for $130.00, a 50% discount from the regular single copy rate, s/h included.
 
Please call 301-680-8977 to place your order with credit card information.
 
Alternatively, you can mail a check to:
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4400 East-West Highway #24
Bethesda, MD 20814
 
Orders will be collected and shipped once a week.
 
Best wishes to one and all,
 
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NIRE


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Candidates for Friday Five

1. What America’s ‘Baby Bust’ Means for Public Policy

2
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Married People Have More Sex

NATHAN YAU  






3
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Increase Empathy in the Six Seconds Model of EQ






6
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8 Great Presidential Love Stories
 
David Breitenbeck







7
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Children object to losing time with dad to 24/7 economy
Lyndall Strazdins







8
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Supporting families helps the bottom line

Frank Young










9
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CITY SOUL EXPLORER TOOLKIT
Milton Friesen







10. The reasons why millennials move less frequently than previous generations
Dan Kopf








1
​1. 
The Fracking Boom, a Baby Boom, and the Retreat From Marriage

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Fwd: Positivity is Contagious


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We know that life can be hard sometimes and that it can take a toll on your relationship - but can positivity play a role in your marriage? 

What is your attitude towards your marriage?


Imagine this: It's a Tuesday morning; you forgot to set your alarm last night. You wake up half an hour late and no longer have time to shower before work. Scrambling to get in on time, you forget to grab an orange - which you have every morning for breakfast. Once you get into work, ten minutes late, you find you are scheduled for a morning meeting ... again. Bewildered by the audacity of your supervisor, you reluctantly accept the scheduled meeting on your computer and start to prepare for it.

Ten thirty rolls around and you walk into the meeting. Everyone is laughing, smiling, having a general good time and you roll your eyes to yourself - it's a Tuesday, why is everyone so cheerful. Twenty minutes into the painfully "fun" meeting you sputter out a chuckle.

What. Where did that come from?

It's almost as if your coworkers' positivity had an impact on your mood.

Believe it or not, the people you spend your time with can affect your attitude towards your day, your week, and even your life in general. When you have a positive outlook, it can help your mood which has been shown to affect your health. Here are some things that a positive outlook can do to affect your life:
  • There's more laughter
  • A valuable source of motivation
  • Attracts other happy people
  • Reduces stress
  • Lowers risk for heart-related health problems
If we know that a positive outlook affects your mood and your health - what if we think about it in terms of your relationship? If you have a poor attitude at work, school, or in general about your life you may be projecting that attitude onto your marriage without knowing it. If you know having a positive outlook on life can lower your health risks, think about what having a positive outlook on your relationship could do for your marriage's health.


Take some time each day to remember the good in your relationship, even when you're running late because your spouse couldn't figure out which tie to wear, or bitter that you missed the bus because your partner was having a bad hair day, or stressed that your partner forgot to pick up more milk for the recipe you are making tonight.  What is your marriage attitude?  A little grace, empathy, and thankfulness might give you the boost you need.  Healthy, happy couples have healthy, happy relationships.

And lastly, remember to smile, it actually won't kill ya!
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Fwd: ACF Family Room Blog: Research Shows Importance of “Success Sequence”


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Research Shows Importance of “Success Sequence”

June 23, 2017

New report on millennials and avoiding poverty

Steven Wagner, ACF Acting Assistant Secretary for Children and Families

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ACF’s programs are designed to help low-income families, while promoting the healthiest and best choices for Americans to succeed in life. Our Temporary Assistance for Needy Families program, for instance, has specific purposes in its statute, including promoting job preparation, work and marriage; preventing out-of-wedlock pregnancies; and encouraging two-parent married families.

new report shows how crucial the “success sequence” is for young adults to avoid poverty. Authored by Brad Wilcox and Wendy Wang of the American Enterprise Institute and the Institute for Family Studies, it states: “Millennials are much more likely to flourish financially if they follow the ‘success sequence’—getting at least a high school degree, working full-time, and marrying before having any children, in that order.”

The statistics are worth looking at. The report shows, for instance, “95 percent of millennials who married first are not poor, compared to 72 percent who had children first.” Additionally, “71 percent who married before having children made it into the middle or higher end of the income distribution by the time they are age 28-34. By comparison, only 41 percent of millennials from lower-income families who had children first made it into the middle or higher end of the distribution when they reached ages 28-34.”

ACF’s programs offer tools to support healthy decisions. Our abstinence education programs – block grants to states, and funding for local grantees – aim to deliver promising approaches to reducing out-of-wedlock pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. And our healthy marriage program offers a range of activities, including premarital education and marriage skills training.

Sometimes individuals, particularly young people, who experience poverty and material or emotional need lose hope that they will ever be able to realize their personal goals in life. The Wilcox-Wang research should give them hope. By choosing to achieve these life goals in their proper order, millennials in this research were virtually certain (97 percent) to have avoided poverty, with a mere three percent of those following this path in poverty. The success sequence should be a model on how to achieve good results.


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Candidates for Friday Five

1. CFLE Network, NCFR


or


Tips for Family Vacations




2.

 
Toumbourou, J., Hartman, D., Field, K., Jeffery, R., Brady, J., Heaton, A., Ghayour-Minaie, M., Heerde, J. (2017). 
Strengthening prevention and early intervention services for families into the future. Deakin University and FRSA

READ THE FULL ARTICLE HERE >

https://frsa.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/FRSA-Research-Report-Printable.pdf

Spring 2017


3. Evidence Supporting Three Interventions That Might Slow Cognitive Decline and the Onset of Dementia Is Encouraging but Insufficient to Justify a Public Health Campaign Focused on Their Adoption







4. Want to avoid divorce? Don't marry your childhood sweetheart

Olivia Rudgard






5. Love, Lust and Loneliness campaign








6. Men as Dependents? Marriage and Changes in Health Insurance Coverage among Working-age Adults in the United States, 1988 to 2008
Christine Percheski



OR

A Snapshot of Men, Work and Family Relationships in Canada







7. PTSD and marriage: Advice from someone who’s been there






8. Guide: Marriage, Weddings and Money

Amin Dabit, CFP®





9. What American marriages are really like in 2017



OR

7 secrets to a lasting relationship from the hugely popular 'Marriage 101' class






10. Marriage, fatherhood may cause men to gain weight

 Honor Whiteman






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