Candidates for Friday Five

1. 

Webinar Next Week:

To learn more about this release, check out our recently updated release notes and FAQs, and join a live demo of data.census.gov on 6/20 at 2pm ETD.


 

2. How to Teach Siblings to Resolve Their Own Arguments

By Steve Calechman





3. 2019 IARR Mini-Conference: Positive Action in Relationships






4. Want To Be Happily Married? Expert Counselors Just Revealed the 8 Things You're Doing Wrong

 Chris Matyszczyk


OR

Marriage Matters: ‘The Thing’ that makes marriage work

James and Audora Burg

 
 


5. RAND reports on how educators view social and emotional learning

 



6. 8 facts about American dads

GRETCHEN LIVINGSTON AND KIM PARKER





7. Standards of Evidence for Conducting and Reporting Economic Evaluations in Prevention Science

  • D. Max CrowleyEmail author
  • Kenneth A. Dodge 
  • W. Steven Barnett 
  • Phaedra Corso
  • Sarah Duffy 
  • Phillip Graham 
  • Mark Greenberg 
  • Ron Haskins 
  • Laura Hill
  • Damon E. Jones 
  • Lynn A. Karoly 
  • Margaret R. Kuklinski 
  • Robert Plotnick






  • 8. How Stockholm became the city of work-life balance

    Richard Orange




    9. Women, Marriage, and the National Retirement Risk Index

    by Alicia H. Munnell,Wenliang Hou and Geoffrey T. Sanzenbacher




    10. People Are Still Getting Married, and This Book Is Here to Help






    11. TEEN DEPRESSION TREATMENT SHOULD EXTEND TO PARENTS’ MARRIAGE

    KRISTIN SAMUELSON-NORTHWESTERN  





    12. 8 Dads on the Picture Books They Love Reading to Their Kids

    by Jennifer Garry




    Thanks Alysse.

    Bill


    Candidates for Friday Five

    1.The Dangerous Game of Croquet

    Livia Gershon 





    2. How to Raise Helpful Children

     
    3. ATTENTION IS THE MOST BASIC EXPRESSION OF LOVE





    4.  WHAT WE CAN LEARN FROM THE DRAMATIC DIP IN DIVORCE AMONG MILLENNIALS






    5.  Despite Labor Market Gains in 2018, There Were Only Modest Improvements in Families’ Ability to Meet Basic Needs

    Michael Karpman Stephen Zuckerman Dulce Gonzalez





    6. Almost one in six people have health problems affecting their sex life – So let’s start talking about sex more!

    Emma Waring





    7. High School Seniors' Ideal Time for Marriage, 2017
     Colette Allred





    8. Unity couple reaches rare milestone with 75th wedding anniversary

    RENATTA SIGNORINI





    9. Data User Workshop -- Add Health Parent Study (AHPS)
    Express Interest in Attendance by: June 15
    Workshop Dates: August 13 - 14
    Send Email to AHPSWorksop2019@duke.edu 








    11. Accomplishments in Behavioral and Social Sciences Research





    12. Pleasant Family Leisure at Home May Satisfy Families More than Fun Together Elsewhere, Baylor Expert Says






    13. Should death be a dinner table conversation?





    Thanks.

    Bill

    Candidates for Friday Five


    Devan Clayton 










    3. Universal approaches to promoting healthy development

    A Princeton-Brookings Future of Children Event
     




    4. Peter Jon Mitchell: Every way you measure it, marriage leads to more stable family lives








    6. Fathers must take charge of their sons' sexual education, resist 'toxic' sex ed: scholar

     Brandon Showalter, CP Reporter 






    7. What makes people have babies? The link between cultural values and fertility rates




    OR

    Is U.S. fertility at an all-time low? Two of three measures point to yes

    BY GRETCHEN LIVINGSTON




     8. Divorce is more harmful to kids’ education when parents are statistically unlikely to split, study finds




    OR

    How Successful Are the Marriages of People With Divorced Parents?

    JOE PINSKER



     



    9.  The Values and Rituals of Authentic Relationships: What the Relationship Enhancement Model Teaches Us about Marriage 

    Robert F. Scuka, Ph.D., M.S.W., LCSW-C




    10.   A REFLECTION ON 50 YEARS OF FAMILIES 

    By Aaron Cooper, Ph.D.





    11. 

    BACK TO 1969: LIFETIME DIVORCE RISK IS NOW 35 PER CENT




    OR


    MPs debate marriage week in parliament

    Michaela Hyde

    Candidates for Friday Five

    1. Why You Shouldn’t Love Your Kids More Than Your Partner

     BELINDA LUSCOMBE





    2. Can AI Nudge Us to Make Better Choices?

    Bob Suh



    OR



    3. The New York Times launches its (evidence-driven, non-judgy) Parenting vertical, with an eye toward making it a subscription product

    LAURA HAZARD OWEN  


    OR

    NYT Corrections: May 5, 2019

    last Sunday about socially conservative women and family policy misstated the source of information about mothers with young children who prefer to work full time. It is research by the Institute for Family Studies, not analysis of American Community Survey data by the institute. 

     


    4. The Prevention Services Clearinghouse Handbook of Standards and Procedures
     

    OR





    5. Why we should respond to the lure of wedding bells

     Peter Jon Mitchell Hamilton Spectator 





    6. Assisting families with ageing-related relationship issues

    Paula Mance  



    OR

    National Families Week  










    8. Marriage Week 2019





    9. On Being with Krista Tippett

    Atul Gawande

    What Matters in the End






    10.  6 Picture Books that Make the Sweetest Gifts for New Moms

    by Jennifer Garry



    11. 

    What Does It Mean to Be ‘Ready’ for a Relationship?


    OR

    Don’t Be Grateful That Dad Does His Share




    Thanks and Happy Mothers Day

    I'll be back from France for the May 31 edition #278

    Candidates for Friday Five




    OR

    You’re Missing It! Reminds Parents that Kids Aren’t the Only Ones Who Should Put Down the Screens

    by Jennifer Garry




    2.16 Books That Model Empathy and Compassion for Young Readers

    by Charnaie Gordon
     


    OR


    Five Childhood Experiences That Lead to a More Purposeful Life

    BY MARYAM ABDULLAH 






    3. Improving Couples’ Relationship Leads to Improved Coparenting

    by Devan Clayton





    4. People with happy spouses may live longer





    5. The family is the centre of our universe





    6. 3 Tips for nourishing your marriage on a daily basis

     Cecilia Zinicola and Matthew Green  





    7. Survey for married women






    8. Erasing the Stigma: Mental Health for Men

    Jason M. Jowers, MS 





    9. Addressing Libertarian concerns about paid leave

    Aparna Mathur  





    10.  NPCL and the 21st Annual IFC Host Committee


    or


    By Mike McManus 


     





    11. Do Married Millennials Cheat on Each Other?

    OLGA KHAZAN




     

    12. Arguing in Front of the Kids May Be Good for Them

    Sue Shellenbarger  






    13. NCFR  Resource Library


    OR

    THE 9th ANNUAL NARME SUMMIT IS COMING TO THE

    SHERATON MUSIC CITY HOTEL IN NASHVILLE, TN!





    Thanks

    Bill


    Candidates for Friday Five

    1. TANF Caseload Data for FY and CY 2018 can be found here: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/ofa/resource/tanf-caseload-data-2018

    OR

    OFA Webinar: Coordinating Services for TANF and Child Welfare Families




    https://militaryfamilieslearningnetwork.org/2019/03/15/the-eight-domains-of-total-force-fitness-military-families-lethality-and-resilience/  





    OR





    4. Parental conflict reduction projects to get £2m in DWP funding

     Joe Lepper








    OR

    Age-verification for online pornography to begin in July



     


    5.   2017-2018 Evaluation Report

      THE ALABAMA DEPARTMENT OF CHILD ABUSE & NEGLECT PREVENTION 
    THE CHILDREN’S TRUST FUND SALLYE LONGSHORE, M.S., ED.S., DIRECTOR  


    OR

      Documenting the Impact of Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention Programs in Alabama: Aggregating Information Across a Wide Range of Programs (presented 4/24/19)

     Sallye R. Longshore, Ed.S. Director, Alabama Department of Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention (ADCANP) 
    Francesca Adler-Baeder, Ph.D., Auburn University




    • FP-19-07
      Median Age at First Marriage: Geographic Variation, 2017 
    • FP-19-06
      Median Age at First Marriage, 2017
     



    7. Trask Extols Benefits of Parent Education at UN Commission





    8.  How to Gradually Introduce Kids to the Idea of Forgiveness


    MARYAM ABDULLAH 




    OR

    What Happens When Old and Young Connect?

    By Marc Freedman 

    https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/what_happens_when_old_and_young_connect?  



     

    9.  How or Why Does Relationship Education Work?

    Hailey Palmer and Alan J. Hawkins 





    10. Having a kid won’t kill your marriage, and other parenting “truths” debunked

    Julia Belluz




    Thanks


    Bill


    Candidates for Friday Five

    1. It’s Dangerous to Be a Boy

    By Michael C. Reichert


    OR

    TEENS FACE HEALTH AND SAFETY RISKS EXPLORING SEX ONLINE

    CAROLINE BROOKS-MICHIGAN STATE

     


    2. Yes means yes: why verbal consent policies are ineffective

    BY DONNA FREITAS

      https://blog.oup.com/2019/04/why-verbal-consent-policies-ineffective/  


    OR





    3. Families in Global Contexts / Rise Up Families Conference
    Call for Proposals Deadline: May 30, 2019

    OR

    Administration for Children & Families National Fatherhood Summit

    Tuesday, June 4, 2019 (All day) to Thursday, June 6, 2019 (All day)

    City: Nashville, Tennessee


     



    4. Strategies For Involving And Engaging Fathers In Programming

    • Tova Walsh, Lauren Zach, Patrick Fendt, and Darryl Davidson

    OR

    FRPN Webinar: State Policies and Practices to Promote Father Involvement


    Thursday, April 18, 2019, 3 - 4:30 p.m. EST




     

    5. Building a marriage in a digital world



    OR

     
    7 tips to help our children use technology well





    6. Why Family Matters – Comprehensive analysis of the consequences of family breakdown

     
    OR

    Building resilient families: third annual report of the Troubled Families Programme 2018 to 2019






    7.  MEETING PARENTS WHERE THEY DREAM: CRITICAL VOICES AND LIVED EXPERIENCES

    By Anne Mosle





    8.  Bernard Guerney, 89, Giant of Psychotherapy





    9. How to survive when your spouse retires

    You may have married for better, or for worse, but perhaps not for lunch

    Carla Fried





    10.  Study: Families spend half of their evening meal distracted by technology, tasks

    by Sharita Forrest, University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign




    Thanks!
    Bill



    Candidates for Friday Five

    1. Will Generation Z be the last to enjoy the benefits of marriage?

    Ann Farmer




    2. 

    Effects of Two Healthy Marriage Programs for Low-Income Couples: Evidence from the Parents and Children Together Evaluation




    OR

    MotherWise: Implementation of a Healthy Marriage and Relationship Education Program for Pregnant and New Mothers

     



    3. What Is Early Childhood Development? A Guide to the Science





    4. Age Variation in the First Marriage Rate, 1990 & 2017





    5. The Consequences of Teen Motherhood Can Last for Generations

    ALIA WONG






    6. Protective Factors in Practice Vignettes






    7. Presentation of the Family International Monitor the Pontifical Theological Institute "John Paul II"





    8. Truth About Tech: Solutions for Digital Well-Being Livestream



    OR

    FOSI Briefs the Hill on Online Safety Across the Generations  



     

    9. Who Benefits Most from Relationship Education?

    Hailey Palmer and Alan J. Hawkins 





    10. Health status, sexual activity and satisfaction among older people in Britain: A mixed methods study



    OR

    Record low as 25pc of marriages are religious ceremonies, as weddings become 'more social, less sacred'

    Gabriella Swerling
     



     Erin Holmes, Alan Hawkins, Braquel Egginton, Nathan Robbins & Kevin Shafer






    Thanks.

    Bill

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    24 Common Cognitive Biases: A Visual List of the Psychological Systems Errors That Keep Us From Thinking Rationally

    Posted: 22 Mar 2019 10:02 AM PDT

    There’s been a lot of talk about the Dunning-Kruger effect, the cognitive bias that makes people wildly overconfident, unable to know how ignorant they are because they don’t have the basic skills to grasp what competence means. Once popularized, the effect became weaponized. People made armchair diagnoses, gloated and pointed at the obliviously stupid. But if those finger-pointers could take the beam out of their own eye, they might see four fingers pointing back at them, or whatever folk wisdom to this effect you care to mash up.

    What we now call cognitive biases have been known by many other names over the course of millennia. Perhaps never have the many varieties of self-deception been so specific. Wikipedia lists 185 cognitive biases, 185 different ways of being irrational and deluded. Surely, it’s possible that every single time we—maybe accurately—point out someone else’s delusions, we’re hoarding a collection of our own. According to much of the research by psychologists and behavioral economists, this may be inevitable and almost impossible to remedy.

    Want to better understand your own cognitive biases and maybe try to move beyond them if you can? See a list of 24 common cognitive biases in an infographic poster at yourbias.is, the site of the nonprofit School of Thought. (The two gentlemen popping up behind brainy Jehovah in the poster, notes Visual Capitalist, "happen to represent Daniel Kahneman and Amos Tversky, two of the leading social scientists known for their contributions to this field. Not only did they pioneer work around cognitive biases starting in the late 1960s, but their partnership also resulted in a Nobel Prize in Economics in 2002.")

    Granted, a Wikipedia list is a crowd-sourced creation with lots of redundancy and quite a few “dubious or trivial” entries, writes Ben Yagoda at The Atlantic. “The IKEA effect, for instance, is defined as ‘the tendency for people to place a disproportionately high value on objects they partially assembled themselves.’” Much of the value I’ve personally placed on IKEA furniture has to do with never wanting to assemble IKEA furniture again. “But a solid group of 100 or so biases has been repeatedly shown to exist, and can make a hash of our lives.”

    These are the tricks of the mind that keep gamblers gambling, even when they’re losing everything. They include not only the “gambler’s fallacy” but confirmation bias and the fallacy of sunk cost, the tendency to pursue a bad outcome because you’ve already made a significant investment and you don’t want it to have been for nothing. It may seem ironic that the study of cognitive biases developed primarily in the field of economics, the only social science, perhaps, that still assumes humans are autonomous individuals who freely make rational choices.

    But then, economists must constantly contend with the counter-evidence—rationality is not a thing most humans do well. (Evolutionarily speaking, this may have been no great disadvantage until we got our hands on weapons of mass destruction and the tools of climate collapse.) When we act rationally in some areas, we tend to fool ourselves in others. Is it possible to overcome bias? That depends on what we mean. Political and personal prejudices—against ethnicities, nationalities, genders, and sexualities—are usually buttressed by the systems errors known as cognitive biases, but they are not caused by them. They are learned ideas that can be unlearned.

    What researchers and academics mean when they talk about bias does not relate to specific content of beliefs, but rather to the ways in which our minds warp logic to serve some psychological or emotional need or to help regulate and stabilize our perceptions in a manageable way. “Some of these biases are related to memory,” writes Kendra Cherry at Very Well Mind, others “might be related to problems with attention. Since attention is a limited resource, people have to be selective about what they pay attention to in the world around them.”

    We’re constantly missing what’s right in front of us, in other words, because we’re trying to pay attention to other people too. It’s exhausting, which might be why we need eight hours or so of sleep each night if we want our brains to function half decently. Go to yourbias.is for this list of 24 common cognitive biases, also available on a nifty poster you can order and hang on the wall. You'll also find there an illustrated collection of logical fallacies and a set of “critical thinking cards” featuring both kinds of reasoning errors. Once you've identified and defeated all your own cognitive biases—all 24, or 100, or 185 or so—then you'll be ready to set out and fix everyone else's.

    via Visual Capitalist

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    Josh Jones is a writer and musician based in Durham, NC. Follow him at @jdmagness

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