Dennis Stoica teaching a webinar on ACF grant announcements June 17 for NARME members

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On Friday June 17 from 1:30 pm to 3:00 pm (ET), NARME Board Member Dennis Stoica (President of California Healthy Marriages Coalition) will conduct a 90-minute webinar - for NARME Members only – comparing and contrasting the six different grant announcements which are scheduled to be released earlier that week. 
 
This will be an extremely valuable webinar since by the end of this webinar most participants will have a clear idea of which of the six grants is the best fit for their organization – which will allow you to focus your energies where you have the greatest potential.  (Note:  if ACF changes their actual release date for the grants, this webinar will be rescheduled accordingly.) 
 
Hundreds of organizations participated in a similar teleconference that Dennis conducted back in 2006 when the original Healthy Marriage Demonstration Grants and Promoting Responsible Fatherhood Grants were released; and many of those participants attributed their subsequent success in being awarded grants to a combination of that teleconference and the subsequent grant-writing tele-trainings that Dennis conducted during that year’s grant-writing period.  Since this webinar will only be offered to NARME members, if you have not yet joined NARME you should do that right away by going to http://www.regonline.com/builder/site/Default.aspx?EventID=881238.
 
 
 
TIME is RUNNING OUT!!!  BOOK Your $109 Room for NARME Conference hotel is almost SOLD OUT!!! 
Book your NARME Conference spot and get your $109 room rate at the premier Hilton of the Americas before the hotel is totally sold out!  
 
 
 
When in Texas you have to have Barbeque!  We have the best networking event planned for you...Texas BBQ & Bowling hosted at Lucky Strikes!!! Eat, Network & Knock Down Pins! 
 
When you leave your head will be spinning with great ideas, new research and lots of new networking relationships!  
  
 
For speakers and agenda, go to http://www.narmeconference.com/
 
CONTACT:  Maggie Russell / Maggie@NARME.org
Strengthening Marriages and Families

P.O. Box 14946 | Tallahassee, FL 32317 US

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Why We Lost the War on Poverty


06/08/2011

It's not popular to say, but the reality is that social - not material - deficits keep poverty in business

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Robert W. Patterson is editor of The Family in America: A Journal of Public Policy, www.familyinamerica.org.

When Hurricane Katrina struck New Orleans nearly six years ago, leaving tens of thousands of African Americans struggling for survival, the aftermath revealed a reality that was ignored at time and continues to be overlooked by Republicans and Democrats alike.

No, it’s not the “history of racism” or the “legacy of inequality” that then-President George W. Bush blamed for the violence, disorder, and dire conditions in the Big Easy at the time. Nor is about the material needs of “low-income families,” a euphemism that obscures the nature of the crisis.

Rather, it’s about a city and a nation underwater socially, or falling behind in metrics that really matter: marriage and family formation. As television coverage revealed, the vast majority of victims who were trying to escape New Orleans were mothers and children who lacked a social necessity -- husbands and married fathers. Where were the men, the natural protectors and providers? Reports showed that more than a few young males, instead of aiding women and children, were preying on the victims, stealing, looting, and even shooting the rescuers.

America has seen social chaos like this before. It was not uncommon among the first generation of Irish immigrants to New York City and other Americans who flocked to mining camps and cow towns on the Western frontier in the 19thcentury.

Although he wrote before Katrina, historian David Courtwright connects the dots between the frontier and today’s inner city in his 1996 book, “Violent Land.” Then as now, poverty, crime, violence -- as well as a shortage of husbands and married fathers and an abundance of young men without meaningful bonds to women and children -- were the rule, not the exception. Courtwright blames today’s urban blight on “the decline of stable two-parent families and the institution of marriage in the context of an entrenched culture of poverty in an isolated, youth subsociety with diminishing employment opportunities and a chronically low gender ratio.”

According to his calculus, the disorder in New Orleans was not due to poverty or racial inequality as the political class imagined, but to the retreat from marriage and family life that Daniel Patrick Moynihan warned about forty years earlier.

Indeed, the National Center for Health Statistics reports that 77 percent of all African-American births in Louisiana in the year Katrina hit were to unmarried mothers. Moreover, Census Bureau data indicates that unwed mother-led households with dependent children outnumber their married-coupled peers in New Orleans, as they do in Baltimore City and in the District of Columbia.

Had rates of marriage and family formation not fallen so precipitously since the 1970s, Americans would have seen a very different New Orleans, as well as less material disadvantage elsewhere. Researchers at the liberal Brookings Institution and the conservative Heritage Foundation agree. Isabel Sawhill of Brookings claims that virtually all of the increase in child poverty in the United States since the 1970s can be attributed to family breakdown. Her colleague Ron Haskins estimates that had marriage rates remained unchanged from 1980, child poverty today would be reduced almost 30 percent. Robert Rector of Heritage claims child poverty today would be reduced by more than 80 percent if marriage rates had remained what they were in 1960.

Ironically, those who claim to care most about the poor -- the civil-rights establishment, the partisans of the Great Society, the “means-tested” welfare-social services complex, the legal establishment, and the professional feminists -- ignore these social realities. Moreover, these voices are largely responsible for this “unmarriage revolution” as author Kay Hymowitz terms it. Consequently, their cherished War on Poverty, even with the much-touted GOP-led reforms of 1996, has lowered the prospects of the poor by displacing marriage and fathers from families, leaving the underclass less self-reliant and more welfare-dependent than when LBJ launched the initiative in 1964.

The lesson: The War on Poverty, which has left men, women, and children socially impoverished, has been no friend of the poor. But marriage -- because it connects men to women, husbands to wives, and fathers to their children -- is absolutely indispensable to helping them. The sooner we retreat from the former, and restore the flourishing family system that the Great Society displaced, the better.

Culture Watch: A Marshall Plan for Marriage – Rebuilding Our Shattered Homes


Culture Watch: Weekly Round-Up on Family, Religion and Civil Society

June 9, 2011

A Marshall Plan for Marriage – Rebuilding Our Shattered Homes

Marriage in America is in serious trouble. More Americans are cohabitating, fewer are marrying, and if they do wed it is at a much later age than previous generations. Although divorce rates have declined slightly over the past 20 years, pervasive no-fault divorce laws allow marital dissolution to continue plaguing American communities. Four out of 10 children are now born outside of marriage, increasing government dependence by leaving thousands more children without the social and economic stability of married households.

Given the profound impact of intact, married families on child well-being, efforts to encourage and strengthen marriage are urgently needed. Just as the U.S. formulated a plan to help European countries recover after World War II, national leaders should implement a new Marshall Plan – one that rebuilds American homes and restores a culture of marriage. In a new Heritage paper, Senior Research Fellow Chuck Donovan describes the state of marriage in America and outlines a number of principles national leaders can follow to better encourage and support stable families: 

  1. Eliminate marriage penalties from federal programs. Married couples tend to be better off financially than their single or cohabitating counterparts. Policymakers should encourage such beneficial economic decisions by removing financial disincentives to marriage from tax and welfare policies.
  2. Encourage pro-marriage messaging in existing government programs and other resources. Repurposing existing government initiatives and grant programs to promote strong marriages and initiating media campaigns that encourage matrimony can expand public awareness of marriage’s social and economic benefits.
  3. Implement state-driven divorce reform that encourages reconciliation. The cost of divorce to taxpayers and communities is high. States should reform existing divorce laws to recognize and accommodate the many divorcing couples who are open to counseling and reconciliation efforts.
  4. Study, recognize, and reward success in marriage. Given the significant cost savings to taxpayers when marriages succeed, national leaders should find new ways to acknowledge success in marriage and recognize the power of civic leadership in publicly extolling the many benefits of marriage.

The nation’s leaders must make a concerted effort to address family dissolution and marital breakdown. As Donovan concludes, “Halting and reversing the sustained trends of nearly four decades will not happen by accident. The nation needs to forge a fresh American consensus that rescuing marriage – a Marshall Plan to rebuild shattered American homes – is a matter of the highest national priority.”

Read more about the need for a Marshall Plan for Marriage and what national leaders can do to restore a culture of marriage. 

More from Heritage
A Marshall Plan for Marriage: Rebuilding Our Shattered Homes 
Chuck Donovan 

When Marriage Disappears: The Retreat from Marriage in Middle America 
Chuck Donovan, Brad Wilcox of the National Marriage Project, and Paul Taylor of the Pew Research Center

Indivisible: Marriage 
Learn how a culture of marriage can help sustain limited government in this essay from a Heritage collection on the social and economic foundations of American liberty. 

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Posted on Tuesday, Jun. 07, 2011

Wichita summit will focus on strengthening families
By SUZANNE PEREZ TOBIAS

Most experts agree that healthier families could be key to solving many of society's problems — crime, drop-out rates, teen pregnancy, substance abuse and more.

But how can a community strengthen families? Where do you start?

"It's about bringing people together," said Mike Duxler, an associate professor of social work at Newman University and director of the Marriage for Keeps project.



Help a PhD Candidate out and have a chance to win an Apple iPad 2 (2nd Request)

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Date: Fri, Jun 3, 2011 at 1:16 PM
Subject: Help a PhD Candidate out and have a chance to win an Apple iPad 2 (2nd Request)

This is a 2nd request for study participants:

You are invited to take part in a survey which takes approximately 10-15 minutes to complete online. One (1) study participant will win an Apple iPad 2 as a

thank you gift for your time and participation. This research study will examine the relationship between spirituality and marital satisfaction, and as such I am looking for 100 heterosexual married couples over the age of 18 to complete the online questionnaire. Couples will enter their responses independently, and do not need to take the survey at the same time. Your participation is anonymous and confidential.

The link to the survey is:
https://www.psychdata.com/s.asp?SID=142172

PsychData is a reputable and secure web-based site with security features that ensures the confidentiality of your survey responses. Your participation is voluntary. If you are unable to participate yourself, you are still welcome to send this information on to anyone that may be interested in participating.


Jason M. Karampatsos, MS, NCC; PhD Candidate
Loyola University Maryland
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Maryland.