Coffin Corner

https://data.census.gov/cedsci/map?q=Total%20Population%20in%20the%20United%20States&g=0100000US.04000.001&tid=ACSDP1Y2018.DP05&vintage=2018&layer=VT_2018_040_00_PP_D1&cid=DP05_0001E

Candidates for Friday Five

1. SEX AND AGE—Total Population—Estimate

ACS

2. How to Be Stronger Co-Parents During the Pandemic

Parents are under a lot of pressure, but good communication can support your family’s well-being.

BY PHIL COWAN, CAROLYN P. COWAN, MARYAM ABDULLAH

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_be_stronger_co_parents_during_the_pandemic

3. Reducing the Effects of Adverse Childhood Experiences

By Kate Bradford

https://www.ncsl.org/research/health/reducing-the-effects-of-adverse-childhood-experiences.aspx

4. Jennifer Howard’s ‘Clutter: An Untidy History’ takes Marie Kondo’s message a step further

By Jennifer Reese

https://www.washingtonpost.com/entertainment/books/jennifer-howards-clutter-an-untidy-history-takes-marie-kondos-message-a-step-further/2020/09/10/05faeaca-f1cb-11ea-b796-2dd09962649c_story.html

OR

Clinical psychologist’s book aims to help you build resilience, face hardship during a stressful time like the pandemic

Erin Blakemore

https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/adversity-acceptance-growth-night-bloomers/2020/09/11/d83c6f22-f2de-11ea-bc45-e5d48ab44b9f_story.html

5.

The 2020 American Family Survey: Attitudes toward family, COVID-19, politics, race, and economic well-being

Tuesday, September 22, 2020, 11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. EDT

Online: https://www.brookings.edu/events/the-2020-american-family-survey-attitudes-toward-family-covid-19-politics-race-and-economic-well-being/

6. Street View of 1940s New York

Julian Boilen

https://1940s.nyc/map#13.69/40.7093/-73.99397

7. Child Welfare Virtual Expo 2020

Strengthening Families Through Prevention and Collaboration

Thursday, September 24, 2020

https://capacity.childwelfare.gov/virtualexpo/

8. Types of Romantic Relationships in Emerging Adulthood: Implications for Relationship Education

Sarah Hokanson

https://relationshipeducator.org/blog/research/types-of-romantic-relationships-in-emerging-adulthood-implications-for-relationship-education/

9. Protecting Your Relationship in the Shadow of Corona

Dr. Scott Stanley

http://slidingvsdeciding.blogspot.com/2020/09/protecting-your-relationship-in-shadow.html

10. 2019 Census Child Poverty Data and What COVID-19 Means for Kids

Tue, Sep 22, 2020 2:00 PM - 3:15 PM EDT

https://register.gotowebinar.com/register/3132871875712393232

11. Lessons from Suicide Attempts among U.S. Army Soldiers During Deployment

By James A. Naifeh, Ph.D. and Holly B. Herberman Mash, Ph.D

https://www.pdhealth.mil/news/blog/lessons-suicide-attempts-among-us-army-soldiers-during-deployment

12 The Protestant family ethic

What do Protestant, Catholic, private, and public schooling have to do with marriage, divorce, and non-marital childbearing?

American Enterprise Institute

Institute for Family Studies

https://www.aei.org/research-products/report/the-protestant-family-ethic/

Thanks

Bill

https://marriageeducationinfo.posthaven.com/marriage-education-resources

Candidates for Friday Five

1. Report no.4: Dads spend more quality time with kids

Jennifer Baxter, Mikayla Budinski, Megan Carroll, Kelly Hand

https://aifs.gov.au/publications/dads-spend-time-kids

2. The Catholic Christian Meta-Model of the Person

William J. Nordling, Paul C. Vitz, and Craig Steven Titus

https://www.divinemercypress.store/

3. People Who Experienced Parental Divorce as Children Have Lower ‘Love Hormone’ Levels than Those Who Did Not

Terry Goodrich, Baylor University Media and Public Relations

https://www.baylor.edu/mediacommunications/news.php?action=story&story=220145

4. Homebodies: More Than a Third of Married Couples Live in State Where Both Were Born

Families

What Percentage of Married Couples Were Born in The Same State, Different State, or Another Country?

BRIAN KNOP AND LYDIA ANDERSON

https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2020/09/homebodies-more-than-a-third-of-married-couples-live-in-state-where-both-were-born.html

5. Time Alone Is the Key to Staying Married. Find It

Brittany Risher

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/time-alone-key-staying-married-190037189.html

6. ‘It is getting better now’: Family letters from the deadly 1918 flu pandemic

Hannah Natanson

https://www.washingtonpost.com/history/2020/09/06/family-letters-1918-flu-coronavirus-pandemic/

or

In pandemic era, the term palliative care is even more scary for some. So specialists want to rename it.

Haider J. Warraich

https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/palliative-care-supportive-hospice/2020/09/04/07bf5236-e6d8-11ea-97e0-94d2e46e759b_story.html

7.

Love, sex and marriage – a history of Irish coupledom

Sexuality in Ireland was freer under British rule than after Independence

Maria Luddy and Mary O’Dowd

https://www.irishtimes.com/culture/books/love-sex-and-marriage-a-history-of-irish-coupledom-1.4349774

8. ELEVATE: Implementation of a healthy marriage and relationship education program by a statewide cooperative extension service

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/resource/elevate-implementation-of-a-healthy-marriage-and-relationship-education-program-by-a-statewide-cooperative-extension-service

9.. Growing Up Poor: The American Dream Deferred, Sep 15, 2020, 02:00 PM in Eastern Time https://wgbh.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_recnaLEWRkewG4I_CA4Ziw?utm_source=Iterable&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=streaming&utm_content=xxxx

10. Free Webinar with Kevin Palau and Leading Marriage Experts on Strategies for Church Growth in COVID and Beyon

September 10, 2020 at 1:00 ET/ 12:00 CT/ 10:00 PT – Zoom Webinar

https://communio.org/free-webinar-with-leading-marriage-experts-on-strategies-for-church-growth-in-covid-and-beyond/

11. Marriage penalties, the marriage divide, and the US safety netThursday, September 10, 2020 | 12:00 PM to 1:00 PM EThttps://www.aei.org/events/marriage-penalties-the-marriage-divide-and-the-us-safety-net/

Thanks

Bill

Bill Coffin

301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com

http://ssea.org/CARES/2-IDMH%20COVID19%20Managing%20Relationships%20Tip%20Sheet.pdf

Candidates for Friday Five

1. COVID-19: Managing Relationships Under Stay-at-Home Orders

2. Incentivize individual agency to achieve upward mobility

Ian Rowe

https://www.aei.org/research-products/report/incentivize-individual-agency-to-achieve-upward-mobility/?

3. FAMILY DECISION MAKING IN 2020

Jacob Goldsmith, Ph.D.

https://www.family-institute.org/sharing-our-expertise/family-decision-making-2020

4. Ten Years of Change in Remarriage

Leslie Reynolds

https://www.bgsu.edu/ncfmr/resources/data/family-profiles/reynolds-ten-years-change-remarriage-fp-20-20.html

5. Parents and Children Together: How Low-Income Fathers in Responsible Fatherhood Programs Perceive and Provide Financial Support for Their Children

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/resource/parents-and-children-how-low-income-fathers-in-fatherhood-programs-perceive-and-provide-financial-support-for-their-children

6. Public attitudes about today’s dating landscape

https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2020/08/20/public-attitudes-about-todays-dating-landscape/?

7. Census Bureau to Host Webinar on Release of 2019 American Community Survey Statistics

https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2020/acs-webinar.html

8. Family Feud: Half Of Parents Squabble With Grandparents Over Parenting Choices

John Anderer

https://www.studyfinds.org/parents-argue-with-grandparents-parenting-choices/

9. Corporate Plan, Australian Institute of Family Studies

2020/21 to 2023/24

https://aifs.gov.au/publications/corporate-plan-20-24

10. Here's What Gen Z Would Like to Accomplish Before Marriage

The top two factors will surprise you.
by Esther Lee

https://www.theknot.com/content/gen-z-relationships-marriage

11. Mortality worldwide: Be generous, live longer

Fanny Annemarie Kluge

https://www.demogr.mpg.de/en/news_events_6123/news_press_releases_4630/press/mortality_worldwide_be_generous_live_longer_8221

Thanks.

Bill

https://nano.site/billcoffin

Candidates for Friday Five

1. The Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF) Block Grant: A Legislative History

ACF/HHS

https://peerta.acf.hhs.gov/content/temporary-assistance-needy-families-tanf-block-grant-legislative-history

OR

New Compendiums to Support Linking Data for Research

BRETT BROWN

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/blog/datacompendiums

2. Outcomes and Outcome Domains Examined in HMRE Evaluation Studies

Sydney J. Briggs, April Wilson, Mindy E. Scott, and Deja Logan

https://mastresearchcenter.org/mast-center-research/outcomes-and-outcome-domains-examined-in-hmre-evaluation-studies/

3. Resources to Help Young Parents Thrive

ANNIE E. CASEY FOUNDATION

https://www.aecf.org/blog/resources-to-help-young-parents-thrive/?

4. Marriage status of household reference person by ethnicity within marriage, UK, 2018

https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/birthsdeathsandmarriages/marriagecohabitationandcivilpartnerships/adhocs/12182marriagestatusofhouseholdreferencepersonbyethnicitywithinmarriageuk2018

5. Recognizing and Responding to Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) in Healthy Marriage and Relationship Education (HMRE) Programs

OPRE/ACF/HHS

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/resource/recognizing-and-responding-to-intimate-partner-violence-ipv-in-healthy-marriage-and-relationship-education-hmre-programs

OR

Recognizing and Responding to Teen Dating Violence (TDV) in Healthy Marriage and Relationship Education (HMRE) Programs

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/resource/recognizing-and-responding-to-teen-dating-violence-tdv-in-healthy-marriage-and-relationship-education-hmre-programs

6. RESEARCH PROFESSOR (OPEN RANK), FATHERHOOD MENTAL HEALTH

INSIDE HIGHER ED

https://careers.insidehighered.com/job/2014315/research-professor-open-rank-fatherhood-mental-health/

7. Painful Questions

KAREN DE SÁ AND NADRA NITTLE

https://imprintnews.org/child-welfare-2/painful-questions-critics-question-california-universal-aces-screening/46670

8. Can A Marriage Survive Without Intimacy?

CHRIS OWNBY

https://firstthings.org/can-a-marriage-survive-without-intimacy/?

OR

FAMILY AND MARRIAGE: Feeling what the other person feels

By Roger Rollins

https://www.northaugustastar.com/news/family-and-marriage-feeling-what-the-other-person-feels/article_ce670f7a-e0f5-11ea-bc38-bf5bcd8eb003.html

9. Fathers Eve

https://fatherseve.com/about/what-is-fe/

Also see NBC news coverage

10. THE 2020 RELATIONSHIP ENHANCEMENT® AND FILIAL THERAPY CONFERENCE

SEPTEMBER 19, 2020, WEBINARS VIA VIDEO CONFERENCING

https://nire.org/annual-conference-on-re-and-filial-methods/

11. Another Great Academic Search Engine for Research Students https://academic.microsoft.com/home

Educational Technology and Mobile Learning

https://www.educatorstechnology.com/2020/08/another-great-academic-search-engine.html

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We hope you have enjoyed free access to NCFR's recent webinars and conference recordings. After Aug. 31 this content will only be available to NCFR members.

Thanks

Bill

https://nano.site/billcoffin

Candidates for Friday Five

1. Opportunities for Intimate Partner Violence Disclosure in Adult-Serving Healthy Marriage and Relationship Education (HMRE) Programs

OPRE

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/resource/opportunities-for-intimate-partner-violence-disclosure-in-adult-serving-healthy-marriage-and-relationship-education-programs

2. FAMILY STRUCTURE STILL MATTERS

The Centre for Social Justice (CSJ)

https://www.centreforsocialjustice.org.uk/core/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/CSJJ8372-Family-structure-Report-200807.pdf

and https://www.conservativehome.com/platform/2020/08/sophia-worringer-marriage-still-matters-and-most-for-the-poorest.html

and https://www.newstalk.com/news/marriage-incentive-encourage-couples-1062346

3. English idioms about family life and conjugal felicity

ANATOLY LIBERMAN

https://blog.oup.com/2020/08/english-idioms-about-family-life-and-conjugal-felicity/?

4. Parent-child separations focus of virtual symposium

Kristie Auman-Bauer, PSU

https://news.psu.edu/story/628786/2020/08/19/academics/parent-child-separations-focus-virtual-symposium

5. Whether online or in-person, deep connection is key

By Dr. Josh Packard

https://www.springtideresearch.org/back-to-school/

6. Relationship Education: Learning practical skills that focus on commitment, communication and good conflict

Shane Smith

https://mareaa.asn.au/relationship-education-learning-practical-skills-that-focus-on-commitment-communication-and-good-conflict/

OR

Families Then & Now: Couple relationships

Lixia Qu

https://aifs.gov.au/publications/couple-relationships

7. Shifting the Lens Toward Prevention During a Time of Crisis

Written by Cara Kelly, Julie Fliss, and Elaine Stedt from the Children's Bureau, Office on Child Abuse and Neglect

https://cbexpress.acf.hhs.gov/index.cfm?event=website.viewArticles&issueid=218&sectionid=1&articleid=5605

OR

Family and Child Well-Being: An Urgent Call to Action

Written by Bryan Samuels, M.P.P., executive director, Chapin Hall at the University of Chicago

https://cbexpress.acf.hhs.gov/index.cfm?articleid=5602&event=website.viewArticles&issueid=218&utm_medium=email&utm_source=govdelivery

OR

Success Sequence = Optimal Health for Youth

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/blog/2020/08/success-sequence-optimal-health-for-youth

8. Factors Impacting Program Retention

Sarah Hokanson

https://relationshipeducator.org/blog/research/factors-impacting-program-retention/

9. Harvard Study Points to Improved Dad-Child Relationships During Pandemic

Posted by Christopher A. Brown

https://www.fatherhood.org/fatherhood/harvard-study-points-to-improved-dad-child-relationships-during-pandemic

10. Here’s how Happy Couples argue differently then Unhappy Couples

Published ByDrew Simms

https://www.drewreportsnews.com/2020/08/17/heres-how-happy-couples-argue-differently-then-unhappy-couples/

11. I’ve Been Married to the Military for 15 Years. Our Luck Just Ran Out.

Esau McCaulley

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/08/20/opinion/coronavirus-military-deployment.html

OR

Infertility Was Distressing. The Military Made It Even More Complicated.

Victoria Chamberlin

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/08/12/magazine/infertility-military-army.html?referringSource=articleShare

12. Divorce after 50 is soaring. Married Swarthmore therapists have a guide for keeping love alive | 5 Questions

by Sandy Bauers, For The Inquirer,

https://www.inquirer.com/health/love-after-50-practical-survival-guide-older-couples-5-questions-20200812.html

Thanks.

Bill

Bill Coffin

301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com

https://www.oneplusone.org.uk/mybt-guide

Candidates for Friday Five

My beach reading...

1. A guide for supporting new parents

2. Kitchen confrontations: Average household sees 217 arguments annually — just over cleaning dishes!

John Anderer

https://www.studyfinds.org/kitchen-confrontations-217-arguments-over-cleaning-dishes/

3. Virtual meetings offer tips, strategies to cope with Covid-19

https://www.thelandonline.com/news/virtual-meetings-offer-tips-strategies-to-cope-with-covid-19/article_266e75d0-d82e-11ea-9947-677e9fe32a39.html

4. What Happens to Parents When Community Spaces Close?

By Daniel Cox & Samuel J. Abrams

https://www.realclearpolicy.com/articles/2020/08/12/what_happens_to_parents_when_community_spaces_close_501684.html?

5. Look at the Numbers

Frank Lamas

https://www.insidehighered.com/admissions/views/2020/08/10/look-demographic-indicators-should-motivate-change-higher-education

6. Parental warmth on high-conflict days helps teens to feel loved

https://news.psu.edu/story/627667/2020/08/06/research/parental-warmth-high-conflict-days-helps-teens-feel-loved

7. Building Data Capacity in Healthy Marriage and Responsible Fatherhood Grantees: Challenges and Recommended Support

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/resource/building-data-capacity-in-healthy-marriage-and-responsible-fatherhood-grantees-challenges-and-recommended-supports

OR

Strengthening the Implementation of Responsible Fatherhood Programs (SIRF) Nomination Process

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/resource/strengthening-the-implementation-of-responsible-fatherhood-programs-sirf-nomination-process

8. At the Center of Healthy Marriage and Responsible Fatherhood Programs Data Snapshot: Program Staff and Support

Sarah Avellar, Alexandra Stanczyk, Nikki Aikens, Mathew Stange, and Grace Roemer

https://www.mathematica.org/our-publications-and-findings/publications/at-the-center-of-healthy-marriage-and-responsible-fatherhood-programs-data-snapshot-program-staff

9. 3 Ways Empathy Can Strengthen Your Marriage

Gena Ellis

https://firstthings.org/3-ways-empathy-can-strengthen-your-marriage/

10. Absence: Schizophrenia, Schizoaffective Disorder, and Marriage

Wendy Singleton Christin
Schizophrenia Bulletin

https://academic.oup.com/schizophreniabulletin/advance-article/doi/10.1093/schbul/sbaa109/5882171

11. Utah Sen. Mike Lee says Congress must undo policies that penalize marriage

A new Joint Economic Committee report ponders the demise of “happy two-parent” homes and how to stop the trend.

By Lois M. Collins

https://www.deseret.com/indepth/2020/8/6/21353942/mike-lee-republican-congress-utah-joint-economic-committee-policy-marriage-penalty-eitc-welfare

Thanks.

Bill

OBX, NC

Bill Coffin

301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com

https://www.aecf.org/blog/webinar-strategies-for-helping-young-fathers/?

1. Webinar: Strategies for Helping Young Fathers

THE ANNIE E. CASEY FOUNDATION

What: Supporting Young Fathers of Color: Lessons From the Field
When: Wednesday, August 12, 2020, at 2 p.m. ET
Registration password: Two-gen

OR

Introduction to Strengthening Implementation in Responsible Fatherhood Programs (SIRF)

Aug 12, 2020 02:00 PM

https://mdrc.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_lGr6XssYS3KuyAP2Hb0SoQ

2. Machine learning predicts satisfaction in romantic relationships

JEFF RENAUD

https://news.westernu.ca/2020/07/machine-learning-predicts-satisfaction-in-romantic-relationships/

3. Highlights from the First FRAMING Research Healthy Marriage Technical Work Group

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/resource/highlights-from-the-first-framing-research-healthy-marriage-technical-work-group

OR

Improving Healthy Marriage and Relationship Education (HMRE) Programs for Unmarried Couples with Children

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/resource/improving-healthy-marriage-and-relationship-education-hmre-programs-for-unmarried-couples-with-children

4. Couple conflicts: our neurons like mediation

https://www.unige.ch/communication/communiques/?cID=1506

or https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2020/07/200729114735.htm

5. Recruitment and Partner Participation in Online Relationship Education

Sarah Hokanson

http://relationshipeducator.org/blog/research/recruitment-and-partner-participation-in-online-relationship-education/

6. Cohabitation vs Marriage: Mating Strategies by Education in the USA

Fabio Blasutto

https://sites.uclouvain.be/econ/DP/IRES/2020023.pdf

7. For The Maidens on Tu B’AV – NOW WHAT?

Susan Barth

https://blogs.timesofisrael.com/for-the-maidens-on-tu-bav-now-what/

OR

The Rambam’s Best Newlywed Advice

Susan Barth

https://blogs.timesofisrael.com/the-rambams-best-newlywed-advice/

8. Pathways-to-Outcomes: How Healthy Marriage and Relationship Education Program Activities May Lead to Intended Outcomes

This webcast is now on-demand, should you like to view it again.

WEBCAST LINK: https://event.on24.com/wcc/r/2462984/45C3F42C76D8CC408B90A5E492562002?mode=login&email=billcoffin68@gmail.com

OR

Episode 72: How to Reconnect with Your Partner

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/podcasts/item/how_to_reconnect_with_your_partner

9. Revised Procedures and Standards: Home Visiting Evidence of Effectiveness (HomVEE) Review

Request for public comment

https://www.federalregister.gov/documents/2020/08/05/2020-17001/revised-procedures-and-standards-home-visiting-evidence-of-effectiveness-homvee-review

10. Growing Through Adversity

https://www.dvidshub.net/video/761697/growing-through-adversity

11. The Discourse of Marriage in the Greco-Roman World

Edited by Jeffrey Beneker and Georgia Tsouvala

https://muse.jhu.edu/book/76676

Thanks.

Bill

OBX, NC (week 1 of 2)

Bill Coffin

301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com

https://www.nationalacademies.org/event/05-05-2020/flourishing-in-adolescence-a-virtual-workshop?

candidates for Friday Five

1. Flourishing in Adolescence: A Virtual Workshop

2. Developing Strong Recruitment Practices for Healthy Marriage and Relationship Education (HMRE) Programs Serving Adults

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/resource/developing-strong-recruitment-practices-for-healthy-marriage-and-relationship-education-hmre-programs-serving-adults

3. Most Families That Received SNAP Benefits in 2018 Had At Least One Person Working

TRACY A. LOVELESS

https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2020/07/most-families-that-received-snap-benefits-in-2018-had-at-least-one-person-working.html?

4. Effectiveness of the Family Foundations Co-parenting Education Program

Sarah Hokason

http://relationshipeducator.org/blog/research/effectiveness-of-the-family-foundations-co-parenting-education-program/

5. https://peopleproblems.org/july-17-2020/

6. Families Keep Going, In Pandemic and Health

RACHEL ANDERSON

https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2020/july-web-only/family-responsibilities-education-childcare-coronavirus.html?

7. Father-child playtime may improve children’s ability to control emotions, aggression later in life

Brianna Sleezer

https://www.studyfinds.org/father-child-playtime-improves-children-ability-control-emotional-development/

8. Communicating in everyday life

https://www.relate.org.uk/relationships-week/free-self-help-course

9. Mom and Dad Are Fighting

https://slate.com/podcasts/mom-and-dad-are-fighting/2020/07/slates-parenting-podcast-modifying-work

10. OSU Extension addresses top economic and family issues

Trisha Gedon | Agricultural Communications Services

https://news.okstate.edu/articles/agricultural-sciences-natural-resources/2020/gedon_community_forums_followup.html

11. Pathways-to-Outcomes: How Healthy Marriage and Relationship Education Program Activities May Lead to Intended Outcomes

Date: Monday, July 27, 2020

Time: 12:00 PM Eastern Daylight Time

https://event.on24.com/eventRegistration/EventLobbyServlet?target=lobby20.jsp&eventid=2462984&sessionid=1&key=45C3F42C76D8CC408B90A5E492562002&eventuserid=330140855

In case you were wondering...

New study suggests we have 6,200 thoughts every day

https://bigthink.com/mind-brain/how-many-thoughts-per-day?rebelltitem=1#rebelltitem1

Enjoy your vacation.

Bill

Bill Coffin

301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com