Candidates for IFS Friday Five 1. Aging Veterans: America’s Veteran Population in Later Life Jonathan Vespa for CB https://www.census.gov/library/publications/2023/acs/acs-54.html 2. Desire for social status affects marital and reproductive attitudes: A life history mismatch perspective lAmy J. Lim a, Norman P. Li b, Zoi Manesi b, Steven L. Neuberg c, Mark van Vugt d, Andrea L. Meltzer e, Kenneth Tan b https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2666622723000382 3. https://discernmentcounseling.com/how-discernment-counseling-is-not-coaching/ OR Marital First Responder Workshop https://maritalfirstresponders.org/mfr-workshop-registration/ 4. Strengthening Facilitation Skills: A Training Curriculum for Programs Working with Youth Wednesday, August 9, 2023, @ 1:00 pm PT/4:00 pm ET https://register.gotowebinar.com/register/3703415079569486167 5. Across cultures, men say 'I love you' first By Emily Reynolds https://www.bps.org.uk/research-digest/across-cultures-men-say-i-love-you-first 6. New 2020 census data shows an aging America and wide racial gaps between generations William H. Frey https://www.brookings.edu/articles/new-2020-census-data-shows-an-aging-america-and-wide-racial-gaps-between-generations/ 7. Inspiring a Growth Mindset for Kids How Parents Can Lead by Example By: Courtney Juvland https://www.doinggoodtogether.org/bhf/blog/growth-mindset-for-kids Thanks...back to the beach! Bill OBX Bill Coffin 301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com billcoffin.org Create your own email signature
Candidates for IFS Friday Five 1. Sources of family breakdown in the UK Harry Benson, Marriage Foundation https://marriagefoundation.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/MF-research-note-Source-of-family-breakdown.pdf 2. A CAMPING TRIP WITH YOUNG KIDS, AS IMAGINED BY ME BEFORE HAVING KIDS by JULIE VICK https://www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/a-camping-trip-with-young-kids-as-imagined-by-me-before-having-kids? 3. An Antidote to the Anxiety About Imperfection: Parenting Advice from Mister Rogers MARIA POPOVA https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/06/22/mister-rogers-parenting/? 4. Slides/Handout from talk at NARME 2023 on premarital cohabitation Dr. Scott Stanley http://slidingvsdeciding.blogspot.com/2023/07/slideshandout-from-talk-at-narme-2023.html 5. The Church in a Time of Gender War Why marriage can do what ideology cannot.SAMUEL D. JAMES https://www.digitalliturgies.net/p/the-church-in-a-time-of-gender-war 6. Level Up Your Father Game ACF https://www.fatherhood.gov/sites/default/files/resource_files/ACF%20Strategic%20Planning_Being%20a%20Great%20Dad%20Fact%20Sheet_20230626_508.pdf 7. National Center for Family and Marriage Research at BGSU reports that never-married adults comprise the lowest percentage of U.S. homeowners Laren Kowalczyk for National Center for Family and Marriage Research https://www.bgsu.edu/news/2023/07/national-center-for-family-and-marriage-research-at-bgsu-reports-never-married-adults-comprise-lowest-percentage-of-us-homeowners.html 8. The Courtship and Marriage of Sts. Anne and Joachim Patrick O’Hearn https://www.ncregister.com/features/the-courtship-and-marriage-of-sts-anne-and-joachim OR Experts speculate on why marriage is declining — and what to do about it Daniel Payne https://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/254892/experts-speculate-on-why-marriage-is-declining-and-what-to-do-about-it 9. Four Types of Marriage: Which One Is Yours? Thomas Henricks Ph.D. for PT https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-pathways-of-experience/202307/four-types-of-marriage-which-one-is-yours 10. The key to a happy marriage might be joint bank accounts, researchers say PREET BANERJEE https://www.theglobeandmail.com/investing/personal-finance/household-finances/article-the-key-to-a-happy-marriage-might-be-joint-bank-accounts-researchers/ Thanks Bill Bill Coffin 301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com billcoffin.org Create your own email signature
Candidates for IFS Friday Five 1. Religion and Fertility in Canada LYMAN STONE for Cardus https://www.cardus.ca/research/family/reports/religion-and-fertility-in-canada/ 2. The 2023/2024 Prevention Resource Guide Children’s Bureau (CB), ACF https://www.childwelfare.gov/topics/preventing/preventionmonth/resources/resource-guide/ 3. The life skills teens should know before leaving home Advice by Kelly Glass for WAPO https://www.washingtonpost.com/parenting/2023/07/18/teen-life-skills/ 4. HIT THE PAUSE BUTTONAaron Cooper, Ph.D. for The Family Institute at Northwestern University https://www.family-institute.org/behavioral-health-resources/hit-pause-button 5. Predicting Participation in Healthy Marriage and Responsible Fatherhood Programs July 13, 2023 https://www.acf.hhs.gov/opre/report/predicting-participation-healthy-marriage-and-responsible-fatherhood-programs 6. Why are people not getting married anymore? Idil Karsit https://www.cnbc.com/video/2023/07/19/why-are-people-not-getting-married-anymore.html OR I Do Not: Gen Z, Millennials Shifting Expectations About Marriage In 2023 https://thrivingcenterofpsych.com/blog/millennials-gen-z-marriage-expectations-statistics/ 7. Study finds regular 'phubbing' could be damaging marriages by Bob Yirka, Phys.org https://phys.org/news/2023-07-regular-phubbing-marriages.html 8. The Working Families Tax Cut Act increases marriage penalties for single parents JOSHUA MCCABE https://www.niskanencenter.org/the-working-families-tax-cut-act-increases-marriage-penalties-for-single-parents/ 9. First Things First: Why marriage still matters Part 2 (part 1 ran in last week's Fri 5) by Lauren Hall / First Things First https://www.timesfreepress.com/news/2023/jul/15/why-marriage-still-matters-tfp/ 10. Census Data Shows Marriage And Divorce Rates Declined From 2011 To 2021; Iowa Ranks 27th And 32nd Respectively by Nathan Konz https://www.1380kcim.com/2023/07/15/census-data-shows-marriage-and-divorce-rates-declined-from-2011-to-2021-iowa-ranks-27th-and-32nd-respectively/ 11. Psychology experts: The No. 1 tool we teach to save ‘any relationship’ from disaster Dr. Pepper Schwartz, Dr. Jessica Griffin https://www.cnbc.com/2023/07/13/how-to-avoid-a-relationship-disaster-according-to-psychology-experts-who-studied-couples-for-50-years.html? Thanks Bill Bill Coffin 301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com billcoffin.org Create your own email signature
Candidates for IFS Friday Five 1. National Marriage and Divorce Rates Declined From 2011 to 2021 Chanell Washington and Lydia Anderson for CB https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2023/07/marriage-divorce-rates.html 2. NAV I G AT I N G T H E TRANSITION TO PARENTHOOD by Katherine Collison, Ph.D https://files.constantcontact.com/01550798001/cd279296-814d-49be-bfb3-a6b3c31e5cac.pdf 3. The Church must not abandon couples after marriage https://aleteia.org/2023/07/06/the-church-must-not-abandon-couples-after-marriage/ 4. Nature affects nurture in adoptive child-parent relationships, researchers find https://www.psu.edu/news/liberal-arts/story/nature-affects-nurture-adoptive-child-parent-relationships-researchers-find/ 5. 10 Relationship Lessons for My Teenage Daughter Gary W. Lewandowski Jr. Ph.D. for PT https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-psychology-of-relationships/202307/10-relationship-lessons-for-my-teenage-daughter 6. First Things First: Marriage is dead ... or is it? by Lauren Hall / First Things First https://www.timesfreepress.com/news/2023/jul/08/marriage-is-dead-or-is-it-tfp/ 7. Marriage For Richer or Poorer — or Maybe Notby eugene steuerle https://www.milkenreview.org/articles/marriage 8. Young couples in China embrace retro-romance by publishing marriage announcements in newspapers By Li Hang https://www.globaltimes.cn/page/202307/1293653.shtml OR China: More young people reject marriage Yuchen Li in Taipei https://www.dw.com/en/china-more-young-people-reject-marriage/a-66100718 9. Volume 72, Issue 3 Pages: 637-1396 July 2023 Previous Issue GO TO SECTION Export Citation(s) ISSUE INFORMATION Free Access Issue Information Pages: 637-643 First Published: 03 June 2023 First Page PDF Request permissions FAMILY DYNAMICS DURING THE CONTINUING PANDEMIC Open Access Longitudinal effects of pandemic stressors and dyadic coping on relationship satisfaction during the COVID-19 pandemic Emily Carrese-Chacra, Kayla Hollett, Gizem Erdem, Sydney Miller, Jean-Philippe Gouin Pages: 645-664 First Published: 19 April 2023 Abstract Full text PDF References Request permissions 10. OR FR: Mothers' work conditions, income, and parenting of young children (open access) — Kierra M. P. Sattler, Kate C. Prickett, Robert Crosnoe FR: Fathers' status and role identities and involvement shortly after divorce (open access) — Raymond E. Petren, Anthony J. Ferraro Thanks Bill Bill Coffin 301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com billcoffin.org Create your own email signature
Candidates for IFS Friday Five 1. Fathers can play a key role in supporting breastfeeding and infant sleep practices https://www.news-medical.net/news/20230616/Fathers-can-play-a-key-role-in-supporting-breastfeeding-and-infant-sleep-practices.aspx 2. ACTIVITIES FOR DADS & KIDS https://www.fatherhood.gov/for-dads/activities-for-dads-and-kids 3. Report: Science-based Psychosocial Treatments are Needed to Help Improve the Mental Health of Children and Adolescents in Greece https://childmind.org/blog/report-science-based-psychosocial-treatments-are-needed-to-help-improve-the-mental-health-of-children-and-adolescents-in-greece/ 4. Marriage and GCSE results Harry Benson, Research Director, Marriage Foundation https://marriagefoundation.org.uk/research/marriage-and-gcse-results/ 5.NARME Registration Information Registration for the Summit closes July 1st. REGISTER HERE 6. In country with world’s lowest fertility rate, doubts creep in about wisdom of ‘no-kids zones’ Chris Lau, Gawon Bae, Jake Kwon, and Nayoon Kim, CNN https://edition.cnn.com/2023/06/24/asia/south-korea-no-kids-zone-intl-hnk-dst/index.html 7. Having a baby can rock a marriage – and life post-children can be a challenge Amanda Ruggeri https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20230628-why-couples-fight-after-having-a-baby 8. A record-high share of 40-year-olds in the U.S. have never been married BY RICHARD FRY https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/06/28/a-record-high-share-of-40-year-olds-in-the-us-have-never-been-married/ 9. China sees an increase of 40,000 couples y-o-y in Q1, following record-low number of marriages in 2022 https://www.globaltimes.cn/page/202306/1293266.shtml 10. 8 Key Facts on Ancient Greek Marriages & Wedding Ceremonies Mike Toth, https://www.thecollector.com/ancient-greek-weddings-facts/ Thanks Bill Bill Coffin 301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com billcoffin.org Create your own email signature
Candidates for Friday Five 1. Association between maternal closeness with parents and mother–toddler relationship quality Leigha A. MacNeill, Bharathi J. Zvara, Sarah E. Anderson https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/fare.12910 2. Vacation for the Sake of Vision John Cuddeback https://life-craft.org/vacation-for-the-sake-of-vision/ 3. How Family Background Influences Student Achievement Anna J. Egalite https://www.educationnext.org/how-family-background-influences-student-achievement/ 4. OFFICE OF CHILD SUPPORT SERVICES,An Office of the Administration for Children & Families A New Name to Reflect Our Family-Centered Approach https://www.acf.hhs.gov/css/ocsevoiceblog/2023/06/new-name-reflect-our-family-centered-approach 5. Fatherhood Research & Practice Network FRPN held a webinar entitled Architects of Father Policies and Program Discuss How it is Done. Watch the recording and download the presenter slides. https://www.frpn.org/asset/frpn-webinar-architects-father-policies-and-programs-discuss-how-it-done 6. Conflict in marriage less harmful for kids when dad keeps it constructive Lauren Quinn https://aces.illinois.edu/news/conflict-marriage-less-harmful-kids-when-dad-keeps-it-constructive OR Sexual Coping Mechanisms During the COVID-19 Pandemic and Their Determinants of Use, Usefulness, and Effects on Sex Life Liza Berdychevsky https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10195656/ 7. 13th Annual NARME Summit Charleston, SCJuly 24-26, 2023 https://www.narme.org/summit2023 8. In 2020, 7.2% of U.S. Family Households Were Multigenerational Chanell Washington, Thomas Gryn, Lydia Anderson and Rose M. Kreider https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2023/06/several-generations-under-one-roof.html OR When your adult kids can't afford to move out of homeBy Susan Hely https://www.moneymag.com.au/when-your-adult-kids-cant-afford-to-move-out-of-home 9. Gender differences in optimism, loss aversion and attitudes towards risk Chris Dawson https://bpspsychub.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/bjop.12668 OR Dementia: caring for the couple Andrew Balfour, Healthcare Counselling and Psychotherapy Journal https://www.bacp.co.uk/bacp-journals/healthcare-counselling-and-psychotherapy-journal/april-2023/dementia-caring-for-the-couple/ 10. What happens to dating and family if young adults move further apart politically? By Lois M. Collins https://www.deseret.com/2023/6/20/23760072/political-division-liberal-conservative-young-people-what-happens-dating-family OR Society Suffers When Progressives Spurn Fatherhood, Marriage, and Family Delano Squires https://www.heritage.org/marriage-and-family/commentary/society-suffers-when-progressives-spurn-fatherhood-marriage-and 11. Intimacy and intelligence: How sex can boost your brainpower and memory https://www.theweek.in/news/health/2023/06/22/intimacy-and-intelligence-how-sex-can-boost-your-brainpower-and-.html 12. Limiting social media use provides psychological benefits https://www.news-medical.net/news/20230614/Limiting-social-media-use-provides-psychological-benefits.aspx 13. Clearinghouse expands to include evidence-based programs for military families https://www.psu.edu/news/social-science-research-institute/story/clearinghouse-expands-include-evidence-based-programs/ Thanks Bill Bill Coffin 301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com billcoffin.org Create your own email signature
Candidates for IFS Friday Five 1. DADication, a subject-matter documentary exploring the challenges of fatherhood, and other Dadication PSAs https://www.fatherhood.gov/dadication 2. June 14, 2023 4:00pm Eastern/1:00pm Pacific Teen Parenthood Matters: Let's Talk About Prevention https://register.gotowebinar.com/register/347582444987083609 3. Family time is far more important than other aspects of life for most Americans BY ANDY CERDA https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/05/26/family-time-is-far-more-important-than-other-aspects-of-life-for-most-americans/ 4. Enjoy a Date Night with an Indoor Scavenger Hunt https://communio.org/virtual-date-night-indoor-scavenger-hunt 5. Creating Policies to Better Serve Diverse AANHPI Populations Sunny Sun, Astha Patel, Jing Tang, Tracy Gebhart, Yiyu Chen, Heather Sauyaq Jean Gordon https://www.childtrends.org/publications/creating-policies-to-better-serve-diverse-aanhpi-populations 6. Unsafe neighborhoods particularly distress Black men in relationships, a new study from the University of Illinois finds By Emily Hays https://illinoisnewsroom.org/unsafe-neighborhoods-particularly-distress-black-men-in-relationships-new-study-from-university-of-illinois-finds/ 7. Why are millennials and Gen Z waiting to get married? Hanna Seariac https://news.yahoo.com/why-millennials-gen-z-waiting-213204381.html https://www.deseret.com/2023/6/5/23749905/why-is-age-of-marriage-increasing OR Americans are waiting longer and longer to get marriedDaniel de Visé, The Hill https://thehill.com/homenews/state-watch/4032467-americans-are-waiting-longer-and-longer-to-get-married/ 8. How to Save Your Marriage When Mom Moves In You love your parents. But can you live with them?By Elizabeth Kuster, AARP https://www.aarp.org/home-family/friends-family/info-2023/maintain-a-healthy-marriage-when-parent-moves-in.html 9. Gary Chapman Chair for Marriage and Family & Faculty https://jobs.chronicle.com/job/37473427/gary-chapman-chair-for-marriage-and-family-and-faculty/ 10. OSU Extension to launch fatherhood enrichment curriculum this fall Gail Ellis https://extension.okstate.edu/articles/2023/dad-grant.html Thanks Bill Bill Coffin 301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com billcoffin.org Create your own email signature
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Re: Candidates for IFS Friday Five 11. US births are down again, after the COVID baby bust and rebound Melissa S. Kearney and Phillip Levine https://www.brookings.edu/2023/05/31/us-births-are-down-again-after-the-covid-baby-bust-and-rebound/ Bill Coffin 301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com billcoffin.org Create your own email signature
Candidates for IFS Friday Five 1. Love in the aisles From rings and flowers to food and honeymoons, Costco has your wedding plans covered. ed. by Wendy Helfenbaum https://mobilecontent.costco.com/live/resource/img/static-us-connection-june-23/US_June_Connection_2023.pdf 2. How to babyproof your relationship You installed your socket covers. Now you have to protect your partnership. Advice by Katherine Reynolds Lewis https://www.washingtonpost.com/parenting/2023/05/15/partner-relationship-prepare-baby/ 3. Advancing Primary Prevention in Human Services: Convening Findings Lauren Akers, Jennifer Tippins, Susan Hauan, and Miranda Lynch-Smith https://aspe.hhs.gov/reports/primary-prevention-convening-brief OR 22nd Welfare Indicators and Risk Factors Report to Congress https://aspe.hhs.gov/reports/22nd-welfare-indicators-risk-factors-report-congress 4. Kissing Is At Least 1,000 Years Older Than We Thought Kissing may seem natural, but it remains unclear whether it’s a universal human act or a cultural one. BY SOPHIE LUND RASMUSSEN, TROELS PANK ARBØLL | https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/kissing_is_at_least_1000_years_older_than_we_thought 5. Persistent Poverty in Counties and Census Tracts Craig Benson, Alemayehu Bishaw, Brian Glassman https://www.census.gov/library/publications/2023/acs/acs-51.html 6. As a Therapist, I Know What’s Breaking Couples Up How relationships come to an end and the scourge of the smartphone BY ANDREW SOFIN https://thewalrus.ca/what-breaks-up-couples/ 7. Low sexual satisfaction linked to memory decline later in life, study finds Adrienne Berard https://www.psu.edu/news/research/story/low-sexual-satisfaction-linked-memory-decline-later-life-study-finds 8. Enduring Marriage: The Reason Behind Wedding Season Loriann Oberlin MS, LCPC https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-full-picture/202305/enduring-marriage-the-reason-behind-wedding-season 9. Does a longer sexual resume affect marriage rates? Nicholas H Wolfinger 1, Samuel L Perry https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37230703/ 10. Helping mental health and marriage Krisana Finlay https://sutherlandinstitute.org/helping-mental-health-and-marriage/ Thanks Bill Bill Coffin 301-625-7737 | 301-518-5657 | billcoffin68@gmail.com billcoffin.org Create your own email signature