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For StepFamilies

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Being a stepfamily can be challenging. All families experience stresses, but there are some that are unique to the stepfamily journey.

The good news is that by educating yourself, and with a dose of extra patience, a strong stepfamily can be formed.

Click here for an article on the fantasies and realities of stepfamily life. The graphic below is taken from this helpful piece by The StepFamily Center.

Sometimes it helps just to know that you're not alone!




Gratitude is a daily discipline that builds strong families. The best antidote for holding a grudge against someone is to think of things about them you're grateful for. When the brain is in the grip of a strong emotion, it tends to remember only experiences associated with that emotion. Gratitude breaks the cluster of angry, sad thoughts like the cue ball hitting the rack in a game of pool.

 

Kids cause us concern no matter if we're first marriage families, single parents, stepfamilies, adoptive parents, or foster parents.

At Smart Marriages we preach the power of positive interactions. Maintaining at least a 5:1 ratio of negative to positive interactions is important for all family relationships. To have the best experience, 20:1 is what you should strive for!

Former Smart Marriages staffer, Nicole Nohl, contributed an article to our blog about being a stepmom. In it she takes the stand that her love is no different than that of a biological parent.

She writes, "Do I love them differently because they are step-kids?  Many people have told me if I had my own biological children I would have stronger feelings for them compared to the children my husband brought to our relationship.   Why?  Is it genetics that makes the bond? Or is Love a choice?

I want the best for them.  I spend time..."

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Perseverance....commitment....and when all else fails, watching a good comedy that makes you laugh until you cry. All families need these assets to stay strong.
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Marriage Monthly: Families and the Year of Faith, Catholic 101: What Is A Synod, The Busy Family's Guide to Spirituality

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For Your Marriage  
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OCTOBER 2012   

Home   Dating & Engaged    Parenting & Family    For Every Marriage    About Catholic Marriages

Featured Article: Families and the Year of Faith 
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On October 11th - the 50th Anniversary of the Second Vatican Council - the Catholic Church launched a Year of Faith. Why is this important and how can your family participate? Check out these ideas 

Catholic 101      

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During October you may hear a lot about the Synod of Bishops that is meeting in Rome. Here's a quick look at what a synod is and does.    
 

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Blogs: Happily Even After and Learning To Say "I Do"   

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Justin and Sara are learning to juggle their marriage with the demands of an infant. Meanwhile, Josh  and Stacey deal with the challenges of three school-agers.   

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Monthly Book Review:
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How can parents encourage each family member "to grow in faith, hope and love"? Drawing on the wisdom of St. Benedict, the author offers practical guidance for dealing with the difficult tasks of family life.

 
Marriage Tip of the Month
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"The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother" (Father Theodore Hesburgh). Don't get so busy caring for you child that your forget the love that brought that child into being.

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About Marriage: Improve Your Marriage Today

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Of course there are many ways to improve your marriage, but discovering ways to have fun together can be an inexpensive simple thing to do to improve and strengthen your marriage.


A Way to Improve Your Marriage Today

It is encouraging that research studies support the belief that it is important for married couples to make time to have fun together.

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Don't Rush Just For the Date

The only problem we see with getting married on one of these dates is rushing to get married and not getting married for the right reasons. Just remember that a lucky date doesn't necessarily mean your marriage will be a fairy tale relationship.

Tip of the Week -- Good Luck and Marriage

Luck doesn't have anything to do with having a successful marriage. Your successful marriage starts with making the right choice in choosing your spouse and listening to your inner voices if you are having doubts about getting married. You can create your own good luck in your marriage by being responsible in your marriage, admitting your mistakes, and by learning from your mistakes.

Quote of the Week -- Different Political Views

Thomas Haller, Chick Moorman: "Lack of agreement in a political discussion does not mean that your relationship is doomed. It does not mean that you have poor solution-seeking skills. It does not mean that you need to sign up for six weeks of conflict resolution classes nor that counseling is necessary. It only means that you do not agree." Source: Thomas Haller & Chick Moorman. "Helpful Phrases for Political Arguments in Your Relationship." HitchedMag.com.

 

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Teens and Sexting | FTF eNews October Vol. 1

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First Things First eNews
October 2012    Volume 1

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October 22 & 29 

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5:30 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. 

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New research shows that teens who "sext" are 7 times more likely to have sex than those who do not.
Have you talked with your teen or tween about sexting and the appropriate use of technology?  October is Let's Talk Month when parents are encouraged to talk with their children about topics like sexting and other risky behaviors.  Not sure how to start the conversation? 

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Tyranny of the urgent often pushes Date Night off the calendar. FTF wants to challenge you to put Date Night back on your calendar on a regular basis. We have done our part and come up with some creative dates. We want you to share your creative date night ideas with us so we can pass them along to everybody.

Here's the challenge: Mark Date Night on your calendar at least every other week for the next two months. Feel free to borrow ideas from us and add your creative genius to the plan. Send us a picture of you on your date or a video telling us about your date (Keep it PG13 please). 

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Sponsor a Wedding Marathon couple!

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Seeking sponsors for the Wedding Marathon 

Our Wedding Marathon is only six weeks away!
 
 
Seven couples from our Flourishing Families Program will marry at the lovely Westminster Presbyterian Church on November 17, 2012 to create the family they have always desired but believed would never happen.  One couple has been together for twelve years and has four kids! 

We are asking for $100 to cover the cost of the marriage license and a few incidentals.  
 
Are you interested in sponsoring a couple?  Please contact

  Rose Ruiz: rose@skills4us.org or (916) 362-1900.

Thank you in advance for your generosity and dedication to helping Sacramento area families! 

  


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Special Invitation-- Mark Your Calendars.

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Date: Mon, Oct 8, 2012 at 8:02 AM
Subject: Special Invitation-- Mark Your Calendars.
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Hi everyone,

You are invited once again to join the National Marriage Week USA celebration! Please form your plans or committee now.

Plan now! Mark your calendars for February 7 to 14th for next year!

Plan any activity of your own choosing to strengthen marriages in your town or community. We have plenty of ideas at www.NationalMarriageWeekUSA.org.

  • Just so you know, we will likely be producing a new report on marriage, with information you can use to gain local press coverage for yourself.
     
  • We will also have available a new one-hour DVD with helpful instructions for how to make marriage more rewarding and resolve stress and conflict.
    Stay tuned!

Mark your calendars to form a planning committee this fall in advance of February 7 to 14, 2013. The week leading up to Valentine’s Day is a great time to KICK OFF a marriage education class, or offer a special evening event.

These can be posted for FREE on our national calendar with hundreds of other events all across the country. This helps us build a rising ground swell of activism for marriage and gain national press coverage about the benefits of marriage for children and for our nation’s economic well being.

You can already POST for FREE your events at this link: http://www.nationalmarriageweekusa.org/submitanevent/form/3-submit-an-event

Yours for strengthening marriage!

Sheila Weber
Executive Director, National Marriage Week USA

Chuck Stetson,
Chairman, Let’s Strengthen Marriage Campaign

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Attitudes of a Good Partner

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Although a relationship can't be a one-way street, our first priority is to be a good partner. If each person is taking that responsibility, the relationship flourishes. This week we focus on the attitudes that a good partner possesses.



 


Many relationships suffer from one or both partners going on "autopilot". You think you know the other person, so you stop paying attention. You forget that there is a universe inside them, and that they need your loving attention everyday. A good partner does this deliberately.

 


Extended to a relationship: the quality of a couple's connection is 10% what's happening, 90% the attitude toward each other.

 


"The Couple Checkup is a great way to generate meaningful conversation about each person's perspective and vision for your future life together. The more honest each is in truthfully answering the questions, the more insight you will gain from the results. I would recommend it to couples in the early stages of marriage prep as it highlights areas that you may need to come together on and seek outside advice and guidance."

Anne & Nate
(now happily married)


 

St. Francis said it. Stephen Covey documented it as one of the key habits of highly successful people. And good partners do it habitually.

 

Couple Checkup
Take this online assessment tool to identify the unique strengths and growth areas of your relationship!
  • Developed by Ph.D.s and clinically proven
  • Answer a series of customized questions
  • Receive a 20-page report instantly
  • Comes with discussion guide
  • Move past "good advice" and take an in depth look at your own relationship
  • Begin to identify your relationship strengths and issues that need attention
  • Be proactive.  Don't wait for problems to become serious before dealing with them
  • Spur on productive and insightful conversation that leads to action and change

Discover - Taking an online relationship inventory and generating your Couple Checkup Report will peak your curiosity.  As you explore your results, you and your partner will discover your strengths and issues.  You'll see where you agree and disagree as you gain insight into one another's perceptions of your relationship.  You need to know where you're starting from so you can chart a course for where you want to go.

Share - A key to any great relationship is communication.  But how do you bring up the difficult topics?  How do you create a safe environment for open discussion?  The topics covered in the Couple Checkup help generate productive conversations you wouldn't otherwise have; conversations that apply specifically to your relationship.

Grow - Each couple going through the Couple Checkup process has access to a free Discussion Guide.  This workbook is filled with easy to use exercises designed to introduce new skills and facilitate discussions that will help you move from insight to action.

To see a sample report, visit our Couple Checkup web page.



 

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npcl October 2012 Newsletter and Events

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The National Partnership for Community Leadership  Newsletter
October/2012
 
  
The Head Start State Collaboration Office and The Strengthening Families and Communities Coalition (SFCC)
 
The 2nd Annual  Fatherhood and Family Engagement Symposium

Moving Beyond Involvement to Engagement,

Building a Community of Support and Resources

.
 

 Thursday, October 4, 2012, 9:30am - 3:30pm

  

This event is free but registration is required! Space is limited. Lunch will be provided for all attendees!

 

Charles Sumner School Museum and Archives

 Richard L. Hurbut Memorial Hall

1201 17th St. NW, Washington, DC 20036

   (Corner of 17th St NW and M St NW) Farragut North Metro Exit

  

Please feel free to contact Angelia McDuffie via email

angelia.mcduffie@dc.gov if you have any questions. Email or fax your registration form to 202-741-5304 

 

Click here to download a registration form. 

 

NPCL
Master Trainer Institute
 

 

  

NPCL is offering a unique training opportunity to learn the theory and the practice of working with men and fathers. The three-day Institute will train interested individuals and agencies in the history of the responsible fatherhood movement; best-practices in working with men and fathers including recruitment, retention, and evaluation; integrating relationship and marriage education; and how to implement effective peer support groups.


The Institute training will be led by Dr. Jeffery M. Johnson. For two decades, Dr. Johnson has served as a Master Trainer and has conducted hundreds of workshops on men and fathers based on The Fatherhood Development Curriculum which, he co-authored.He has been directly involved in the nation's largest projects involving men and fathers, and served as lead consultant in the Ford Foundation's Strengthening Fragile Families Initiative.

 

NPCL
2728 Sherman Avenue NW
Washington, District of Columbia, 20001
 

October 15-17, 2012

November 14-16, 2012

December  10-12, 2012

9:00AM-4:00PM

 

 

 

 Strengthening Fragile Families Training Institute

.

For over two decades, family practitioners have been working with low-income fathers and mothers from diverse backgrounds without the necessary knowledge and skills to optimize their work. The Strengthening Families Institute is a five day skills building certification program designed to increase the capacity of individuals and agencies to be successful in working with low-income fathers, mothers, never married and married couples with children from diverse backgrounds and community settings.

 

This two day institute will train interested individuals and agencies on the history of the responsible fatherhood and healthy marriage/relationship education movement; best-practices in working with men, women, mothers, fathers and families including recruitment, retention and evaluation, and how to implement effective peer support groups.

 

SFFTI trains practitioners in the effective use of The Fatherhood Development Curriculum and The Relationship Skills for Strong Families curriculum developed by Dr. Jeffery M. Johnson. The curriculums are based on real experiences and challenges of fragile family settings.The curriculum also offers advice on facilitating groups and a theory of change methodology for training and participant learning.

 

NPCL

2728 Sherman Avenue, NW

Washington, DC 20011

 

December 13-14, 2012

 

Click her to download a registration form. 

 

 

National Partnership for Community Leadership

is accepting

WORKSHOP PRESENTER APPLICATIONS

for the 

 
15th Annual International Fatherhood Conference
Taking Responsible Fatherhood to the Next Level
"We're All in this Together"
 
June 11-14, 2103
Orlando, FL
           
The 15th Annual International Fatherhood Conference invites facilitators who are able to demonstrate how their programs have made qualitative and quantitative differences in the lives of men, women and children being served in their program/services through practical processes of successful collaboration and partnership building across non-profit and governmental organizations involving local, regional, state, and federal partners specifically in the following track areas:

1. RESPONSIBLE FATHERHOOD

2. HEALTHY MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP EDUCATION

3. PARTNERSHIPS: RESPONSIBLE FATHERHOOD&HEALTHY MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP EDUCATION SERVICES

4. CHILD SUPPORT

5. WORKFORCE DEVELOPMENT

6. EARLY CHILDHOOD DEVELOPMENT/HEAD START

7. FAITH BASED & COMMUNITY INITIATIVE SERVICES

8. COMMUNITY TRANSITION AND RE-ENTRY

9. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE INTERVENTION

10. WORKING WITH MILITARY FATHERS

11. SOCIAL MEDIA /MARKETING

12. FUNDING AND SUSTAINABILITY

  

 

Click here to download a Workshop Presenter Application.

UPDATE ON THE

RESPONSIBLE FATHERHOOD FIELD 2012

 

Dr. Ronald Mincy and colleagues have prepared an informative report on the State of Responsible Fatherhood Field. The report is an analysis of the results of a fatherhood field survey conducted over the past year

. Please find a copy of the study report, Tossed on a Sea of Change: A Status Update on the Responsible Fatherhood Field at crfcfw.columbia.edu.

 

For more information on upcoming events and the services the National Partnership for Community Leadership can provide please visit our website at www.npclstrongfamilies.com.
 
Sincerely,
 

Michelle Paterson
The National Partnership for Community
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