It's Time to Celebrate! | FTF eNews September Vol. 2

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First Things First eNews
  September 2012    Volume 2              

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 Secrets to Lasting Love*   

Reconnect and breathe life back into your marriage.

 

October 6

(Saturday)

9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. 

GraceBridge
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October 20 

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9:00 a.m. to Noon

Erlanger Women's East

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Chattanooga, TN 37421

 

 

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  15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION

It's Time to Celebrate!


There's still time to purchase tickets for our 15th Anniversary Celebration at the Chattanooga Convention Center on Tuesday, September 25.  We welcome Academy Award nominee Sean Astin, a passionate advocate for strong marriages and families.  Come join the celebration!!

 Reserve your spot today by contacting
Alishea Hixson at 423.267.5383.


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 Adventures in Dating

A Class for Teens

Help your teenager get the facts about healthy relationships with FTF's Adventures in Dating seminar. This FREE event takes place on Tuesday, October 9 during Fall Break and offers teens 14-18 an adventurous day of games, activities and life lessons about:
  • Healthy dating
  • Drama-free relationships
  • How to break up
  • How to resolve conflict
  • And much more!
October 9 (Tuesday)
 Greenway Farms
9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m.
5051 Gann Store Road
Chattanooga, TN  37343

Secret Keeper Girl
The Secret is Out!
It's official! Secret Keeper Girl Live! returns to the Chattanooga Convention Center on Saturday, January 26, 2013.  This event sold out last year, so don't miss your chance to see this great production for mothers and daughters ages 8-13.

Tickets are available online at firstthings.org.


  

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News from The National Partnership for Community

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 Congressional Black Caucus Foundation Inc.

 

Presents

 

The State of Fatherhood: Current and Future Direction 

"Where Do We Go From Here?"

 

A CBCF Issue Forum hosted by The Omega Psi Phi Fraternity and CBC Members

         Hon. James Clyburn, III     Hon. Henry "Hank" Johnson, Jr.

 

Friday, September 21, 2012

10:00AM - 12:00PM

Washington Convention Center

Room 202B

 

 

This event is free and open to the public. No Registration required

 

Invited White House Representative to give remarks on President Obama's Fatherhood and Mentoring Initiative

 

Panelist

Eugene Schneeberg, Director of Faith Based Partnerships US Department of Justice

S. Earl Wilson Co-Chair, Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Fatherhood and Mentoring Initiative

Dr. Jeffery Johnson, President and CEO, National Partnership for Community Leadership

Ms Vicki Turetsky - US Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement

Ray Singleton - NYC Office of Child Support

Moderated By Thabiti Boone, Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, International Representative

Fatherhood and Mentoring Initiative, White House Partnerships

 

Remarks from the Grand Basileus Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Dr Andrew Ray

 

The Fraternity is making significant inroads in taking an active leadership role in highlighting and working issues related to fatherhood and mentoring. This effort is showing up through involvement on the ground in the local communities and in legislative circles addressing policy change. We want to work towards building a bridge to supporting partnership

relationships in the community.


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Inspirations and Tips

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Part of being a good partner is learning how to repair relationship damage. Sometimes an apology is necessary, but did you know there are different ways of perceiving an apology? 

Dr. Jennifer Thomas, co-author of The 5 Languages of Apology with Dr. Gary Chapman, wrote a guest blog for our 'Couple Builder' series.

Couple Builder: Learn How to Apologize

Does your spouse rarely hear you apologize?  Your apologies may be long overdue.  Here is why: we have a natural tendency to gloss over what we have done wrong.  Perhaps we hope that...

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Learning to love is a lifetime journey. It's so tempting to insist that the other person become just like us. But the thrill of attraction depends on the uniqueness of each of us.
The biggest obstacle to repairing a relationship is inside us. It's the struggle to let go of our own ego. Whenever we choose being right over being connected and close, both partners suffer.

 

The second obstacle to repairing a relationship is also inside us. What do you do when your mate sincerely apologizes? Letting go of those strong emotions can also be a battle with the ego.

 

There's still time to sign up for our e-Course, beginning Oct. 1st!

Click to learn more about this on-line workshop for building and sustaining healthy relationships.

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The Jesuit Collaborative September E-news

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  Podcasts from Loyola Conference
Loyola Conf keynotes

The keynote podcasts have been posted from Finding God in Unsettled Times Conference


 

Ignatian Examen YouTube Talk and Podcast

Fr. Jim Martin's talk on the Examen is now available on YouTube. 
 

You can also download a podcast of Fr. Martin leading the Examen
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Ignatian Family Retreat 
in Richmond, VA
 

 An Ignatian Family Retreat was run in Spanish at Sacred Heart Parish in Richmond, Virginia, during the evenings of August 9-11.

 

Tri-Province celebration of Vow Day 
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  The Jesuit Collaborative rejoices with three
Jesuits who recently professed first vows in the Society

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Keynote Podcasts
Examen on YouTube
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Culture Watch: What’s Driving High Poverty Numbers?

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Culture Watch: Weekly Round-Up on Family, Religion and Civil Society
September 13, 2012

What’s Driving High Poverty Numbers?
by Rachel Sheffield, Research Associate
Richard and Helen DeVos Center for Religion and Civil Society 

Yesterday the U.S. Census Bureau released its annual poverty numbers. It reports that 46.2 million Americans remain poor; the figure was unchanged from last year. The percentage of Americans who were poor remained at a near-record 15 percent.

What we are sure to hear now is a cry from big-government advocates for increased government welfare spending. 

But record poverty is not the result of insufficient welfare spending. Last year, the government spent $927 billion on means-tested welfare aid, which breaks down to about $9,000 per lower-income person in the United States. The Census Bureau counts only about 3 percent of this as income when calculating poverty. This flawed measure is a crucial reason why poverty in the U.S. looks very different from the vision most people have of it.


A more accurate way to think of the official Census poverty measure is a report of “self-sufficiency”: the ability of Americans to sustain an income above poverty without reliance on welfare. The U.S. has record-high poverty (or rather, lack of self-sufficiency) in the short term because of bad policies that have damaged the economy and failed to create jobs. In the long term, the lack of self-sufficiency has been caused by a massive welfare state that discourages work and penalizes marriage.

Welfare policies that support work have a track record of success. The welfare reform of 1996 inserted work requirements for able-bodied individuals into the largest cash-assistance government welfare program. As a result, stagnant welfare rolls began to decline and employment increased.

However, the majority of the roughly 80 welfare programs funded by the government fail to include any type of work requirement. And in July, the Obama Administration issued a directive to gut the 1996 reform law of its work requirement. Taking work out of the equation is in direct contrast to what is necessary to assist those in need. Work requirements should be restored and expanded to other government welfare programs. Food stamps, one of the largest, would be a good place to start.

Marriage is the nation’s greatest weapon against child poverty. As new data reveal, children born to single mothers are nearly six times as likely to be poor than their peers born to married parents. Today’s historically high rate of unwed childbearing—over 40 percent—does not bode well for the economic or overall well-being of children, families, and, ultimately, the nation.

The majority of unwed births in the U.S. are not to teens, as generally thought, but to women in their 20s, and it is a result of the breakdown of marriage in lower-income communities. Tragically, the critical facts about the importance of marriage are rarely if ever communicated to youth at risk for future non-marital births. Most welfare programs, in fact, include marriage penalties. If policies continue to take an indifferent or hostile approach to marriage, high levels of child poverty are bound to continue.

More Americans in poverty—or rather, struggling to attain self-sufficiency—is not good news. Yet if we want to truly improve their lives, rather than ignoring the causes of poverty, policies should address them. Promoting work and healthy marriages are the most important steps in combating poverty and helping the nation’s families to achieve self-sufficiency.

What is your take on the solutions to poverty? Raise your voice and interact with other readers on our blog >>

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Healing Requires Forgiveness

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Hurting Marriages Need Forgiveness 

by Dr. Gary Chapman

 

 

Hope for the SeparatedPast failures need not destroy your hope for a better future. If you choose, you can take steps that may well restore your marriage to health. It all begins with forgiving the past.

All of us have failures in the past. We can let them stand as barriers to our future, or we can forgive them and build a new and deeper relationship. As long as we keep bringing up the past, we will be forever bogged down in frustration.

The past cannot be undone. It can only be forgiven.

Forgiveness is not a feeling. It is a choice to lift the penalty and let the other person back into your life. It opens up the possibility to building something different in the future.

Forgiveness does not mean forgetting. The memories may return, but when they do, we take them to God and pray this prayer. "Father, You know what I'm remembering, but I thank you that it is history. Now help me to do something positive today."

Forgiving is the first step toward a growing marriage.  

Today's article is based on the book, Hope for the Separated.   For a complete listing of Dr. Chapman's books and resources, click here.

Dying in the Small Stuff 

by David and Lisa Frisbie 

The Soul Mate Marriage


Dying to self is a thousand little choices we make every day. 

 

It is thinking about someone else as you rise and begin your morning. 

 

It is praying for someone throughout the day instead of wondering  whether anyone is praying about you and remembering your challenges. 

 

It is coming home tired from work, but choosing to serve and comfort someone else who is also tired instead of putting your feet up and waiting for a foot massage.

 

Dying to self is about forgetting all those arguments over "whose turn it is."

 

It is changing the diaper or getting up for the feeding, or even carrying out the trash or putting away the dishes.  It's a lot of little choices we make when all we want to do is sit down and relax, maybe read the paper, or maybe watch some television.

 

Dying to self is like that - it is daily, and it's about the small stuff. 

 

 

 


Content taken from Soul-Mate Marriage: The Spiritual Journey of Becoming One by David and Lisa Frisbie, published by Harvest House Publishing. 

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15 Years of Strengthening Families | FTF eNews September Vol. 1

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  September 2012    Volume 1             

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 Parenting
in the Digital Age*
   

If you're the parent of a tween of teen, this class is for you!     

 

September 15 & 22   

(Saturdays)

9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m.  

Tyner Academy
6837 Tyner Road
Chattanooga, TN 37421
 

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September 15

(Saturday)

9:00 a.m. to Noon

Erlanger Women's East

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  15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION
15 Years of
Strengthening Families


In 1997, First Things First began its journey toward helping people in our community to have strong, healthy marriages and families.  On Tuesday, September 25, we invite you to join us as we celebrate our 15th Anniversary at the Chattanooga Convention Center at 6:00 p.m.  We welcome Academy Award nominee Sean Astin as our special guest speaker.  As an advocate for strong families, he has much to share about staying connected to his wife and three daughters while managing a Hollywood career. 

 To purchase tickets or a table of eight,
contact Alishea Hixson at 423.267.5383.

 See you on September 25!  

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Middle & High School Newsletters
Introducing On The Edge
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Do you know what topics matter most to your tween or teen?  FTF can help you stay connected with two great online newsletters, On the Edge and iRepresent. On the Edge is for middle schoolers and offers practical advice on topics like friendships, social media, bullying and avoiding risky behavior.  iRepresent is designed for high school students and features articles on self-discovery, preparing for college, dating relationship tips and much more.  Both newsletters are offered through area middle and high schools or online at firstthings.org.  

A Film for the Whole Family

Make plans now to see Unconditional, premiering in theatres on September 21. This amazing film stars Lynn Collins (John Carter, X-Men Origins: Wolverine) and Michael Ealy (Barber Shop, Think Like a Man) in this moving story of renewed friendship and faith.

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Culture Watch: Marriage is the Greatest Weapon Against Child Poverty

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Culture Watch: Weekly Round-Up on Family, Religion and Civil Society
September 6, 2012

Marriage: The Greatest Weapon Against Childhood Poverty
by Ken McIntyre

The collapse of marriage, along with a dramatic rise in births to single women, is the most important cause of childhood poverty—but government policy doesn’t reflect that reality, according to a special report released yesterday by The Heritage Foundation.

Nearly three out of four poor families with children in America are headed by single parents. When a child’s father is married to his mother, however, the probability of the child’s living in poverty drops by 82 percent.

Senior Research Fellow Robert Rector provides a brief overview of each state with unique data and 14 charts per state, while also updating his years of related research in the special report titled “Marriage: America’s Greatest Weapon Against Child Poverty.” Heritage’s study, including a slideshow on national trends, arrives a week before the U.S. Census Bureau’s annual report on poverty, which is expected to show another increase.

“Policymakers on the state and national levels recognize that education reduces poverty, but they’re largely unaware that marriage is an equally strong anti-poverty weapon,” says Rector, a nationally recognized authority on the U.S. welfare system.

In Florida, for example, white families headed by single parents are five times more likely to be poor than those headed by married couples. In Illinois, the poverty rate for a single mother with only a high school diploma is 39.5 percent, compared with 8 percent for a married couple with the same education.

The rate of births to unmarried women—now four out of every 10 babies overall, five out of 10 for Hispanics, and seven out of 10 for blacks—has soared since the mid-1960s, when President Lyndon Johnson launched the War on Poverty. Births outside marriage are mostly to less-educated women—sadly, those with the least ability to support children.

While more Americans grow dependent on welfare, government fails to communicate the benefits of marriage even as it warns young people not to smoke, do drugs, have “unsafe” sex, or drop out of school. Rector calls this “tragic.”

Well over a third of all single-parent families with children (37 percent) were poor in 2009. Only 6.8 percent of married couples with children were poor. Marriage reduces the probability of poverty for all racial groups.

Rector finds a silver lining: Most unmarried moms—and dads, too—do look favorably on marriage. “New policies should be developed that build on these attitudes,” he says. Specifically, government should:
  • Provide facts to at-risk youth about the value of marriage;
  • Connect low-income couples with community resources that teach them the skills they need to build lasting marriages before having children; and
  • Reform the welfare system to encourage rather than discourage and penalize marriage.
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Family Fact of the Week
Marriage Matters to Reducing Childhood Poverty

Among all families, nearly one in five is headed by unmarried women, compared to one in two among poor families. One in three families headed by unmarried women is poor, compared to one in 10 of all families. Learn more about the benefits of marriage to children, adults, and civil society at FamilyFacts.org.

 
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