Could you help spread the word?!

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From: Sheila Weber <sheila@letsstrengthenmarriage.org>
Date: Tue, Jan 4, 2011 at 5:18 PM
Subject: Could you help spread the word?!
To: billcoffin68@gmail.com


Kindly POST any events you have planned from February 7 to 14 since National Marriage Week USA will be running a full-page national newspaper ad a few days prior to that week.  We want to make sure anyone who sees the ad can locate your event or class when they plug in their home state at NationalMarriageWeekUSA.org

 

Please take a few seconds to easily post your event at the red button marked POST EVENT at this link: http://www.nationalmarriageweekusa.org/events/#

 

Please collaborate with others one week a year as we seek to elevate marriage as a national issue. We must all work together to strengthen marriage!

 

 

Warmest thanks,

Sheila Weber

Executive Director, National Marriage Week USA

Sheila@letsstrengthenmarriage.org

www.NationalMarriageWeekUSA.org

 

 

 

 

 

HM Links and Clips (12/30/10)

10) Marriage And Work Problems Literature Review - Infospace.com Web ...

And Couple Relationships

Literature Review... Social Work in Education, 15(4), 225-232 .... citnews.unl.edu/marriage/help/research.html

 

 9)

 

The Happiness Project: Twenty-Three Phrases to Help You Fight Right.

 

 

 

   8)Latino Marriage and Relationship Educator
Sufficient work in relationship education or marriage education along with some college considered. • Bicultural and Bilingual English and Spanish required ...
http://portland.craigslist.org/clc/npo/2135219116.html">portland.craigslist.org/clc/npo/2135219116.html

 

And Culturally Relevant Relationship, Marriage Education Curricula For ...
Developing Culturally Relevant Relationship and Marriage Education Curricula for …

 

 

 

7) NWA Healthy Marriages | Gary Smalley's Love & Laughter
Join Gary Smalley for a special 1-day marriage event as he presents his “Love & Laughter” seminar. Gary will reduce all of his marriage research and ...
www.nwamarriages.com/event_reg/eventinfo_vday.php

 

And http://www.nationalmarriageweekusa.org/events/

 

 

 

6) http://www.bettermarriages.org/?historyofacme and

 

 

A Marital Spark: 6 Principles For More Passion And Energy In Marriage | zen habits

 

 

 

 

5) The New Dad: Exploring Fatherhood within a Career Context, the Boston College Center for Work & Family http://www.bc.edu/cwf

 

And Taking the Child Out of Child Support
By Vincent DiCaro
As the nation's leading fatherhood organization, we often receive promotional materials for books about fatherhood. It's great to see more people writing …

 

 

4) Delaying Sex Might Strengthen Marriage
BusinessWeek
Waiting until marriage to have sex had the strongest correlations with positive outcomes. The study was controlled to eliminate the influence of factors ...
See all stories on this topic »

 

 

 

3) Supporting Healthy Marriage Evaluation: Early Lessons from the ...
M uses a rigorous research design to test the effectiveness of a new approac ...
www.ntis.gov/search/product.aspx?ABBR=PB2011103050

 

Or it’s free here http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/opre/whats_new.html

 

 

 

 

2) Quotes For Love
Time, effort, and imagination must be summoned constantly to keep any relationship flourishing and growing. ~Jim Rohn ~ Families are the compass that guide ...
www.squidoo.com/quotes-for-love

 

 

 

1)

 

Married to a college football fan? I feel your pain | Deseret News

 

 

 

 

I hope to see some of you next summer here Healthy Marriages - Healthy Families Conference

  or here http://www.bettermarriages.org/?register

 

 

Bill Coffin

Special Assistant for Marriage Education, retired

ACF/HHS

301-625-7737(h) billcoffin68@gmail.com

 

…We, Government Leaders, invite colleagues and citizens from every political party to engage in renewed

efforts to pursue laws and public policies that promote the well-being of marriages and families…(Excerpt from http://www.hamptonu.edu/ncaamp/proclamation/)

 

A Guide to Low-Cost Curricula and Resources: Marriage and Relationship, Fatherhood and Parenting,
and Financial Education available at http://www.acf.hhs.gov/healthymarriage/pdf/curricula_resources_guide_121509.pdf

 

 http://www.acf.hhs.gov/healthymarriage 

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/healthymarriage/doc/ACF_Curriculum_Assessment_Guide.doc

http://learning.hhs.gov/elearning/cop.asp

 

Why Marriage Matters, 26 Conclusions from the Social Sciences

#1 Marriage increases the likelihood that fathers and mothers have good relationships with their children.

#26 A child who is not living with his or her own two married parents is at greater risk for child abuse.

http://center.americanvalues.org/?p=7

 

For previous editions of HM Links & Clips see http://billcoffin.org

 

 Note: Most of these links still work

Be sure to visit www.healthymarriageinfo.org frequently for the most current information and resources on healthy marriage. Do you know someone who would enjoy our e-mail alerts? Pass it along and share the healthy marriage knowledge. Sign up now.

http://www.futureofchildren.org/futureofchildren/publications/journals/journal_details/index.xml?journalid=37

http://www.camarriage.com/home/index.ashx?nv=2

http://www.marriedwithspecialchildren.com/  

http://www.extension.iastate.edu/marriage/

http://www.aahmi.net/files/mapping.html

http://www.arfamilies.org/family_life/marriage/default.htm

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/ofa/grantees/list10-06.htm 

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/ofa/hmabstracts/index.htm

http://www.healthymarriageinfo.org

http://www.foryourmarriage.org/interior_template.asp?id=20398706

http://www.smartmarriages.org  http://www.smartmarriages.com/app/Newsletter.Subscribe

http://www.smartmarriages.com/conferencedetails.html

http://fatherhood.hhs.gov/Marriage/index.shtml

http://center.americanvalues.org

http://www.bettermarriages.org

http://www.aces.edu/pubs/docs/H/HE-0829/HE-0829.pdf

http://www.peerta.acf.hhs.gov/index.cfm?event=viewTopic&sectionTopicId=14#marriage

 

http://www.marriagesavers.org/sitems/index.htm

http://www.usrelationships.org/

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/opre/project/projectIndex.jsp#strengthen

http://www.afterschool.ed.gov/programs/opre/strengthen/compreh_frmwk/reports/comp_frmwk/comp_frmwk_toc.html 

http://www.religion-online.org/showbook.asp?title=1900

http://www.buildingstrongfamilies.info

http://www.supportinghealthymarriage.org/index.html

http://marriagecalculator.acf.hhs.gov/marriage/

http://www.marriagemagazine.org

http://www.couplecare.info/CcareAbstracts.htm

http://www.okmarriage.orghttp://www.familiesok.org

http://www.f4agm.blogspot.com/

 

http://unlforfamilies.unl.edu/

http://www.healthymarriagesgr.org/

http://futuronow.org/

 

http://www.helpourmarriage.org/

http://flweb211.myflorida.com/list_need.asp?id=19

 

http://www.uga.edu/prosaam/index.html

http://www.thecompassionatecommunity.com/issues/marriage.php

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/marriage/interviews/horn.html 

http://www.beechacres.org/family/home.asp 

http://www.familyfacts.org/results.cfm?Key=7

http://www.addictionandfamily.org/

 

http://www.hec.ohio-state.edu/eseminars/RME

http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=34927&pf=3&page=1

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/opre/strengthen/serv_delivery/reports/systematic_rev/sys_intro.html

http://www.nytimes.com/2005/04/19/health/psychology/19coup.html?ex=1163048400&en=1e292c472107459b&ei=5070

http://www.blackwell-synergy.com/doi/full/10.1111/j.1741-3729.2006.00418.x

http://www.familiesok.org/

http://www.familyministries.org/FirstYearsForever/archive.htm

http://www.childtrends.org/Files/CT_HealthyMarriage.pdf

http://www.gcmarriage.org/

http://www.winst.org/princetonprinciples/contents.html

http://aspe.hhs.gov/hsp/06/OMI/rb.pdf

http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/intimate/table/wommar.htm

http://www.brookings.edu/events/2008/0516_healthy_marriage.aspx

http://www.rd.com/openContentCategory.do?contentCategoryId=703

http://marriage.rutgers.edu/

http://www.hhs.gov/children/index.shtml#family

http://www.americanvalues.org/index.html#marriage

http://www.anthemnorthtexas.org/

http://www.wyofams.org/

http://www.alabamamarriage.org/

http://www.nytimes.com/2006/12/17/fashion/weddings/17FIELDBOX.html?ex=1186290000&en=f3ad001932193004&ei=5087&excamp=mkt_at4

http://www.familybridgeschicago.org/

 

http://www.foundationformarriage.org/

http://ssw.unc.edu/jif/

http://www.marriedandlovingit.org/

http://www.strongbonds.org/skins/strongbonds/display.aspx

 

http://www.nrepp.samhsa.gov/programfulldetails.asp?PROGRAM_ID=86

http://healthymarriagetips.com/Money.htm

HM Links & Clips (12/29/10) #161

 

10) High Plains Coalition: Academic Achievement
THE CASE FOR MARRIAGE EDUCATION AS CRITICAL FOR SCHOOL ACHIEVEMENT: Children from divorced homes perform more poorly in reading, spelling and math and ...

 

 

9)

Divorce Research: Top Findings of 2010

 

 

8) Kent Bush: Tell other couples you're not perfect We all could do better reaching out to our friends who are having trouble in relationships instead of comparing notes about what we have heard on the grapevine. Showing another couple the mountains you've climbed can make their molehills seem less daunting. http://www.timesreporter.com/archive/x1882974303/Kent-Bush-Tell-other-couples-youre-not-perfect

 

7) Benefits in Delaying Sex Until Marriage
WebMD
... was in marriage ...” Sign up today for WebMD's Sex & Relationships newsletter and get trusted information that will help keep your relationships healthy ...
See all stories on this topic »

 

6) Study of twins confirms marriage reduces bad behaviour http://www.ionainstitute.org/index.php?id=1196

 

5) http://www.womansday.com/Articles/Family-Lifestyle/Relationships/The-5-Stages-of-a-Marriage.html

 

4) The Four Horsemen | in Chapter 16: SFL | from Psychology: An Introduction by Russ Dewey

And

 

How to Fight Fair in Marriage

 

3) http://www.whitehouse.gov/blog/2010/12/29/expertnet-wiki-update and http://foryourmarriage.org/

 

2) Marriage Proposal | Engagement Video | Rockefeller Center | Christmas (Wonder if they have the skills to survive and thrive in marriage—BC)

 

1) Couples Grow Old, Happy and Sad Together
Fox News
 "There are all kinds of changes in perception that occur over the course of a marriage that make you look at it ...

 

Bill Coffin

Special Assistant for Marriage Education

Billcoffin68@gmail.com

 

For previous editions of HM Links & Clips see http://billcoffin.org

 

HM Links & Clips (12/28/10) #160

10) Penn State Live - Relationship-strengthening class improves life ...

  … "Parents should not underestimate the importance of the types of support they provide for one another for their child's welfare," said Feinberg. "The fact is that children's well-being is dependent on parents' interactions."

 

And PDF of Family Foundations Overview - Summary

 

 

9) On Forgiveness (NYT)
By CHARLES L. GRISWOLD In order to forgive others, victims must put aside revenge. But what are the other conditions of true forgiveness?

 

 

8) 2010 December « The Black Wives' Club
To our knowledge, ProSAAM is the first major marriage education curriculum to so thoroughly focus on prayer as a fundamental element of what is taught. ...

 

 

7) My New Year's Resolution: Save Marriage
Huffington Post (blog)
All the women in my life urged me to keep my marriage together. "Relationships have ups and downs," my sage girlfriend Lisa would counsel. ...

 

 

6) Project focusing on fatherhood
Buffalo News
By Jay Rey A local video producer and radio personality is going public with an issue he believes needs to be discussed in the black community: fatherhood. ...

 

And Fathers in the News - Top Fatherhood Stories of 2010
Many fathers have been in the news during 2010, and a number of important stories about fathers and fatherhood have appeared in the news as well.

 

 

5) http://www.markmerrill.com/2010/12/28/10-ways-to-push-your-spouse-away/#

 

 

4) Register now: Mastering the Mysteries of Love Communication Training
... the marriages and relationships of our church members, as well as others. This course is great to incorporate in a Marriage Education Ministry. ...
www.uts.edu/faculty/287.html

 

 

3) Yes, That's So Wrong
Kathryn Lopez, Townhall.com

 

 

2) http://www.allprodad.com/top10/marriage/10-creative-ways-to-spend-more-time-with-your-wife#

 

And

 

35 Gifts Your Children Will Never Forget | Becoming Minimalist

 

1.                              And one for your parents A Tribute: The Best Gift You Can Give Your Parents - FamilyLife.com

Over the last decade, hundreds of people have written to describe how they took my advice and wrote a special Tribute to their parents. ...
www.familylife.com/site/apps/nl/content3.asp?c=dnJHKLNnFoG&b...

 

 

 

1) Gregory Kane: In praise of Daniel Patrick Moynihan 45 years later

Read more at the Washington Examiner: http://washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/columnists#ixzz19RdPK1YM

 

Bill Coffin

Special Assistant for Marriage Education

ACF/HHS

370 L’Enfant Promenade, SW Washington, DC  20447

(202)260-1550(o); email address starting next week is billcoffin68@gmail.com

 

…We, Government Leaders, invite colleagues and citizens from every political party to engage in renewed

efforts to pursue laws and public policies that promote the well-being of marriages and families…(Excerpt from http://www.hamptonu.edu/ncaamp/proclamation/)

 

 Why Marriage Matters, 26 Conclusions from the Social Sciences

#1 Marriage increases the likelihood that fathers and mothers have good relationships with their children.

#26 A child who is not living with his or her own two married parents is at greater risk for child abuse.

http://center.americanvalues.org/?p=7

 

For previous editions of HM Links & Clips see http://billcoffin.org

 

 

From: 33questions@aweber.com on behalf of Michael Webb
[33questions@theromantic.com]
Sent: Monday, December 27, 2010 9:07 PM
To: Coffin, Bill (ACF)
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by Michael Webb

The other day a friend was sharing with Athena and me that when their first son was born they were so excited at the new adventure that they did some things they later regretted. One of those things was to begin feeding him solid foods when he was only two months old. Practically every authority recommends that you wait until a baby is at least five or six months until they begin eating foods.
Their digestive systems aren't typically mature enough to handle solids and you greatly increase a child's chance of having allergies and other problems if you introduce food too soon.

Now here is some advice many of you probably don't want to hear about what you shouldn't do early on in your relationship and I'll probably get a lot of nasty mail because of it. But I don't write on tough issues to be popular. I write it to help people have blissful relationships.

If you want to have a blissful relationship, don't ruin the chances by introducing things into your relationship until you are ready for it.

I'm constantly bewildered when people can't figure out why they keep having failed relationships when they muddle them with physical intimacy. It's fairly common for couples to kiss on their first date, begin caressing soon afterwards and start a sexual relationship within a few weeks or months of knowing each other.

While I'm not going to tell you how long you should wait to begin kissing, hugging and making non-sexual contact, I'm going to boldly state that our bodies and minds are not designed for sexual relationships until marriage/life-time commitment. The two go hand and hand and to try to separate them causes a lot of emotional turmoil in our relationships.

The average American has ten sexual partners before they are married. They either think each partner is "the one" or they think sex is so wonderful they don't want to miss out on the opportunity.
Sex is indeed wonderful and very special and saving it for the wedding night is treating it as something special. Sharing it with practically everyone you date makes it rather ordinary.

Here are just a few of the emotional problems pre-marital sex can
cause:
* When you sleep with someone you aren't married to, they begin to get concerned with how many other people you have slept with. * If you are willing to have sex with someone you aren't married to, will you feel the same after you are married? Rates of affairs are dramatically higher with those who engage in lots of pre-marital sex compared to those who were virgins when married.

* One has a tendency to compare themselves with their mate's previous conquests. Since sexual relationships were designed for married couples, your mind naturally begins pushing the relationship further along than where you might be.

* You might not even know the person you are sleeping with but you start forming an emotional attachment to them. Many couples who really shouldn't be together are married because a pre-marital sexual relationship "bonded" them together when they wouldn't have bonded without being physically intimate.

I've talked with quite a few people who waited to begin a sexual relationship until they were married and none of them have regretted it. I've chatted with numerous people who began a sexual relationship before the wedding and practically all of them had regrets. Now, I am NOT advocating that you blindly marry someone without knowing their thoughts, ideas, dreams and wishes are regarding sex.
My 1000 Questions for Couples has 100s of questions about sex that should be discussed prior to marriage. You can get it here:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=Cm0Sd&m=1ppK_KGheTyje1&b=3Tr3Y_Xzf3CFz8yYGbIMww While waiting to have sex until you are married won't guarantee a blissful relationship, it will certainly cause your mate to honor and respect you much more than if you didn't.

Love, marriage and sex -- let's keep them in that order.

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I was reading a survey the other day that 82% of couples report that lovemaking was one of the *gifts* given for the holidays.

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From: Ozarks Marriage Matters [phyllis@forest.ccsend.com] on behalf of Ozarks Marriage Matters [newsletter@ozarksmarriagematters.org]
Sent: Tuesday, December 28, 2010 5:32 AM
To: Coffin, Bill (ACF)
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Ozarks Marriage Matters

In This Issue:

  • Sit Back, Relax, and Take a Minute ...
  • Merry Christmas from the Operation Us Staff
  • One Hour Host Training for Individuals or Couples January 5, 2011
  • Getaway Together Marriage Retreat - January 14-15, 2011
  • Keep an Eye Out for Our New Billboard Series 
  • Ask Your Relationship Questions
      
OMM News & Notes: Promoting Healthy Relationships December 28, 2010
Just in Case You Missed It . . . We're Repeating Last Week's Newsletter!
 
Sit Back, Relax and Take a Minute . . .
by Dr. Jennifer Baker  

Man_Relaxing_in_ChairWe know you're busy. It's that time of the year, but today we hope you'll take just a few minutes to sit back, relax and listen to area folks talking about the impact Operation Us has had in their lives and the lives of people they know and serve. All you need to do is click on the links below to hear firsthand from people who've worked with the Operation Us project and seen the benefits. -->

If you still have some doubts about how valuable it can be for your faith community to be involved with the work of Operation Us and Ozarks Marriage Matters, click on the link below to hear 417 area clergy talking about the impact Operation Us has had in their church and community.

HM Links & Clips (12/27/10) #159 (same # as 2008)

 

10) http://www.assets4families.org/index.html and Register Now - Region VI Family Strengthening Summit

 

 

9) Marriage keeps you healthy: study - Silobreaker
Marriage keeps you healthy, even though it can make men fat, U.S. government researchers said on Wednesday. Married people are less likely to smoke, ...

 

And The Middle Class Constantly Seeks Stability
Barbara Dafoe Whitehead, New York Times “Room for Debate” blog, 12/23/10

 

 

 

8) 2010-12 Winter Newsletter
At Healthy Marriages, you can find opportunities to reach out and help another .... If you would like to host a Healthy Marriage event, give us a call! ...

 

And Effective Family Strengthening Interventions | PDFChaser | Best ...
The focus of OJJDP's Family Strengthening Series is to provide assistance to ongoing ... to repli-cate these findings and to further explore the elements of ...

 

 

 

7) Give kids happy, healthy marriage
Monroe News Star
Say you don't have a healthy marriage? Do something in 2011 to change that. Attend a marriage retreat. Read a marriage book. There are dozens of excellent ...

 

And The B.E.S.T. (Building and Enriching Stronger Tennessee) Families ...
implementing the marriage education program. From this information, the .... respondents felt people should be required to take a marriage education course ...

 

 

 

6) New Webinar: Planning and Applying for Fatherhood Funding | Alliance1
This webinar is in response to the federal government's recent authorization of $75 million for fatherhood programming in the 2011 fiscal year. ...

 

And National Partnership for Community Leadership (NPCL)
Purchase copies of The Fatherhood Development Curriculum at reduced rates. ... The NPCL Fatherhood Development Curriculum has the distinction of being the ...

 

And Integrating Healthy Marriage Skills in Responsible Fatherhood Programs

 

 

5) Healthy Relationship | PDF Finder | PDF Search Engine
Appealing to Teens to Participate in Healthy Marriage/ Relationship Education Appealing to Teens to Participate in Healthy Marriage/Relationship Education ...

 

And NIHMP BROCHURE - gt I Nbrak
American communities about the value of healthy marriages ... l would like to introduce the Nebraska Indian Healthy Marriage. Project and the NIH MP Staff. ...

 

 

 

4)  Michele Weiner-Davis: Terri, Thanks for writing such a thoughtful ...
But good marriage therapy and marriage education can radically change a marriage . Seeking help rather than an affair partner, is my preferred solution. ...
www.huffingtonpost.com/.../the-state-of-affairs_b_795993_71...

 

And Google Answers: Granular statistics on US divorce rate.

 

 

 

 

3) High Plains Coalition: Get Involved
Attend a Marriage Education or Relationship Skills class, and tell your friends ... Receive training to become a facilitator of a Marriage Education or ...

 

 

 

 

 

 

2) About 7000 more Iowans to qualify for food assistance
Radio Iowa
The flyer cites a variety of statistics, noting that spouses in a healthy marriage are less likely to drink heavily or use marijuana and their children ...

 

And Should Parents Fight In Front Of Kids?
WDSU New Orleans
Fights meant divorce in my mind. My parents generally argued over money and the stress associated with it, along with daily issues such as the laundry and ...

 

 

 

1) Smart Marriages®: Time and Hax / Worst Relationship Songs / Famili ...
By Diane
Fatherhood and Marriage Leadership Institute ----------------------------------- -------- - FOR INFORMATION about how to post to the Smart Marriages® newslist; subscribe or UNSUBSCRIBE, or an archive of all past posts: ...

 

And Smart Marriages®: Without Daddy/ Cast in America/ Top 10 / Eclipse ...
By Diane
Doing Without/ You Saved Me · Invitation to be Part Marriage Education history . .. FAQs / Twilight Toll on Marriage (really?) / Child... NPR Link / Innovations in divorce prevention / NYS... On NPR today / Fundraising and Partnerships ...

 

Bill Coffin

Special Assistant for Marriage Education

ACF/HHS

370 L’Enfant Promenade, SW Washington, DC  20447

(202)260-1550(o);

 Billcoffin68@gmail.com (new email address starting in Jan)

 

For previous editions of HM Links & Clips see http://billcoffin.org

HM Links & Clips (12/14/10) #151 - Coffin Corner
4) Links - Mississippi Healthy Marriage Initiative ... Another seeming contradiction to working at a healthy marriage nonprofit is that I am the product of ...

 

From: National Marriage Project [marriage@virginia.edu]
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National Marriage Project Newsletter

National Marriage Project Update                    December, 2010

Mission
The National Marriage

Project (NMP) is a

nonpartisan,

nonsectarian,

and interdisciplinary

initiative located at

the University of

Virginia. The Project's

mission is to provide

research and analysis on

the health of marriage in

America, to analyze the

social and cultural forces

shaping contemporary

marriage, and to identify

strategies to increase

marital quality and

stability.
 
 
 

New Research:

When Marriage Disappears
On Monday, Dec. 6, 2010, the National Marriage Project and the Institute for American Values released the latest edition of The State of Our Unions. This year's edition offers an essay entitled, "When Marriage Disappears: The Retreat from Marriage in Middle America." The report chronicles the waning fortunes of marriage in Middle America, as well as the cultural, economic, and religious roots of the retreat from marriage in Middle America. It also explains why marriage is getting stronger among highly educated and affluent Americans. http://www.virginia.edu/marriageproject/ -->
In the News:

The National Marriage Project was featured in a recent New York Times "Room for Debate" roundtable on cohabitation and remarriage:
<SPAN style

HM Links & Clips (12/23/10) #158

10) Domestic violence program rates 10 worst relationship songs - Daily Dose - Boston.com

http://www.boston.com/lifestyle/health/blog/dailydose/2010/12/domestic_violen.html

 

 

9) Pinky Swears are Worthless and Other Lessons Divorce Teaches Our Children Well

Huffington Post (blog) - ‎16 hours ago‎

This year marks the 40th anniversary of the release of the Crosby, Stills Nash & Young hit song "Teach Your Children." It's also the 40th anniversary of the ...

 

And A Grandmother Struggles With Divorce

Huffington Post (blog) - ‎Dec 22, 2010‎

When an adult child's marriage ends, it's not just the divorcing couple and their children who are hurt. What many people do not realize is that the ...

  

 

8) http://www.markmerrill.com/2010/12/14/8-outside-the-box-date-ideas/#

 

 

7) National Fatherhood Initiative :: Military Fatherhood Award™ Ceremony
The Military Fatherhood Award™ recognizes a military dad who goes above and beyond his duties as both serviceman and dad to make sure he and his family stay ...

 

 

6) BYU study says delaying sex may promote better marriage
Salt Lake Tribune
By Brian Maffly Delaying sex could lead to healthier marriages, particularly in the quality of a couple's communication, new research out of Brigham Young ...
See all stories on this topic »

 

 

5) Fewer Teen Moms but More Babies Born to Single Moms Than Ever ...
Furthermore, marriage education for low-income adults and high school students should be put into place to help couples learn the skills to sustaining a ...

 

 

4) Reno healthy marriage Articles, Reno healthy marriage News ...
Read the latest Reno healthy marriage news and view Reno healthy marriage pictures from our team of local insiders.

 

 

3) http://www.youtube.com/camarriage and http://www.centerforpublicconversation.org/

 

 

2) Random Samplings is the official blog of the U.S. Census Bureau. Experts from around the Census Bureau describe the objectives of their work and explain census and survey results. Learn more at http://blogs.census.gov/censusblog/

 

 

1) The Association for Library Service to Children (ALSC) recently updated their "Best Websites for Kids" directory.

 

And on Friday kids (or those who are still kids at heart) can track Santa's progress around the world online with the NORAD Santa Tracker.

 

Merry Christmas,

 

Bill Coffin

Special Assistant for Marriage Education

ACF/HHS

370 L’Enfant Promenade, SW Washington, DC  20447

(202)260-1550(o);

Bill.Coffin@acf.hhs.gov

 

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Join us for this exciting and insightful event featuring Dr.  Jennifer Thomas, co-author of the book The Five Languages of Apology, written with Dr. Gary Chapman, New York Times best-selling author of The Five Love Languages.

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The New Year brings new beginnings.  And what a perfect place to begin!  This creative and insightful coaching event brings women together in a group atmosphere to cultivate their marriage relationships.

Growing a successful garden requires the right tools, knowledge, wisdom, and a willing spirit.  By applying similar gardening principles to marriage, we find how to nurture, communicate, and turn differences into strengths…together.   

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Generosity Unbound

A Conversation on September 23, 2010 with David Blankenhorn, President, Institute for American Values and Claire Gaudiani, author of Generosity Unbound: How American Philanthropy Can Strengthen the Economy and Expand the Middle Class, published September 2010 by Broadway Books, an imprint of the Institute for American Values.

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The National CampaignFrom: The National Campaign [web@thenc.org]
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Subject: Teen Birth Rate Hits Record Low

 

 

December 21, 2010    

Teen Birth Rate Hits Record Low
New Survey: Teens Say Parents Most Influence Their Decisions About Sex

Survey Also Reveals One-Third of Teens Believe Birth Control Doesn’t Work

 

Press Release    
For Immediate Release
December 21, 2010

Contact:  Bill Albert, 202-478-8510/balbert@thenc.org

(Washington, DC) --- The teen birth rate in the United States declined 6% in 2009 and is now at a record low, according to new data released today by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s National Center for Health Statistics.  Rates declined among older and younger teens and among all racial and ethnic groups.  For example, the birth rate among Hispanic teens declined 10% in 2009 and is now at a record low.

“Good news just in time for the holidays – a steep decline in teen births,” said Sarah Brown, CEO of The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy.  “It is now apparent that the increase in the teen birth rate noted in 2007 and 2008 was only a hiccup – a blip – in the longer term, two-decade decline in teen births.  We now are, thankfully, back on track.  The credit and praise goes to teens themselves for making better decisions about their lives today and their plans for the future.”  

Brown continued, “Still, The Grinch among us recognizes that what goes down can go back up again.  Even when the news is good, it is essential that parents, practitioners, policymakers, and really anyone who cares about teenagers remember that the U.S. still has the highest rates of teen pregnancy and births among comparable countries and that we all need to continue helping teens postpone their families until they are older, through school, and in stable, committed relationships.”

A new public opinion survey released today by The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy provides some important context for the new birth data.  Two of the toplines from With One Voice 2010, a nationally representative telephone survey of 1,008 young people (aged 12-19) and 1,000 adults (age 20 and older), are:

  • Teens (46%) say parents most influence their decisions about sex.  By comparison, only 20% say friends most influence their decisions.
  • Although 78% of teens say they have all the information they need to avoid an unplanned pregnancy, one-third (34%) agree “it doesn’t matter whether you use birth control or not, when it is your time to get pregnant, it will happen,” and half (49%) admit that they know “little or nothing” about condoms and how to use them.

Other findings from the survey of teens and adults include:

Parents

  • Eight in ten teens (80%) say that it would be much easier for teens to delay sexual activity and avoid teen pregnancy if they were able to have more open, honest conversations about these topics with their parents.
  • Six in ten teens (63%) agree that the primary reason teens don’t use contraception is because they are afraid that their parents will find out.

Sex Education

  • Many teens (46%) and most adults (73%) wish young people were getting more information about both abstinence and contraception rather than either/or.  By comparison, 18% of teens say they want more information about birth control and 9% want more information about abstinence.  The overwhelming majority of teens (87%) and adults (93%) also agree it is important for teens to be given a strong message that they should not have sex until they are at least out of high school.

Teen Pregnancy, Education, and Religion

  • About nine in ten teens (91% of girls and 87% of boys) and two-thirds of adults (66%) say that teen pregnancy is a “very important” problem in the United States and nearly all adults (89%) believe there should be a direct effort in their community to prevent teen pregnancy.
  • About nine in ten teens (87%) and adults (90%) believe reducing teen pregnancy is a very effective way to reduce the high school dropout rate and improve academic achievement.
  • Most teens (73%) and adults (70%) believe religious leaders and faith groups should be doing more to help prevent teen pregnancy.

Media

  • Among those teens who have watched MTV’s 16 and Pregnant, 82% think the show helps teens better understand the challenges of teen pregnancy and parenthood and how to avoid it.
  • More broadly, most teens (79% of girls and 67% of boys) agree with the statement:  “When a TV show or character I like deals with teen pregnancy, it makes me think more about my own risk of becoming pregnant/causing a pregnancy and how to avoid it.”

Sex, Regret, Relationships, and Sexting

  • Among those teens who have had sex, most (65% of girls and 57% of boys) say they wish they had waited longer.
  • Most teens (93% of girls and 88% of boys) say they would rather have a boyfriend/girlfriend and not have sex than have sex but not have a boyfriend or girlfriend.
  • Most teens (71%) agree that sharing nude or semi-nude images of themselves or other teens electronically through cell phones, websites, and/or social media networks leads to more sex in real life.

About the survey and The National Campaign.  Click here to read the survey in its entirety, including the wording of the polling questions and the exact methodology; click here for a fact sheet on the new teen birth rate data. The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy seeks to improve the lives and future prospects of children and families. Our specific strategy is to prevent teen pregnancy and unplanned pregnancy among single, young adults. We support a combination of responsible values and behavior by both men and women and responsible policies in both the public and private sectors.

 
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Season's Greetings! 

We send you our warmest wishes for a happy holiday season! 

We also want to extend a heartfelt thank you for your important contribution to creating lasting, successful marriages and families in California, including investing in your own relationships.

As the year comes to a close, we are celebrating some great impacts made during 2010.  Through our 28 partnering organizations, we touched the lives of nearly 2,500 high school students, 3,000 singles, and 8,700 married Californians with skills-building Relationship Education classes.  This means that over the past four years, more than 65,000 people have gained the skills to better connect and communicate in their relationships!

We look forward to continuing with you into the coming year.  Great things are in store for 2011, including a new look and name for CHMC.  Look for more news after the New Year!

All the best to you and your loved ones,

California Healthy Marriages Coalition

A special "thank you" to our partners and supporters for your contributions to impacting the lives of over 14,000 Californians this year:

Health and Human Services/Administration for Children and Families/Office of Family Assistance

First 5 LA
First 5 San Bernardino
AMOR de Orange County
Catholic Family Movement
Catholic Diocese of San Bernardino
Center for the Empowerment of Families
The Clinebell Institute
Community Christian Center
The Dibble Institute
East Bay Healthy Marriage and Fatherhood Initiative
Family Saver Center
Formacion Matrimonial
Fuller Institute for Relationship Education
GIFT Counseling and Wellness Center
Happy Families
Healthy Marriage Coalition of Fresno/Madera County
IMPACT South Bay
International Institute of Los Angeles
Korean Churches for Community Development
Los Angeles H.A.L.O.
MAPS 4 College
National Hispanic Christian Leadership Conference
OCMarriage
Relate for Life
Relationship Research Foundation
Relationship Skills Unlimited
REnovando Familias
Saints Healthy Marriage Project
Smart Marriages (Coalition for Marriage, Family and Couples Education)
Solutions 4 Families
Talk It Out
Yuba-Sutter Healthy Marriage Coalition

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  News and Notes
 December 2010

Welcome
The National Center for Family & Marriage Research (NCFMR), established in 2007 at Bowling Green State University (BGSU), welcomes you to News and Notes, our monthly electronic newsletter. News and Notes aims to keep you informed about the activities of the NCFMR. We will also announce funding and research opportunities, provide registration information for conferences and workshops, and keep you up to date on current research findings.

What's New at the NCFMR...

The following updates may be viewed on the NCFMR website.

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Request for Proposals: Small Grants Competition, 2011
Fathers and Fathering
Application Receipt Deadline: Friday, February 18, 2011


The National Center for Family & Marriage Research seeks to fund up to four proposals ($20,000 per award) to support innovative research that contributes to theoretical, conceptual, or methodological developments about fathers and fathering.

View Request for Proposal (RFP)
Link to External Grants webpage

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Examine Our Newly Released Data Resources
Our extensive data resources facilitate research on families and well-being.  Be sure to examine our newly released additions to the following collections:  Data Points, The Date Source, Measures Snapshots, and Working Paper Series.

Data Points
Tables and figures integrating statistics and demographic perspectives designed to investigate the links between marriage and family well-being at all stages of the life course. 
Hands in Handcuffs
Parental Incarceration


View Data Points webpage

The Data Source

Documents describing newly released data sets, such as American Community Survey (ACS), Monitoring the Future (MTF), and National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG), used by the family research community.
 

View The Data Source webpage

Measures Snapshots
A collection of detailed summaries of family measures available in several large, national data sets.

Child Well-being
National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health (Add Health)
Waves 3 & 4

View Measures Snapshots webpage


Working Papers

A collection of working papers written by faculty affiliates, researchers, and advanced graduate students.

Michal Grinstein-Weiss, Pajarita Charles, Shenyang Guo, Kim Manturuk, and Clinton Key (2009 External Grantees)
The Effect of Marital Status on Homeownership Among Low-Income Households
(WP-10-18)

View Working Paper Series webpage
 

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Congratulations to Professor Gary Lee
BGSU NCFMR Research Affiliate Awarded the Designation of 2010 NCFR
Dr. Gary Lee Fellow

Fellow status in the National Council on Family Relations is an honor awarded to relatively few living members of NCFR who have made outstanding and enduring contributions to the field of the family in the areas of scholarship, teaching, outreach, or professional service.  NCFMR congratulates Dr. Lee on his achievement!

View Dr. Lee's biography and CV
 


Birth Rate for Women 40-44 Rose to Highest Level Reported in 40+ Years

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention's National Center for Health Statistics presents data on U.S. births according to a wide variety of measures, such as maternal demographic
characteristics and birth and fertility rates.

Gap in Married and Unmarried Birth Rate Narrows

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a Births to married women per 1,000 married women aged 15-44 years.
b Births to unmarried women per 1,000 unmarried women aged 15-44 years.
Adapted from Table C "Births and birth rates for unmarried and married women, United States: 1980, 1985 and 1990-2008" by, J.A. Martin, B.E. Hamilton, P.D. Sutton, S.J. Ventura, and M.J.K. Mathews Osterman, 2010, Births: Final data for 2008, National vital statistics reports, Vol 59, No 1. by the National Center for Health Statistics. http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nvsr/nvsr59/nvsr59_01.pdf

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National Science Foundation (NSF) Offers Grant Opportunities
American Educational Research Association (AERA) Grants Program
Deadline: January 10, 2011

Supported by NSF, The AERA Grants Program fosters advanced scientific study of education and learning using large-scale data sets collected or supported by the National Center for Education Statistics (NCES), NSF, or other federal agencies.

The following research initiatives and institutes have set January 2011 deadlines.

AERA Dissertation Grants -- For detailed information, visit...
http://www.aera.net/grantsprogram/res_training/diss_grants/DGFly.html

AERA Research Grants -- For detailed information, visit...
http://www.aera.net/grantsprogram/res_training/res_grants/RGFly.html

AERA Institute on Statistical Analysis for Education Policy: Transitions from High School to College -- For detailed information, visit...
http://www.aera.net/grantsprogram/res_training/stat_institute/SIFly.html

AERA Faculty Institute for the Teaching of Statistics with Large-Scale Data Sets -- For detailed information, visit...
http://www.aera.net/grantsprogram/res_training/stat_institute/SIFacFly.html

If you have further questions, please contact:

Ming Lowe
Program Manager
AERA Grants Program
202-238-3200, ext. 227
grantsprogram@aera.net

Link to AERA website



Upcoming Events

January 2011

Call for Papers -- American Sociological Association (ASA) 2011 Annual Meeting
Social Conflict: Multiple Dimensions and Arenas
Date Due: January 13
Link to ASA

Call for Applications -- Postdoctoral Fellowships, 2011

Research and Training Program on Poverty and Public Policy
Date Due: January 14
Link to NPC

Call for Papers -- 2nd Annual IGSS Conference
Integrating Genetics and the Social Sciences
Date Due:  January 15
Link to IGSS

Call for Papers -- MPRC, NICHD, Economic Research Service, and IZA
International Perspectives on Time Use
Date Due:  January 15
Link to Maryland Population Research Center

Request for Proposals -- University of Kentucky Center for Poverty Research (UKCPR)
Research Program on Childhood Hunger
Date Due:  January 25
Link to UKCPR

Research Paper Competitions -- ICPSR

Undergraduates and Master's Students
Date Due:  January 31
Link to ICPSR

February 2011

Ohio Association of Community Action Agencies (OACAA)
2011 Winter Legislative Conference
Date:  February 2-4
Link to OACAA

2011 International Conference on Parent Education and Parenting
Changing Families in a Changing World
Date: February 10-11
Link to UNT

Call for Applications -- Center for Population Research in LGBT Health
Pre-Doctoral Mentoring Program in LGBT Health Research
Date Due: February 15
Link to Center for Population Research in LGBT Health

Call for Applications -- Inter-university Consortium for Political and Social Research (ICPSR)
Summer Undergraduate Internship Program -- 2011
Date Due: February 15
Link to ICPSR


March 2010

Call for Proposals -- National Council on Family Relations (NCFR) 73rd Annual Conference
Families and the Shifting Economy
Date Due: March 1
Link to NCFR

Southeastern Council on Family Relations (SECFR) Conference
We Shall Overcome: Changing the Status Quo for Families in the Southeast
Date: March 3-4
Link to SECFR Newsletter

Call for Applications -- 18th Annual RAND Summer Institute
Demography, Economics, and Epidemiology of Aging
Date Due:  March 11
Link to RAND

Texas Council on Family Relations (TCFR) Annual Conference

Promoting Healthy Families: Sexuality Across the Lifespan
Date: March 31-April 1
Preconference on Domestic Violence
Date: March 30
Link to TCFR



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